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Solidex:
Addiction to loperamide is quiet strange. Loperamide is an antiintestinal motility which is meeant to slow down your bowel movement, and in turn reduce your frequency of stooling. It's not known to be addictive...so, I think your brain is already wired to think it's a solution to your diarrhea .
The solution, if I may surggest ,is to sick medical help and investigate the cause of your diarrhea, instead of persistently ingesting loperide.
There are many factors that could be responsible for the diarrhea, which when found could actually be treated and at the end stop the recurrence of it.
Loperamide could tilt you into having other terrible complications like nutritional deficiency in the nearest future. So put a stop t it and seek help.
Believe me, you your problem far less provided you haven't indulged in other heavily addictive substances like nicotine, narcotics etc.
Womanising is not actually a big deal, provided you are not being careless with your act. Patronage of a brothel is just a bit gross and unbifitting of a psn you earns as much as you have stated.
You can enjoy the company of clean gals with as much as you earn without visiting brothels man, wisen up.
Regarding your father's leg swelling and difficulty in urinating, I think it has nothing to do with his past history of womanising.
Leg swelling could be a symptom of a heart-related disease like hypertensive heart failure or kidney disease, so, do him some good by taking him to a good hospital for evaluation and treatment instead of having this notion about him. Secondly, his urinary challenge could be related to prostate enlargement, a medical condition common with almost every aged man. It's also treatable.
Stop harboring wrong convictions about your dad when you haven't properly investigated the cause of his problems.
Take care of yourself and your father.
Thank me later.

OG

No, you’re not going to end like your dad; you will overcome. The fact that you openly admitted you have a problem, is the first step to victory. Keep pressing on; fall seven times, get up eight. Above all, invite Jesus into the boat of your life. He will help you to overcome the storms. Remain blessed.

This guy and horror stories eh. Well why not check into rehab since you know you have these problems

DrAda:
Interesting. This goes against everything I know

What's Bezos, Musk and co on ? Lol

Alot of addictive activities and drinking increase Estrogen in a male body. Now past the age of 25 you’re also having diminishing testosterone levels as a guy.

Emotionally this expresses itself as rumination, depression, addiction and seeking quick dopamine .. now dopamine, depression, and dopamine seeking activities are also cyclically related aswell making it hard to break the chain once you get in a wrong motion.

Physically .. you’re weaker, hold more fat around your waist and on face, hard to maintain erection, less confident etc.

TRT and Male health is not big in Africa because of obvious miseducation and stubbornness among men but it’s the only reason I would go to Med School.

Have see Urologist, he may be having prostate issues, if not treated soon, he may die, hopefully, it’s not late.
Good luck and our prayers for his recovery.

ChildOfDoom

I would urge you to commence a Bible study with Jehovahs Witnesses

It has helped thousands make profound changes to their lives.

Read Hebrews 4:12

Watch the series below:

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https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/experiences/bible-changes-lives/my-life-was-spiraling-out-of-control/

https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/experiences/bible-changes-lives/no-longer-a-slave-of-violence/

https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/experiences/bible-changes-lives/streets-became-my-home/

You can request for a Bible study below:

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/guided-bible-study-course/

I sincerely wish you the best. You can throw your burden upon God for he cares for you (Read 1 Peter 5:6-7)

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

what you are going through is likely a genetic mental disorder. It is not something you can fight on your own. You need to see a doctor asap

as long as you know your problem , you don't have a problem , the only problem you have is that you are not ready ,determined and serious to have a change of habit and life style. unfortunately it is better you change now voluntarily and conditionally before life gives you an unconditional choice of either changing by force or going down six feet into the earth dead . a classic example is your dad , he has no choice now other than to change now that he has health complications . no motivational talk or prayer is gonna change you if you don't determine and force a change . YOU ARE THE ONE THAT HAS THE CHOICE AND POWER TO MAKE THE CHANGE .

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Solidex:
Addiction to loperamide is quiet strange. Loperamide is an antiintestinal motility which is meeant to slow down your bowel movement, and in turn reduce your frequency of stooling. It's not known to be addictive...so, I think your brain is already wired to think it's a solution to your diarrhea .
The solution, if I may surggest ,is to sick medical help and investigate the cause of your diarrhea, instead of persistently ingesting loperide.
There are many factors that could be responsible for the diarrhea, which when found could actually be treated and at the end stop the recurrence of it.
Loperamide could tilt you into having other terrible complications like nutritional deficiency in the nearest future. So put a stop t it and seek help.
Believe me, you your problem far less provided you haven't indulged in other heavily addictive substances like nicotine, narcotics etc.
Womanising is not actually a big deal, provided you are not being careless with your act. Patronage of a brothel is just a bit gross and unbifitting of a psn you earns as much as you have stated.
You can enjoy the company of clean gals with as much as you earn without visiting brothels man, wisen up.
Regarding your father's leg swelling and difficulty in urinating, I think it has nothing to do with his past history of womanising.
Leg swelling could be a symptom of a heart-related disease like hypertensive heart failure or kidney disease, so, do him some good by taking him to a good hospital for evaluation and treatment instead of having this notion about him. Secondly, his urinary challenge could be related to prostate enlargement, a medical condition common with almost every aged man. It's also treatable.
Stop harboring wrong convictions about your dad when you haven't properly investigated the cause of his problems.
Take care of yourself and your father.
Thank me later.

