₦airaland Forum

heracles1:
most of us redpillars are broke angry youth. that hardly get sex

Nyascobar1414:
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I'm redpilled,I just can't fake it..
I'm just aware of the intersexual dynamics,reason why I snub women😹.
I mean I'm just too authentic to fake it..
Can't roll with the herd pls😔.

Kipaji:
A man's life begins when he is born.not at 30, not at 40.

Whatever age you are, live life and enjoy it. Enjoy the highs and the lows, the calm and the timult, the hope and the despair. Being invisible at 20, doesn't mean that your life hasn't started yet. The start of your life is not determined by when women give you attention.
Whether you are 21 or 42 don't postpone happiness to tomorrow. Live now. Not at 30, not at 40, not at 50.

SpencerForbes:
Young man in your 20s, women are not your friends, pussy is your greatest enemy as much as your preeq is too.
Never try to build anything with a woman at that age because it will surely scatter to nothing, don't try to invest in a woman because you will never fail to regret it.
The mission at this moment of your life is to add value to yourself the best possible way you can.
Chasing women at this point of your life is not a flex, it will destroy you and steal away your glory days.
Don't get any woman pregnant, don't marry any woman as this will be your greatest undoing because you are not yet matured enough to handle the responsibilities that comes with such lifestyle.
Another thing you must never forget is that.
A girl of 20 years and a boy of 20 years are not the same, their realities and the way the society treats them are different.
A girl of at 20 years is the most valuable creature on earth but a boy of 20 years is the most invisible creatures on earth.
So you as a young man in your 20s building relationships with a young woman in her 20s is foolishness because the woman in her 20s is meant for men in their 30s and 40s and the reason is because this men are in their prime, they are expected to have achieve something significant in life unlike you a baby.
A mans life begins at 30s and the reason is because this is your implementation years of what you have learnt in your 20s, this is when the world is watching your results and not your childishess.
You gotta to be wise brothers.
I will tell you the truth and I lie not, build yourself..
Leave women and to entangle yourself in any serious relationship.
There is time for everything, and your 20s is not the right time.
If you are scared that the beautiful woman you are dating now will be taking by another man, you are a big f00l, the truth is they are bunch of beautiful women on earth, just arrive and see the waiting endlessly at the finish line.
Be wise.
Follow and learn more wisdom brothers.
Stay putinized

#copied

isyourboy:
There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

SpencerForbes:
MODERN WOMEN BROKE THE FIRST RULE OF LOVE: YOU DON’T REPLACE PEOPLE YOU’RE STILL WITH

There used to be a rule—unspoken but sacred: no matter what happens, you don’t seek someone else while still with your partner.

But modern women threw that rule out the window and replaced it with Wi-Fi, location switches, backup plans, and burner accounts.

Now we have relationships where the moment she’s not happy, she’s hunting. And the moment you blink, she’s gone emotionally but still living in your house.

1. Emotional infidelity is now a feature, not a flaw. She’ll tell you she’s “just venting to a friend.” But it’s always a male friend. And it always sounds like a husband application. One bad argument with you and she’s texting someone else with “he doesn’t understand me.” Every word is betrayal dressed as harmless honesty. Modern women don’t leave—they emotionally relocate and still want the bills paid while they shop for upgrades.

2. Her loyalty ends when her comfort ends. Can’t afford the new iPhone? No problem, she has a backup provider. Can’t travel this summer? Her “work brother” already booked the trip. Modern love isn’t about vows or values—it’s about convenience. She’s yours until you miss a payment, until you say no, until you stop entertaining her like a personal Netflix subscription. And the moment life gets hard, she logs out.

3. One woman, three boyfriends, five locations. There’s the weekday boyfriend, the Sunday church flirt, the Instagram follower who sends “you look amazing” every morning. Modern women don’t cheat anymore—they rotate. They build rosters, hide apps, change contact names, upload stories for one man and kiss another goodnight. Loyalty is just a filter—applied until the DMs heat up.

4. She’s not single—she’s between sponsors. You think you’re building something together. But to her, you’re a chapter, an access point, a sponsor for her current phase. When the money shifts, when the attention dips, when you’re focused on legacy instead of lashes—she’s already calling her ex, already replying to the “heyyy” she left on read six weeks ago. Modern dating isn’t about finding the one—it’s about never being alone.

5. Men are waking up—and backing out. Men aren’t dumb. They see the games, the backup plans, the “just friends” with six-pack abs and long hugs. And they’re backing out. Not because they hate love—but because modern women have turned relationships into contests of attention where the winner is whoever provides the most stimulation, not stability. So men are going ghost. Not from fear—but from wisdom. You can’t build with a woman who treats your presence like a trial version while keeping three tabs open for other options.

