Is This True About Some Single Mothers? - Romance (2)

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Adaumunocha(f): 9:41pm On Sep 12, 2025

Pupanchie:
Single mothers are all cheaters, they did still find their way to go back to where they have vommited and still eat there, I'm only pity those that didn't know anything about single mothers

Pure lies

Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Lonestar124: 9:41pm On Sep 12, 2025

It's very risky to date a single mother

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Commentor: 9:46pm On Sep 12, 2025

symbianDON:
it is not always true. I know a very upright lady who actually became a single mother as a result of r@pe.

Outlier.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by PepeXKermit: 9:46pm On Sep 12, 2025

Plus, they will always pick their children over you 100% of the time!

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by PepeXKermit: 9:47pm On Sep 12, 2025*

joeyswift:
I dont understand the idea of demonising single mothers. They had the courage to keep the baby, while some useless self proclaimed single ladies have committed abortion multiple times. Yet the society victimises the single mothers. It is not right.

As you no dey demonize, go dey woth one wey you see bro. Nobody is stopping you.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by tunapawizzy: 9:48pm On Sep 12, 2025*

no dey consider single mothers...they should go and focus their energy on giving maximum love to their child, not looking for someone that will be penising them and playing artificial daddy role.
Widows deserve all the consideration though, but try find out o, make e no be say na she still use wahala kill her husband

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Osariemen12: 9:48pm On Sep 12, 2025

A single mother (windows excluded) are generally dangerous women who failed womanhood.

They are usually toxic and crafty. Most importantly, they never quit the first d*ck.

Marry one at your own peril.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Fuckyoumod: 9:52pm On Sep 12, 2025

keemsleek:
Yes, you are right but it's time people separate single mothers. The widows are there, women whose marriages did them wrong are there, the kind of ones you just talked about are there. The poster you replied to is right too. A single girl who has perfected her act of not giving birth by abortion or a coded runs girl who is single is worse than a single mother. So there are still good single mothers and good single women. We pray we don't fall into the hands of the worst of the two women.

Oga stop defending nonsense so people don't see you as a clown.

Why are you bring widows and married women here for? A married women single mothers? A widow is a widow, not a single mother.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 12, 2025

I pity men who claim they can comfort or repair women they were not the person that damaged them.

The only person that can repair an emotionally damaged lady is the man that damaged her.

Run away from a single mother especially if you're a single young man.

Single mothers should be for divorced older men or older widower.

A single mother will forever see a single man who married her as a si __ mp and crumb eater because he married her when she was not in her prime or out of the league.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by tunapawizzy: 9:56pm On Sep 12, 2025

keemsleek:
Yes, you are right but it's time people separate single mothers. The widows are there, women whose marriages did them wrong are there, the kind of ones you just talked about are there. The poster you replied to is right too. A single girl who has perfected her act of not giving birth by abortion or a coded runs girl who is single is worse than a single mother. So there are still good single mothers and good single women. We pray we don't fall into the hands of the worst of the two women.

So it is your own duty to go and save women that marriage did wrong...oooshey Saviour of the Universe, Corrector of Bad marriages...Kontinue

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Felimax(m): 10:00pm On Sep 12, 2025

cutecommend:
What makes you scared marrying a single Mother? Is it because they may go back to their baby Daddy if he is available?

Truly, we have nice single Mothers and they may love you without ever cheating.

Seize noise I beg!

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by lailo: 10:04pm On Sep 12, 2025

Single motherhood is all shades of wrong. The single mothers may be good mothers but never good wives and it is very dangerous to reward them with marriage. The western world is in family disarray today because of reign of single motherhood. Run my brother

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by TheWebbers(m): 10:07pm On Sep 12, 2025

Senseless post.

Your wife, be it single mum or not, if olosho still dey her eyes will go back to knack her ex or anyone she fancies.

You guys talk like only single mothers who later got married go back to exes, and that claim aint even true one ioata. In fact most single mothers develop strong hatred for their baby daddies forever for abandoning them with the baby. Stupid generalisation.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by pongwa(m): 10:14pm On Sep 12, 2025

cutecommend:
What makes you scared marrying a single Mother? Is it because they may go back to their baby Daddy if he is available?

Truly, we have nice single Mothers and they may love you without ever cheating.

the same reason that made her leave her ex will always present itself and she will tell you "he's just my baby daddy...." Yen yen yen

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by tunapawizzy: 10:20pm On Sep 12, 2025

PepeXKermit:
Plus, they will always pick their children over you 100% of the time!

