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Kobojunkie:
Why aren't you screaming honor should be something men out to aim for as well if feminism is really the problem here? 🙄🙄🙄

I responded to that part of your comment where you referred to honor as a deluded sense of self and of reality baked deep into thick layers of suffering and humiliation for just being born women. 🙂

An attempt to negate the female essence.

I gerrit though.

Is laziness,they now see relationship as a full time job.

Men should go for quality women rather than all these lazy and hungry ones

omooba969:
➜I responded to that part of your comment where you referred to honor as a deluded sense of self and of reality baked deep into thick layers of suffering and humiliation for just being born women. 🙂 An attempt to negate the female essence. I gerrit though.

Negate the female essence of something both men and women are known to do? Are you sure you are OK upstairs? 😏

Helper n boyfriend no be the same thing

May your boyfriend not block your way to meet your helper

omooba969:
Like Kobojunkie rightly mentioned, @bolded is referred to as 'monkey branching'.

Thanks. It’s just really funny they don’t have conscience and can never appreciate. Let’s be clear, women never love. So when it’s time, just look for one virgin above 17 and marry. Cos the ones we have now are already gone.

werisetogether:
LOL

Guy, be calming down...

Sorry oo😂😂😂 but that gender wicked wella😂

Kobojunkie:
It is the same way men who cheat can share the same energy among all of their partners. Energy no know gender at all!

I disagree. Cos a man will always tell his side chick he has a wife while a lady can deceive 7 guys into thinking they are the one. Especially those above 25. They are very cunning and manipulative.

Kobojunkie:
This one no go school at all! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

How can a person be loyal to more than one individual/group? When men cheat on their wives with other women, are those men equally classified as being loyal to all those wives and sidechicks?

Men and women who monkey branch are not concerned about such delusions as loyalty.

Sorry bros😂😂😂 we can’t call that loyalty. Wrong use of English, I apologize.

Nahunger:
Please don't rub aboniki oo 🤣🤣🤣

I pity who Dey love that gender😂😂😂

spiceadole:
It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct

With all their cunning abilities, they can’t still detect someone that loves them genuinely and men that want to use and dump them? I thought women were emotional beings and are more emotionally intelligent than men🤔

advanceDNA:
We are talking about expecting loyalty from who u want to marry,...... U are jumping to length of court ship.....
If u like marry a woman u met 30 days ago... How can u say a woman can cheat until they get married....

Don't women themselves expect loyalty from the man they want to marry....??

Be like ur babe or wife dey read ur comment on nairaland. .

😂😂😂

Even the married one dey collect

SpencerForbes:
I pity who Dey love that gender😂😂😂

Long throat wan off them 😂😂

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

You're a woman
This is woman reason toward relationship

tunde1200:
You're a woman
This is woman reason toward relationship

You're still a kid in reasoning

As you become more mature you'll see things differently

These are both genders , guys also collect contacts of other girls while still in an active relationship.
People are not just sincere.

omooba969:
Stolen kisses are the sweetest.

Kobojunkie:
Negate the female essence of something both men and women are known to do? Are you sure you are OK upstairs? 😏

I haven't mentioned that both of them don’t do it. I'm all about the drivers, and I noted that it is mostly business for most of you women (for material gains).

Brandiebird:
Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

if you know your boyfriend is not your husband to be why are you dating him

Natbrowny:
And they'll say. Babe imagine tunde ooo, trying to collect my number

Or babe. See wahala o. That Ojo that sells electronic is trying to ask me out all to boost ur ego and form loyalty
But won't tell you when Jide colects her number lailai

U knw why. She likes Jide. So she's reporting bros she ain't feeling to you. But keeps entertaining the one she likes

When u f*ck up or she ain't feeling u no more, she starts acting out and JIDE MOVES IN EASY BREEZY

Bro what you miss is that, Once your babe come home and she can mention a guy name to you he is disturbing me .. hmmmm

As a man just know your babe is about to consider that guy, date n knack him to satisfy are curiousity 1st

if you display insecurity to her, it will only hasten the process and if you form i dont care she will still fvck that name . don't try to stop her

the only thing you can do to help her at that period is to urge her on to be with him, howfar have you seen Tunde house is it nice ?? tease her more with the new guy's name

chidiokay:
if you know your boyfriend is not your husband to be why are you dating him

