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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 3:41pm On Sep 12, 2025
Chizzyferd:
Oga op for your own good and mental wellbeing please call it a quiet now that you still can before water pass garri
Exactly. I already did so
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by ruffkenny: 4:55pm On Sep 12, 2025
You are not her level bro,move on..
She can never be faithful to you,so u got no right to forgive her,that's weak, No real man forgives a cheating woman except he is not man enough..
Actually that is being simp..Remember that u will never have peace of mind if u decide to unblock her and be with her..U can't marry such a slut,let your family know,get a better girl on your level,more mature and who would love and respect you,goodluck.
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Germi9: 6:08pm On Sep 12, 2025
Brahamimo:
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Abeg o
E shock you Abi? 😃😃
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Whois(m): 7:53pm On Sep 12, 2025
Brahamimo:
So why did u now offer her loan twice before the third request?
..

I didn't offer at all. Why she kept coming back is why she became suspicious
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 10:09pm On Sep 12, 2025
Whois:
..

I didn't offer at all. Why she kept coming back is why she became suspicious
Okay
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 10:10pm On Sep 12, 2025
Germi9:
E shock you Abi? 😃😃
I swear e shock me. U want make my popsy kpai me?

He will say " it is better not to have a child at all than to have a child who is Foolish"
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 10:14pm On Sep 12, 2025
ruffkenny:
You are not her level bro,move on..
She can never be faithful to you,so u got no right to forgive her,that's weak, No real man forgives a cheating woman except he is not man enough..
Actually that is being simp..Remember that u will never have peace of mind if u decide to unblock her and be with her..U can't marry such a slut,let your family know,get a better girl on your level,more mature and who would love and respect you,goodluck.
You've spoken like a real elder. I really appreciate you sir.
Nothing is ever going to make me accept her again. I've already blocked her everywhere and deleted whatever that is related to her. I even blocked her friends and siblings plus her mum. I warned my mum never to call or pick her calls else I'll have issues with her . I did all these today but I Already blocked her like four days ago
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by ranger123: 10:37pm On Sep 12, 2025
7demons:
Bros, I don't know if you will see this message, but I hardly log in these days on Nairaland or even if I do, probability is that the first 2 pages has been already occupied.

I Don't know how old you are? Probably in your mid or late 20's or early 30's.
Take everything you read on the 1st 2 pages here with a pinch of salt.
It's nature of humans to cheat. IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN. That should be least of your worries if you're SURE of the relationship. It hurts but it's part of human nature. It's bound to happen.

As the World Technologically advance(Globalization and Woke society) more of these are bound to happen. It will be a normal trend.
But the real question here is; How do you want to protect your relationship?
If she comes back begging, with sincerity please accept her back and work things out and that should not be the norm for you to start misbehaving.

Lastly this term Redpill is controversial.
Please use your brain and do not digest every story you read on line cos all our struggles are different.
Bro, nothing like that. I can confidently bet my soft feather pillow that if he takes her back , she's definitely gonna cheat again but this time she's gonna be more smarter about it.
Any lady that cheats in a relationship should be cut off ASAP because as a man or guy, the thought of another man banging ur babe is nvr gonna leave you. It will haunt you every day of your life. The best thing is for both parties to go their separate ways . OP whatever you do, NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING PARTNER
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by ruffkenny: 8:01am On Sep 13, 2025
[You are even lucky it happened now,would have been worse if you had married her before u found out she is a cheat,once a cheat always a cheat,As a man if u ever forgive a cheating partner,u will loose your self worth and gradually u will loose yourself, your values and principle,Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet..,quote author=Brahamimo post=136782723]

You've spoken like a real elder. I really appreciate you sir.
Nothing is ever going to make me accept her again. I've already blocked her everywhere and deleted whatever that is related to her. I even blocked her friends and siblings plus her mum. I warned my mum never to call or pick her calls else I'll have issues with her . I did all these today but I Already blocked her like four days ago[/quote]
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 8:54am On Sep 13, 2025
ruffkenny:
[You are even lucky it happened now,would have been worse if you had married her before u found out she is a cheat,once a cheat always a cheat,As a man if u ever forgive a cheating partner,u will loose your self worth and gradually u will loose yourself, your values and principle,Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet..,quote author=Brahamimo post=136782723]

You've spoken like a real elder. I really appreciate you sir.
Nothing is ever going to make me accept her again. I've already blocked her everywhere and deleted whatever that is related to her. I even blocked her friends and siblings plus her mum. I warned my mum never to call or pick her calls else I'll have issues with her . I did all these today but I Already blocked her like four days ago
Thanks so much Sir
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by 7demons: 1:36pm On Sep 13, 2025
ranger123:
Bro, nothing like that. I can confidently bet my soft feather pillow that if he takes her back , she's definitely gonna cheat again but this time she's gonna be more smarter about it.
Any lady that cheats in a relationship should be cut off ASAP because as a man or guy, the thought of another man banging ur babe is nvr gonna leave you. It will haunt you every day of your life. The best thing is for both parties to go their separate ways . OP whatever you do, NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING PARTNER
The older you get, the more better you will understand my comment.
Human quest for lust is insatiable. Have that in mind. Hope you know the reason why all these enhancement drugs is a big market?
It's painful to take back a cheating partner but there's alot of thing you need to forgo of you REALLY love that person which is Beyond LUSTFUL attraction cos Las Las, no body is perfect!
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by YemyTemmy: 2:51pm On Sep 13, 2025
Brahamimo:
Haba!
E never reach this level na. U wan use swear finish me?
Baba....e pass that level, i was once in that shoe and was stupid enough to forgive infidelity, the thing reshaped and damaged some things in me, i wont wish such for any noble man, unless u are a player, u fit take her back make una dey play dey go till you are tired
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by torqque7(m): 3:25pm On Sep 13, 2025
🤣🤣🤣A SIMP saying he is not a SIMP..how hilarious..oga you are a simp for accepting a cheat back in the first place and also asking her to choose between you two..An alpha would have simply ignored her confession of cheating and continue knacking her while his emotions are no longer in the relationship but looking for a new queen..Asking a girl to choose is a weak move...