Final Word: When you normalize replacement—you kill commitment. If the first sign of trouble sends you looking for someone else, you were never committed. You were leasing love. Don’t cry when men stop proposing, stop investing, stop trying. Because no real man will play musical chairs with his money, time, or legacy. He’s not afraid of building. He’s afraid of building alone while you entertain alternatives. You’re not a partner if you’re always prepared to leave. And no amount of body count denial, emotional justification, or “just friends” excuses can hide the fact that modern women killed the first rule of love—then wondered why no one believes in it anymore.

isyourboy:
There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

Fiscus105:
Even though man will marry woman that his own father sponsored her education alone. Afterwards, man will force such lady to abandon her father name and impose his on name on her, not done with that oo, all the seeds ,that she experiencing excruciating pains to bore, the seed would bear such man name.


Frustrated and hopeless guys who refuse to have life, would lament all his life and eventually end bitterly.

Kipaji:
A man's life begins when he is born.not at 30, not at 40.

Whatever age you are, live life and enjoy it. Enjoy the highs and the lows, the calm and the timult, the hope and the despair. Being invisible at 20, doesn't mean that your life hasn't started yet. The start of your life is not determined by when women give you attention.
Whether you are 21 or 42 don't postpone happiness to tomorrow. Live now. Not at 30, not at 40, not at 50.

Fiscus105:
Even though man will marry woman after her own father sponsored her education alone. Afterwards, man would force such lady to abandon her father's name and impose his on name on her, not done with that oo, all the seeds ,that she experiencing excruciating pains to bore, the seed would bear such man name. YET MAN STILL AT DISADVANTAGED.


Frustrated and hopeless guys who refuse to have life, would lament all his life and eventually end bitterly.

isyourboy:
There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

Gerrard59:
I don analyse am tire and have come to the realisation that it is a woman's world. I am supposed to write on this sef. An educated woman in today's world has more power and opportunity than ever recorded in history. The only way out for a man is to have few children so the bulk of his savings and investments stay within himself till he kpeme. This is because even the children at a young age cling more to their mother than their father.

Our men should be more selfish and better planners. The era of paying for the education of a woman one is not married to has to end. Complusory taking care of her siblings (that is her father's responsibility) too has to cease. Conduct DNA test in at least two reputable centres.

The sex is not even frequent as the man has to beg for it. Jesus! Wetin I don read about sex between husband and wife from today's women scare me to the bones! The favourite question is: "Is sex food?"

Thank God for Ndi red pill even though I have been harsh towards them in the past. They have been a force for good.

Gerrard59:
I don analyse am tire and have come to the realisation that it is a woman's world. I am supposed to write on this sef. An educated woman in today's world has more power and opportunity than ever recorded in history. The only way out for a man is to have few children so the bulk of his savings and investments stay within himself till he kpeme. This is because even the children at a young age cling more to their mother than their father.

Our men should be more selfish and better planners. The era of paying for the education of a woman one is not married to has to end. Complusory taking care of her siblings (that is her father's responsibility) too has to cease. Conduct DNA test in at least two reputable centres.

The sex is not even frequent as the man has to beg for it. Jesus! Wetin I don read about sex between husband and wife from today's women scare me to the bones! The favourite question is: "Is sex food?"

Thank God for Ndi red pill even though I have been harsh towards them in the past. They have been a force for good.

lymelyte:
Which of these is easy to forgive.
A lady cheating on her boyfriend with a girl vs a lady cheating on her boyfriend with other men?

lymelyte:
Which of these is easy to forgive.
A lady cheating on her boyfriend with a girl vs a lady cheating on her boyfriend with other men?

tundebam97:
Men vs women are not judge the same way in the society

A woman value is in her chastity while a man value is in his financial stability

emmaodet:
If you survive losing the woman you loved most, you can survive anything.
Losing the woman you loved most is one of the deepest emotional trials a man can face—it shakes your identity, your sense of security, and even your vision for the future.
But if you endure it without breaking, you discover an inner strength that becomes unshakable.
Pain forces growth, and heartbreak teaches discipline, self-respect, and emotional resilience. Once you learn to rebuild yourself from that kind of loss, setbacks in business, friendships, or life challenges become easier to face—because you’ve already survived the hardest test of the heart.
The real strength is in the man he becomes afterward. That kind of pain is either an anchor or jet fuel. Choose the fuel.

SpencerForbes:
What a lost island🙁 an island with so many gems. Seems all the guys are now men😢 or they’ve migrated to telegram.

PinkNature:
life is a journey. We've evolved passed this destination.

COVID-19 lockdown was one of the driving factor of this thread. COVID-19 lockdown is now a thing of the past.