Heard they are dating for fun😂😂😂 later we’ll hear he was wicked. He wasted her time. They just keep confusing themselves😂

Mabuggi88:
They are not always satisfied with the one at hand. Always ready to dump each time a perceived higher bidder shows up

The op and that failed musician Erigga should shut the trap they call mouth. What about when a girl has devoted her entire life to date a single man, and at the end of the day, the man goes ahead to dump her for a fresh girl to marry? People like you will not see that, only to insult women, that is what you all know.

Brandiebird:
Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

Exactly, you are right.

SpencerForbes:
Why date a guy you’re sure you can’t marry?
That’s what’s really confusing about ladies.

Will she be the one to propose marriage to the guy, guys that are very deceptive, how will she know what is in the heart of the so-called man she is dating? If she proposes to the man now, it is the same people like you who will downgrade her as being cheap.

SpencerForbes:
Heard they are dating for fun😂😂😂 later we’ll hear he was wicked. He wasted her time. They just keep confusing themselves😂

keep telling yourself lies you hear, as if girls do not date guys genuinely, and the guy ends up dumping her for another.

fxexperts:
The op and that failed musician Erigga should shut the trap they call mouth. What about when a girl has devoted her entire life to date a single man, and at the end of the day, the man goes ahead to dump her for a fresh girl to marry? People like you will not see that, only to insult women, that is what you all know.

Exactly, you are right.

Will she be the one to propose marriage to the guy, guys that are very deceptive, how will she know what is in the heart of the so-called man she is dating? If she proposes to the man now, it is the same people like you who will downgrade her as being cheap.

Bros/madam be calming down. Very few unserious guys will leave a lady that was there for them while they were broke. The major problem is while the ladies were there when the guy was soaking garri, they were still going to meet ahlaji and chief to eat shawarma thinking the guy does not know. The guy will continue to act like he loves you till he’s upgraded then he’ll expose you. The issues with ladies is that they think we guys are dumb but we just act so.

You’re with me, you’re still collecting numbers from chief, what’s your expectation, why, what if the chief starts pressing money, why don’t you date the chief? This are some of the questions that runs in our mind when we experience that.

We start asking ourselves, this girl I’m dying for, is she dying for only me or just pretending to die for all of us?

So ladies if you want to stick to a guy, just stick to him. If you observe he’s not serious about you, take a leave and go meet the other one that’s serious. Don’t tell me you’re not a prostitute and you’re keeping like 5 backups. You be memory card?🤔🤔🤔

Take a leave if you’re not sure. Don’t make me think I’m the only one while you have others. Don’t pretend to die for me when you’re still living for others. Take a L that’s the best.

Kobojunkie:
It does not matter whether it is used for material gain or absolutely nothing at all, the point is both men and women use it to at least their emotional benefit. 😩😩😩

It matters alot Sis.

omooba969:
This idea feels like a burden sometimes.

I have never had that burden. It makes the lady to relax better and focus on you. It helps both of you to concentrate and to avoid other distraction. It saves stress.
You can only do that to a lady who think same with you otherwise she will still double date.
If she is working or engaged with something it's better for you.

Myrepublic:
If she can't commit to me,then it's not worth it marrying her.. After all,I am doing her a favor,even considering her at all..

Ajeh

Gbadugbakun:
Most Nigerian girls are low key prostitutes. They just want more guys who would fund their extravagant lifestyle and they wouldn't mind sleeping with them for cash despite the fact that they have a serious relationship.

Na nonsense girls full everywhere. All the decent ones are all married with kids.

some married ones are more worried they just managed to see who wanted to marry them.A woman is a woman(married or single)

Gbadugbakun:
Most Nigerian girls are low key prostitutes. They just want more guys who would fund their extravagant lifestyle and they wouldn't mind sleeping with them for cash despite the fact that they have a serious relationship.

Na nonsense girls full everywhere. All the decent ones are all married with kids.

some married ones are more terrible,they just managed to see who wanted to marry them.A woman is a woman(married or single)