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My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

It is well bro God see you through all this until your time on earth is over

Only one person having these countless addictions... Legions of wahala
How will the country move forward,when only you have all these lacuna. A hot donut in the mouth is for better than a hot dog in the ya*nsh.

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Since 2018 you are still fighting addiction, if u don't put ur life in check, you just might be worse than ur dad.

Addictions are demonic and is only Christ that can free you from such bondage. Sincerely give you life to Christ and change the course of your life , don't end up like your dad because you weren't proud of his lifestyle, self-realization is the beginning of freedom. Christ is the solution to your problems

This boy has come to afflict us with his unending tales of deliberate walk into doom.

Instead make you carry your old man go hospital for proper diagnosis and treatment, you dey here dey cap dust.🥱

Caaz:
Only one person having these countless addiction... Legions of wahala

Legions of wahala 😆😆😆😆😆

Who are those taking this guy to be serious.

He is just whyning you and you are here falling for the whyning.

You need to change that your moniker for a start.... first step.

Oh no no I Oh no no Oh no noOh no noOh no noOh no noOh no no

Write the GRE and go abroad to elevate your life.

Do you understand?

No, you're not doomed. You're a piece of diamond covered in dirt, and needs to be refined.


You're 33, plenty of time to rewrite your own story. Acknowledge your habits as the chains they are, but break them one win at a time: Track triggers, swap junk for real food/exercise, delete betting apps today, and seek therapy or a men's group for accountability (Nigerian resources like MANLY exist). If faith calls, lean in, deliverance starts with surrender. You've restarted before; this time, build a non-negotiable routine and celebrate Day 7. You're not doomed; choose different. You've got this.

This one is a generational currse issue.


Go for deliverance

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Womanizing free but you masturbate
Jjgghjhggc

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

If you continue that way you'll be more miserable than your dad. But if you can try to abstain from those vices I believe you can overcome them.

This man you still dey this forum?
Baba go create profile for x dey narrate your ordeal.
E dey funny.

You are the true son of your father. No need for DNA.

Falsy stories. Not difficult to spot a made up story just to keep people engaged and immediately pushed to the front page.

I Urge And Encourage you to Take After Your Father's Footsteps And Even Surpass Him, You Shall Be Greater Than Him

Your Dad likely have kidney issue.

Swollen legs and problem urinating. Hmm

You need to reduce carbonated drinks, alcohol, smoke etc. to the nearest minimum.

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Damn shon

Baba, only you carry all these problems?!

I bow for you Sir

Addiction to loperamide is quiet strange. Loperamide is an antiintestinal motility which is meeant to slow down your bowel movement, and in turn reduce your frequency of stooling. It's not known to be addictive...so, I think your brain is already wired to think it's a solution to your diarrhea .
The solution, if I may surggest ,is to sick medical help and investigate the cause of your diarrhea, instead of persistently ingesting loperide.
There are many factors that could be responsible for the diarrhea, which when found could actually be treated and at the end stop the recurrence of it.
Loperamide could tilt you into having other terrible complications like nutritional deficiency in the nearest future. So put a stop t it and seek help.
Believe me, you your problem far less provided you haven't indulged in other heavily addictive substances like nicotine, narcotics etc.
Womanising is not actually a big deal, provided you are not being careless with your act. Patronage of a brothel is just a bit gross and unbifitting of a psn you earns as much as you have stated.
You can enjoy the company of clean gals with as much as you earn without visiting brothels man, wisen up.
Regarding your father's leg swelling and difficulty in urinating, I think it has nothing to do with his past history of womanising.
Leg swelling could be a symptom of a heart-related disease like hypertensive heart failure or kidney disease, so, do him some good by taking him to a good hospital for evaluation and treatment instead of having this notion about him. Secondly, his urinary challenge could be related to prostate enlargement, a medical condition common with almost every aged man. It's also treatable.
Stop harboring wrong convictions about your dad when you haven't properly investigated the cause of his problems.
Take care of yourself and your father.
Thank me later.