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omooba969:
➜To have a boyfriend and still giving your number out is actually a business model for these girls. It is called diversification.

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

Dshocker:
➜While keeping your options open, the men keeps dumping her when they are done, because one way or the other, they will find out, that she is seeing another man. So who is fooling who?

Kobojunkie:
You mean like when guys date different girls, they are actually into man-wh0ring, aka prostitution, as well?

Dshocker:
I don't know if you are a guy, but if you are, i want to ask you a question.

When dating a girl, and you found out she is dating another guy, so will you go ahead and take her serious, by engaging her to marry you?

VaginaAcademic:
just dey play dey form woke it's a man's world. In the past men used to marry multiple women but that has changed in recent time.

Kobojunkie:
It is a model that applies to all genders. Men do it too... diversification, a form of monkey branching, I mean. 🥱🥱🥱

SpencerForbes:
I better rub aboniki on my thing than trust any lady.

ekitimanalways:
Married women are not left out!

omooba969:
✓ Between the man and the woman, who is more likely or well known to use diversification as a means for material gains?
Be honest. 🥱 🥱🥱

VaginaAcademic:
✓ just dey play dey form woke it's a man's world. In the past men used to marry multiple women but that has changed in recent time.

SpencerForbes:
Some ladies don’t wait till 6 months. 3 months in a relationship and the lady has already started denying the guy and claiming single. They start leading the former on while he thinks he has found the love of his life. Later on, they’ll invite the former to their traditional marriage while the former has struggled with them.

Men never trust a lady or pick anyone from the gutter except she has your ring or your child.

advanceDNA:
We are talking about expecting loyalty from who u want to marry,...... U are jumping to length of court ship.....
If u like marry a woman u met 30 days ago... How can u say a woman can cheat until they get married....

Don't women themselves expect loyalty from the man they want to marry....??

Be like ur babe or wife dey read ur comment on nairaland. .

advanceDNA:
So a lady is free to cheat until the Saturday y'all get married.......?? Lol...y'all are too funny .

Faithfulness is a habit ooo ....a ring on the finger doesn't manufacture faithfulness out of thin air...
... If loyalty is not there during dating then don't expect loyalty inside the marriage....

Kobojunkie:
It does not matter whether it is used for material gain or absolutely nothing at all, the point is both men and women use it to at least their emotional benefit. 😩😩😩

Sammy5413:
Never put all ur eggs in one basket unless you legally married

SpencerForbes:
Oya gather round, let me ask, why dey some ladies still collect contacts from other guys when dem get boyfriends? Make we reason together.

Some pipo go say na just for networking, or maybe dem like the attention, but deep down, maybe dem no dey happy with their current relationship? Or maybe dem dey prepare for di worst case scenario? Whatever di reason, let's discuss.

Wetin dey make ladies think say dem fit still collect contacts from other guys when dem already get someone? Wetin you get to say? Share your thoughts!

omooba969:
✓ Hahahahaha 🤣, now it doesn't matter...lol. Talk of dodging accountability, one of the toxic traits.
You couldn't even muster up courage to bare the truth while responding to my question....hahaha

ogascomax:
What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

Dshocker:
I don't know if you are a guy, but if you are, i want to ask you a question.

When dating a girl, and you found out she is dating another guy, so will you go ahead and take her serious, by engaging her to marry you?

Kobojunkie:
Courage to state that it is the same thing regardless of the benefit claimed by one group of the other? Or are you wanting us to pretend there are some invisible rules somewhere in the ether meant to guide how people choose to monkey branch in our day and time?

Between the man and the woman, who is more likely or well known to use diversification as a means for material gains?

omooba969:
You notorious for arguing blindly though, or deflecting. Here's my question again 👇 -

Kobojunkie:
Wetin honor don get their ancestors apart from a deluded sense of self and of reality baked deep into thick layers of suffering and humiliation for just being born women?

Kobojunkie:
Both do it! And it doesn't really matter.

SlavaUkraini:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

omooba969:
✓ Haaaa! FEMINISM in full glare, kinda difficult to hide or disguise after all...lol
I gerrit now. 🥱🥱🥳