Lol!
U really get time write all dis
No mind dis guy, na fabricated story 😁

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now
spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Dear Sir, please listen to this message and pray the following prayers for your deliverance. The Lord bless you in Jesus mighty name. Amen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_eB1CnjlGIA?si=N99yUgU_D-ePCE50

Rollingdollar:
Addictions are demonic and is only Christ that can free you from such bondage. Sincerely give you life to Christ and change the course of your life , don't end up like your dad because you weren't proud of his lifestyle, self-realization is the beginning of freedom. Christ is the solution to your problems

Nothing demonic about addictions.
He doesn't need prayers to stop any addiction.if he wants to.

He simply lacks self control.

Sonofgod1990:
Womanizing free but you masturbate
Jjgghjhggc

Life! May God have mercy on us

Give your life to Jesus Christ, look for a bible believing Church and start following there, Winners, RCCG, mountain of Fire, RCN, DUNAMICS, follow commanding the day by Paul Enenche every 11pm for midnight prayers. Study the Bible everyday. You will be free in 3months in Jesus name. Morality can't defeat demonic orchestration, only Jesus can.

You people are wasting advice on this boy

monikulapo:
What's Bezos, Musk and co on ? Lol

Alot of addictive activities and drinking increase Estrogen in a male body. Now past the age of 25 you’re also having diminishing testosterone levels as a guy.

Emotionally this expresses itself as rumination, depression, addiction and seeking quick dopamine .. now dopamine, depression, and dopamine seeking activities are also cyclically related aswell making it hard to break the chain once you get in a wrong motion.

Physically .. you’re weaker, hold more fat around your waist and on face, hard to maintain erection, less confident etc.

TRT and Male health is not big in Africa because of obvious miseducation and stubbornness among men but it’s the only reason I would go to Med School.

I understand why people will take it. I just didn't know it was in practice till now

Only Jesus can sets free from addiction. Once he comes into you, the power of the Holy ghost breaks you loose.
Give him a chance in your life. Trust me, he won't fail you and your life will change for good 💯

Seriously I don’t know how you people get addicted to all these things, I’m not saint but I always have this self control to stop my self when any time I’m doing all these things. For example if I drink two bottle of bear today and in the next one month I won’t go near it, betting is once in moon light.

Self control matters a lot in a man life, and learn how to talk to yourself.

@choldofdoom

O read your story and i want to use your situation as my case study on what am learn that the kingdom of Yahweh is here.

Of you did like is to, let me know

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

U already know u need help. So seek for it.

LIKE FATHER LIKE SON

DrAda:
I understand why people will take it. I just didn't know it was in practice till now

I don't know why Nairaland bans mentions of the face of United B of A. However, look at his physique compared to other CEO's his age or even Senior pastor of HOTR. I guess it's a niche service in Nigeria because of how we generally gate keep information.

Also as a health provider in Nigeria it makes perfect sense to keep it lowkey and tailored to those groups, I mean I made a post and some guy tried to sensationalize Testosterone in this cheap access to information age.

I mean there's no single mention of a psychiatrist or therapist on this thread .. but people would tell you to go to a Pastor. It's hard for effective healthcare to thrive in this kind of environment.

Deepocean:
Who are those taking this guy to be serious.

He is just whyning you and you are here falling for the whyning.

I came here for this comment. I've known that poster for years now, And truly I believe he's a troll...

You can still turn to God. It's never too late ...... Drink a lot of water as my little advice from this side though.

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

Water don pass garri.... My own na only alcohol, I dey find waiting I go use replace am. I drink nonsense and age is not on my side. I no no which kind wahala I enter like this.

I can drink 8 cans of action bitter a day and still garnish it with 3 bottles of legend and still walk home like nothing happened.

You will be worst than your dad if you are not careful

Rollingdollar:
Addictions are demonic and is only Christ that can free you from such bondage. Sincerely give you life to Christ and change the course of your life , don't end up like your dad because you weren't proud of his lifestyle, self-realization is the beginning of freedom. Christ is the solution to your problems

God bless you abundantly. It is God that has indeed revealed this knowledge to you. Blessed be thou, the Holy scriptures says that 1 John 3 versus 8:

He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has sinned from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil.

I pray God have mercy upon us and help us to be a new creation in Christ Jesus and live a holy life pleasing in the sight of God in Jesus Name, Amen.

Rollingdollar:
Addictions are demonic and is only Christ that can free you from such bondage. Sincerely give you life to Christ and change the course of your life , don't end up like your dad because you weren't proud of his lifestyle, self-realization is the beginning of freedom. Christ is the solution to your problems

I can't say it better than Rollingdollar. Give your life to Jesus and your addiction will be over. Pray for strength on daily basis to overcome temptation to give up. Refuse to give in and the Lord will help you. Change your moniker to Childofgreatness

Matthew 11:28 call Mom for me or you can labor and every lady I will give you rest may God give you rest in Jesus name.

Kutunban:
OG

I can't say it better than Rollingdollar. Give your life to Jesus and your addition will be over. Pray for strength on daily basis to overcome temptation to give up. Refuse to give in and the Lord will help you. Change your moniker to Childofgreatness

Matthew 11:28 call Mom for me or you can labor and every lady I will give you rest may God give you rest in Jesus name.

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

I can't say it better than Rollingdollar. Give your life to Jesus and your addition will be over. Pray for strength on daily basis to overcome temptation to give up. Refuse to give in and the Lord will help you. Change your moniker to Childofgreatness

Matthew 11:28 call Mom for me or you can labor and every lady I will give you rest may God give you rest in Jesus name.

Add Gym or HIIT exercises to your routine to dispel built up emotional and sexual tension…

Person wey una dey advise dey where he dey nomally dey dey......