When my ex cheated on me with a yahoo boy,I didn't ask her to choose,I just kept knacking her but I was upset about it but I expected it cos na Edo girl who is a student so I know it was just a matter of time before she go cheat..Anyway las las the knacking sef no come dey regular cos she noticed I had checked out emotionally and she hated me and I had a new babe that she hated too..she give herself brain and she move lol..Even though I no go lie me sef cheat on her wella but his it from her until I caught her then my own was no longer hidden again she knew I was now seeing other girls so she grew this hatred for me..na you cheat na you still come dey form vex🤣🤣
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by torqque7(m): 3:42pm On Sep 13, 2025
Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want
Hi how are you? your location says Anambra is that accurate?
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 5:17pm On Sep 13, 2025
YemyTemmy:
Baba....e pass that level, i was once in that shoe and was stupid enough to forgive infidelity, the thing reshaped and damaged some things in me, i wont wish such for any noble man, unless u are a player, u fit take her back make una dey play dey go till you are tired
I've dumped her and I'm not going back.
I'm not a player, I don't double date either
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 5:20pm On Sep 13, 2025
torqque7:
🤣🤣🤣A SIMP saying he is not a SIMP..how hilarious..oga you are a simp for accepting a cheat back in the first place and also asking her to choose between you two..An alpha would have simply ignored her confession of cheating and continue knacking her while his emotions are no longer in the relationship but looking for a new queen..Asking a girl to choose is a weak move...

When my ex cheated on me with a yahoo boy,I didn't ask her to choose,I just kept knacking her but I was upset about it but I expected it cos na Edo girl who is a student so I know it was just a matter of time before she go cheat..Anyway las las the knacking sef no come dey regular cos she noticed I had checked out emotionally and she hated me and I had a new babe that she hated too..she give herself brain and she move lol..Even though I no go lie me sef cheat on her wella but his it from her until I caught her then my own was no longer hidden again she knew I was now seeing other girls so she grew this hatred for me..na you cheat na you still come dey form vex🤣🤣
Ok Mr perfect, Mr Alpha and Omega, I agree. I'm a Simp. Thank you
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 5:21pm On Sep 13, 2025
torqque7:
Hi how are you? your location says Anambra is that accurate?
What's your problem sef?
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by YemyTemmy: 5:27pm On Sep 13, 2025
Brahamimo:
I've dumped her and I'm not going back.
I'm not a player, I don't double date either
You deserve better and i wish you well, but remember say i don swear down say if u go back make something do you....

I await your testimony for something good....try dey attend GEHGEH UNIVERSITY also
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Germi9: 10:26pm On Sep 13, 2025
Brahamimo:
I swear e shock me. U want make my popsy kpai me?

He will say " it is better not to have a child at all than to have a child who is Foolish"
I swear broh..
Pls don’t forgive a cheating woman. They never change.
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 11:15am On Sep 14, 2025
Germi9:
I swear broh..
Pls don’t forgive a cheating woman. They never change.
Sure bro.

Thanks so much Sir 🙏
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 11:17am On Sep 14, 2025
YemyTemmy:
You deserve better and i wish you well, but remember say i don swear down say if u go back make something do you....

I await your testimony for something good....try dey attend GEHGEH UNIVERSITY also
Abeg try remove the swear na 🙏🙏.
U don dey make me fear now.
She's being crying throughout, begging here and there. Using different lines to call and text me cos I blocked her everywhere. She said she didn't sleep with the guy
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Rizzputin(m): 12:59pm On Sep 14, 2025
Brahamimo:
Abeg try remove the swear na 🙏🙏.
U don dey make me fear now.
She's being crying throughout, begging here and there. Using different lines to call and text me cos I blocked her everywhere. She said she didn't sleep with the guy
Crying is all part of female manipulation. She 100% slept with him and is trying to find a way back


Find another woman.
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 10:07pm On Sep 14, 2025
Rizzputin:
Crying is all part of female manipulation. She 100% slept with him and is trying to find a way back


Find another woman.
Ok sir, my lecturer. Professor emeritus
Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by YemyTemmy: 4:37am On Sep 15, 2025
Brahamimo:
Abeg try remove the swear na 🙏🙏.
U don dey make me fear now.
She's being crying throughout, begging here and there. Using different lines to call and text me cos I blocked her everywhere. She said she didn't sleep with the guy
Obviously you have taken her back or considering doing so ..... Pls enjoy the consequences

She is only crying to come back cos her expectation from the other guy wasnt met .... You are a back up or second choice, expect this cycle all the time from her


Cheating doesnt just happen , its a plan and a lifestyle
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