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So you are chatting with your girlfriend and she said she's stressed, you promise to give her a thighs massage and she said "Dhor" and you said you won't give her the massage again. And she said if you don't, another person will.

As the boyfriend, what would be your reaction to this statement "If you don't, someone else will"?

The guy's reaction, "My pleasure", is correct.

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That ends the relationship straight.

It means not only does she have another partner but also the audacity to say it to me is a complete No No

Both you and Ur partner make Una go find work.

immortalcrown:
The guy's reaction, "My pleasure", is correct.

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I think so too, a guy who has self esteem know where to draw the lines.

writetopoka:
That ends the relationship straight.

It means not only does she have another partner but also the audacity to say it to me is a complete No No

These girls are getting bold about cheating daily. How do you want to convince your boyfriend that it was a joke? Like another person will? The guy's statement didn't warrant that response from her.

MikeofKd:
Both you and Ur partner make Una go find work.

Today is Sunday and most people don't work on Sundays.

Sounds like a joke

Break up with her ASAP

You are dating a damaged girl with no emotions,na only you dey the relationship

Demigod22:
So you are chatting with your girlfriend and she said she's stressed, you promise to give her a thighs massage and she said "Dhor" and you said you won't give her the massage again. And she said if you don't, another person will.

As the boyfriend, what would be your reaction to this statement "If you don't, someone else will"?

She wnts to torment you mentally. Dnt press for further clarification Frm her.
Just ignore her and occupy ur mind with something worthwhile.

gerizzim:
She wnts to torment you mentally. Dnt press for further clarification Frm her.
Just ignore her and occupy ur mind with something worthwhile.

No need pressing further, commitment just left the relationship. It's all about warming bed now.

Goodmarlian:
You are dating a damaged girl with no emotions,na only you dey the relationship

Lol, I can imagine.

tanigororo:
This is a test of your confidence as a guy, I guess I will respond with that is even better. At least someone will be doing that for you while I am busy.

Do you even ask your so called Babe the number of guys toasting her/asking-her-out ?
If she claims no other guy, either she is honest which is not good for her, or she is lying which is still not good for her. If truly no other guys coming for her means you are with a leftover girl that other guys don't want; or her claims is false other guys do come after her but decided to be dishonest I may be the other guy here.

I totally agree with you.

Silentgroper:
Sounds like a joke

Yeah, it was a joke, but does the guy's statement warrant such a response of a joke?

The another person can be her sister, her friend , her mom .... If she said another man will, then that's a red flag

koladata:
The another person can be her sister, her friend , her mom .... If she said another man will, then that's a red flag

This is logical reasoning, just that the context is a bit misleading. Let's say you asked your girlfriend to come cook for you then she refused, you tell that another person will, realistically, she won't think if your brother or father will do the cooking as the another person, her instincts will tell her that it's another girl, which she's largely correct.

gerizzim:
She wnts to torment you mentally. Dnt press for further clarification Frm her.
Just ignore her and occupy ur mind with something worthwhile.

Thank you for this.