Scold their children the way you will scold yours, you will see fire, if you are lucky and tough, she go give you better mood swing. They should be focused on giving full love to their kids not looking for an unsuspecting simp that will mend their broken heart.
What they need is therapy, not a second husband. They need better therapist that will tell them they can be fulfilled without a man.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by AyeMoJuba: 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2025

You'll learn the hard way....you think your elders are not wise enuf abi?

joeyswift:
I dont understand the idea of demonising single mothers. They had the courage to keep the baby, while some useless self proclaimed single ladies have committed abortion multiple times. Yet the society victimises the single mothers. It is not right.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by nesgeeek(m): 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2025

Personally, I didn't like single mothers. No matter how beautiful they are I can't date or marry any of them. I can only help them if possible.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by shileowo: 10:29pm On Sep 12, 2025

problem starts when the baby father wants to claim child or children. and you can train some else's . its a problem

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Orinechi: 10:35pm On Sep 12, 2025

keemsleek:
Yes, you are right but it's time people separate single mothers. The widows are there, women whose marriages did them wrong are there, the kind of ones you just talked about are there. The poster you replied to is right too. A single girl who has perfected her act of not giving birth by abortion or a coded runs girl who is single is worse than a single mother. So there are still good single mothers and good single women. We pray we don't fall into the hands of the worst of the two women.

Dont ever pray to marry a single mother who has a son for another man because if you do, sorry is your name.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by biggie73(m): 10:42pm On Sep 12, 2025

There's no problem dating a single mother - it's just not going to be me dating her. Others can do that. My intention is to start a family, not join one.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by tunapawizzy: 10:43pm On Sep 12, 2025*

shileowo:
problem starts when the baby father wants to claim child or children. and you can train some else's . its a problem

The challenges often begin even before that time. Consider a situation where the child she brings into the marriage is unruly and requires firm discipline, while the child you later have together is naturally calm and does not require the same level of correction. If both children were biologically yours, it would be easier to administer discipline fairly, based solely on each child’s behavior. However, when one child is not yours biologically, any attempt at firm correction may be misinterpreted as partiality. On the other hand, choosing to remain lenient in order to avoid such labels carries the risk of allowing your own child to be negatively influenced.
How do you go through this 1 beautiful soft life that God has given us, walking on so much egg shells, considering what message other people will get about how you raise your biological child. Life wey no hard by default, u use marriage to single mother make am difficult for yourself
Even for the single mothers too, just continue to be having boyfriends, if 1 stands by you forever, good for you. better for you, better for the sanity of your kids too. Stop forcing your kids into a forced family space because you want to satisfy your craving for steady gbola

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by tunapawizzy: 10:44pm On Sep 12, 2025

biggie73:
There's no problem dating a single mother - it's just not going to be me dating her. Others can do that. My intention is to start a family, not join one.

Very underrated response

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Jumbojax(m): 10:45pm On Sep 12, 2025

The drama involved is never worth it.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by 3kay945(m): 10:48pm On Sep 12, 2025

I am not a fan of generalisation.

Though shiiits happens

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Orinechi: 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2025*

One guy in my area dating one has sold his car and now moves on trek. He has been converted from catholic to winners where she worships just to have total control of him.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by correctguy101(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2025

The fact you said "SOME" already answers everything....

And who's to judge except the bloke that finds himself wanting one or maybe a couple? wink

I no trust my fellow men grin

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by Jorge91: 11:07pm On Sep 12, 2025

cutecommend:
What makes you scared marrying a single Mother? Is it because they may go back to their baby Daddy if he is available?

Truly, we have nice single Mothers and they may love you without ever cheating.

Once they set eyes on the father on their children, then guy sweet talks them na another round of sex marathon.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by YourGFsnatcher: 11:08pm On Sep 12, 2025

joeyswift:
I dont understand the idea of demonising single mothers. They had the courage to keep the baby, while some useless self proclaimed single ladies have committed abortion multiple times. Yet the society victimises the single mothers. It is not right.

Your efforts don't matter, only results count. We don't like that result

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by jaxxy(m): 11:11pm On Sep 12, 2025

imaginary Man who left against man who stayed, then u too leave now, since u insecure about man who left.

Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by histemple: 11:29pm On Sep 12, 2025

sulakishop:
There is an iota of truth there

It's actually true in most cases.

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Re: Is This True About Some Single Mothers? by purples25(f): 12:12am On Sep 13, 2025

There should be a way to mark single fathers too and prevent single ladies from marrying them. Because I don’t understand how I’m hearing about single mothers like they are a set of females that chose to impregnate themselves and stand alone.

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