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Oya gather round, let me ask, why dey some ladies still collect contacts from other guys when dem get boyfriends? Make we reason together.

Some pipo go say na just for networking, or maybe dem like the attention, but deep down, maybe dem no dey happy with their current relationship? Or maybe dem dey prepare for di worst case scenario? Whatever di reason, let's discuss.

Wetin dey make ladies think say dem fit still collect contacts from other guys when dem already get someone? Wetin you get to say? Share your thoughts!

They are not always satisfied with the one at hand. Always ready to dump each time a perceived higher bidder shows up

According to them, they left their options open but Reality they're prostituting

Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

Qatar2022:
According to them, they left their options open but Reality they're prostituting

Why date a guy you’re sure you can’t marry?
That’s what’s really confusing about ladies.

Brandiebird:
Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

Then you end up losing both because the one you thought was your husband just came to eat and leave while the boyfriend really had you in mind.

That’s why we have lots of single mothers in the world today.

I saw a post when someone said a lady will bill a struggling or hustling guy and give free access to a rich guy. The rich guy having many options may just want to swipe and pass. Then when she leaves the poor guy and end up broken, you hear “all men are scum”.

I better rub aboniki on my thing than trust any lady.

Never know what they want.
_Sigmund Freud.

favour32:
Never know what they want.
_Sigmund Freud.

Very confused gender😂😂😂

Modern day Nigerian women have no honor, their affection is for sale to the highest bidder.

If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

ReacherSaidNoth:
Modern day Nigerian women have no honor, their affection is for sale to the highest bidder.

That’s apt. My question is how they manage to remain loyal to more than one man. I can’t even flirt with more than 3 girls at once.

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

How do ladies manage to share the same energy among all of them. And I’m very sure there’s one she loves than the rest.

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

If she can't commit to me,then it's not worth it marrying her.. After all,I am doing her a favor,even considering her at all..

And they'll say. Babe imagine tunde ooo, trying to collect my number

Or babe. See wahala o. That Ojo that sells electronic is trying to ask me out all to boost ur ego and form loyalty
But won't tell you when Jide colects her number lailai

U knw why. She likes Jide. So she's reporting bros she ain't feeling to you. But keeps entertaining the one she likes

When u f*ck up or she ain't feeling u no more, she starts acting out and JIDE MOVES IN EASY BREEZY

Myrepublic:
If she can't commit to me,then it's not worth it marrying her.. After all,I am doing her a favor,even considering her at all..

That’s the truth. Since she already has eyes on the street, she should go to the street.

Natbrowny:
And they'll say. Babe imagine tunde ooo, trying to collect my number

Or babe. See wahala o. That Ojo that sells electronic is trying to ask me out all to boost ur ego and form loyalty
But won't tell you when Jide colects her number lailai

U knw why. She likes Jide. So she's reporting bros she ain't feeling to you. But keeps entertaining the one she likes

When u f*ck up or she ain't feeling u no more, she starts acting out and JIDE MOVES IN EASY BREEZY

That gender can’t be trusted. She start giving Jide green light and you start wondering why they move on so fast.

Natbrowny:
And they'll say. Babe imagine tunde ooo, trying to collect my number

Or babe. See wahala o. That Ojo that sells electronic is trying to ask me out all to boost ur ego and form loyalty
But won't tell you when Jide colects her number lailai

U knw why. She likes Jide. So she's reporting bros she ain't feeling to you. But keeps entertaining the one she likes

When u f*ck up or she ain't feeling u no more, she starts acting out and JIDE MOVES IN EASY BREEZY

In summary, na man dey do man. 🤣

Most Nigerian girls are low key prostitutes. They just want more guys who would fund their extravagant lifestyle and they wouldn't mind sleeping with them for cash despite the fact that they have a serious relationship.

Na nonsense girls full everywhere. All the decent ones are all married with kids.

COMRADES, honestly, I don't know why some people don't know how to mind their business

Another thread to bash Nigerian women but most will still end up marrying Nigerian women 😂

Na clients she dey gather.. erigga sef na learner oh..

Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

Because they want to have Sim 1,Sim2 and even Sim Fubara.

Boyfriend no be husband, they are leaving their options open.😂😂😂

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

So a lady is free to cheat until the Saturday y'all get married.......?? Lol...y'all are too funny .

Faithfulness is a habit ooo ....a ring on the finger doesn't manufacture faithfulness out of thin air...
... If loyalty is not there during dating then don't expect loyalty inside the marriage....

I have been into few baseless relationships with no impact instead na my money Dem dey use run relationship if Money no come out Love go die


God didn't send Adam a lover instead he sent him a helpmate dey there dey find lover till your money finishes.

Incase one option fails

The other one is a backup

SlavaUkraini:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

Please make me understand why I need 2 do wat u said are you a Nairaland (Seuns) bot?

They wan sell them (the guys) polo

Abi do you know of other reasons?

Where is the lie
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Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

What about the ones in their husband's house that still bleeps outside?