“if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga - Romance (2)

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by VaginaAcademic: 10:30pm On Sep 12, 2025

I always laugh when they're discussing about guys they dated. They think they are dating different guys not accepting the fact that they're into prostitution

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Softmirror: 10:30pm On Sep 12, 2025

As if when you tell guys you have a boyfriend they care about the so called brother code and not infringe. Na that time dem go dey mount pressure. Nigerian men.......🥴

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by omooba969(m): 10:34pm On Sep 12, 2025

To have a boyfriend and still giving your number out is actually a business model for these girls. It is called diversification. grin

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Jumbojax(m): 10:39pm On Sep 12, 2025

Because they are narcissists and they need all the attention they can get. They'll never get enough though a.k.a most are mad few are roaming

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by 3kay945(m): 10:40pm On Sep 12, 2025

It is a two way thing. Are the boyfriends not collecting ladies contact too?

I hate cheating. cool

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Silentgroper(m): 10:47pm On Sep 12, 2025

Mariangeles:
In summary, na man dey do man. 🤣

Make I do that man wey currently dey your side na ..

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Sammy5413(m): 10:50pm On Sep 12, 2025

Never put all ur eggs in one basket unless you legally married

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobicove(m): 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2025

advanceDNA:
So a lady is free to cheat until the Saturday y'all get married.......?? Lol...y'all are too funny .

Faithfulness is a habit ooo ....a ring on the finger doesn't manufacture faithfulness out of thin air...
... If loyalty is not there during dating then don't expect loyalty inside the marriage....

My friend 6 months is enough for you to know if you want to marry a lady and make a serious commitment.

You can't continue to lead her on for 3 or 4 years after forcing her to close all contact with other potential suitors then later you tell her that you're no longer interested in the relationship

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Wiseman2y(m): 10:56pm On Sep 12, 2025*

Because they are hoes looking for farmers.(Only sages will understand the usage of imagery of "hoes" and "farmers"). Warning! Farmers should tread with cautions , because hoes can stab in the LEGS during farming operations which can eventually lead to everlasting injuries or scars for farmers, remember that hoes are not loyal....

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobicove(m): 10:57pm On Sep 12, 2025

highness25:
What about the ones in their husband's house that still bleeps outside?

We're talking about single and searching ladies here not married women!

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Mariangeles(f): 11:05pm On Sep 12, 2025

Silentgroper:
Make I do that man wey currently dey your side na ..

No be wickedness be that?

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by jaxxy(m): 11:27pm On Sep 12, 2025

Mabuggi88:
They are not always satisfied with the one at hand. Always ready to dump each time a perceived higher bidder shows up

Or she's looking for a husband?

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by spiceadole(f): 11:39pm On Sep 12, 2025

SpencerForbes:
Why date a guy you’re sure you can’t marry?
That’s what’s really confusing about ladies.

It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by abbeyfel: 11:50pm On Sep 12, 2025

Na from there e dey start undecided

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 12:04am On Sep 13, 2025

spiceadole:
It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct

Very apt. You can’t decide the heart of men💯

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 12:10am On Sep 13, 2025

VaginaAcademic:
I always laugh when they're discussing about guys they dated. They think they are dating different guys not accepting the fact that they're into prostitution

I still feel those ladies aren’t good for marriage cos I believe if you cheat in a relationship, you’re likely to cheat when you get married.

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 13, 2025

ReacherSaidNoth:
Modern day Nigerian women have no honor, their affection is for sale to the highest bidder.

This is the funniest part of it all and they still end up blaming the men😂

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by motionarena: 12:12am On Sep 13, 2025

Mabuggi88:
They are not always satisfied with the one at hand. Always ready to dump each time a perceived higher bidder shows up

Typical Naija Guy
Will shame girls for the same thing they are guilty of

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 12:15am On Sep 13, 2025

Kobicove:
My friend 6 months is enough for you to know if you want to marry a lady and make a serious commitment.

You can't continue to lead her on for 3 or 4 years after forcing her to close all contact with other potential suitors then later you tell her that you're no longer interested in the relationship

Some ladies don’t wait till 6 months. 3 months in a relationship and the lady has already started denying the guy and claiming single. They start leading the former on while he thinks he has found the love of his life. Later on, they’ll invite the former to their traditional marriage while the former has struggled with them.

Men never trust a lady or pick anyone from the gutter except she has your ring or your child.

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Silentgroper(m): 12:36am On Sep 13, 2025

Mariangeles:
No be wickedness be that?

Well na man dey do man

I'm just tryna keep the culture going..

😎😎😎

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by ogascomax: 12:59am On Sep 13, 2025

Brandiebird:
Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 1:05am On Sep 13, 2025

ogascomax:
What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

Then you hear something like all men are scum and I do it all by myself😂😂😂😂

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by advanceDNA: 1:08am On Sep 13, 2025

Kobicove:
My friend 6 months is enough for you to know if you want to marry a lady and make a serious commitment.

You can't continue to lead her on for 3 or 4 years after forcing her to close all contact with other potential suitors then later you tell her that you're no longer interested in the relationship

We are talking about expecting loyalty from who u want to marry,...... U are jumping to length of court ship.....
If u like marry a woman u met 30 days ago... How can u say a woman can cheat until they get married....

Don't women themselves expect loyalty from the man they want to marry....??

Be like ur babe or wife dey read ur comment on nairaland. grin

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nahunger(m): 2:02am On Sep 13, 2025

SpencerForbes:
Then you end up losing both because the one you thought was your husband just came to eat and leave while the boyfriend really had you in mind.

That’s why we have lots of single mothers in the world today.

I saw a post when someone said a lady will bill a struggling or hustling guy and give free access to a rich guy. The rich guy having many options may just want to swipe and pass. Then when she leaves the poor guy and end up broken, you hear “all men are scum”.

I better rub aboniki on my thing than trust any lady.

Please don't rub aboniki oo 🤣🤣🤣

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by IPG25(m): 2:07am On Sep 13, 2025

Plan B

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:15am On Sep 13, 2025

Qatar2022:
According to them, they left their options open but Reality they're prostituting

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

The reason is the same one for why men with girlfriends collect numbers from other girls. No gender has a monopoly when it comes to Monkey branching. It is a free world out there. 🥱🥱🥱

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:18am On Sep 13, 2025

ReacherSaidNoth:
Modern day Nigerian women have no honor, their affection is for sale to the highest bidder.

Wetin honor don get their ancestors apart from a deluded sense of self and of reality baked deep into thick layers of suffering and humiliation for just being born women? undecided

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:20am On Sep 13, 2025

SpencerForbes:
➜That’s apt. My question is how they manage to remain loyal to more than one man. I can’t even flirt with more than 3 girls at once.

This one no go school at all! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

How can a person be loyal to more than one individual/group? When men cheat on their wives with other women, are those men equally classified as being loyal to all those wives and sidechicks? undecided

Men and women who monkey branch are not concerned about such delusions as loyalty. grin

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Brandiebird: 2:21am On Sep 13, 2025

ogascomax:
What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

Being ready for marriage and having intentions of marriage, are not the same thing.

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:21am On Sep 13, 2025

SpencerForbes:
➜How do ladies manage to share the same energy among all of them. And I’m very sure there’s one she loves than the rest.

It is the same way men who cheat can share the same energy among all of their partners. Energy no know gender at all! grin

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:24am On Sep 13, 2025

ogascomax:
➜What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

You mean like what if the girlfriend of a man is the wife that a man isn't aware of? These kain yeye questions are supposed to come with a penalty of at least 10 lashes of the cane! Which kain yeye question is this one? undecided

Since time immemorial, people have engaged in relationships merely for the sake of having fun or wiling away time; no law exists against such. If marriage is your goal in every relationship, something I highly doubt by the way, that one na your own cup of tea. sad

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:26am On Sep 13, 2025

VaginaAcademic:
I always laugh when they're discussing about guys they dated. They think they are dating different guys not accepting the fact that they're into prostitution

You mean like when guys date different girls, they are actually into man-wh0ring, aka prostitution, as well? undecided

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