I MET THIS GUY LAST YEAR ON MA WAY BACK FROM WORK DECEMBER LAST YEAR, HE HELPED ME AND DROPED ME OFF TO MA DESTINATION. ON OUR WAY THOUGH I WAS ATTRACTED TO HIM AND SOMETHING INSIDE ME YEARNED FOR HIS NUMBER. I PRAYED IN MY HEART THAT HE WILL ASK FOR MA NUMBER AND IN TURN GIVE ME HIS FINALLY MY PRAYER WAS ANSWERED.

I COULDNT WAIT FOR MORNING TO CALL HIM AS HE DROPED ME OFF VERY LATE. HE IS A NIGERIAN.
I CALLED HIM LATTER THAT AFTERNOON PRETENDING TO JUST SAY THANK YOU FOR THE HELP HE GAVE ME. BUT UNFORTUNATELY HE DID NOT PICK UP THE PHONE SO I JUST LEFT A MESSAGE ON HIS VOICE MAIL. HE CALLED BACK AND WE STARTED TALKING HE IS REALLY A VERY INTRESTING PERSON, FUN TO BE WITH, WITHIN FEW DAYS I FELT LIKE I HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR YEARS AND I COULD TELL HIM ANYTHING ABOUT MA SELF AND AM SURE HE FELT THE SAME WAY TOO

I HAD IN MIND THAT ANY MAN I MET HERE IN IRELAND IS EITHER MARRIED OR HAVE CHILDREN. SO WEN HE TOLD JUST GOT MARRIED A MONTH AGO TO A WHITE LADY I WAS DISAPPOINTED BUT I KNEW IT WAS GOING TO BE THAT WAY.

BUT TO TELL U THIS GUY IS VERY DIFFRENT FROM ALL OTHER GUYS I HAVE DATED AND HE CAREING AND LOVING TO AN EXTREM I BET THESE QUALITIES HE POSSESS IS WAT MAKES HIM UNIQUE AND VERY INTRESTING.

THESE DAYS I TEND TO COMPARE ANY BODY THAT WALKS UP TO ME WITH HIM (THOUGH I KNOW THERE IS NO FUTURE IN THS RELATIONSHIP)

So what if he is married to a white lady! for what I wonder?

Who says he doesnt want you?

There are plenty of naija men here in ireland (where I am from) married to white women and mess with naija ladies.

You're pretty!

What do you want us to say?

Most of the married women here, myself included, would love to ring your neck until your eyes pop out of the sockets.

You need to keep strong and realize that he's married and thus, the relationship is going NOWHERE. You deserve better. Have enough respect for yourself to know that you deserve more than being the other woman. Move on. Stop talking to him and/or seeing because a clean break is the only way you can let him go if you're already so infatuated. So parting thoughts: HE IS MARRIED! Don't be the other woman. Respect yourself enough to know that you deserve more than being the one on the side. Besides he's a bit of a cheat if he felt the same way, then he shouldn't have gotten married without you even knowing about it. Obviously he was stringing both you and his wife on and if he can do it to her, he can do it to you too. Stay strong sha and let him go. Something better will come.

Dont mind him, I see them here in Dublin whistling at african women on the street! I see them, marrried to white women for paper and 'holla ing' at african ladies on the street like the are becoming extinct.

One Ugandan I know got pregnant for a married nigerian man (married to an austrian) she kept the baby and he loves her- not his white wife and spends more time with the Ugandan.

@ topic you need to back- away from that married man you're falling in love with

what da freak is wrong with yah?  

put your-self in that white- woman's position would you like your newly wedded husband "porking" another woman outside?


for once think with your beautiful medulla oblangata "   "

and not that your treacherous  kitten  

come to think of it , that Nigeria man is just having the fun of his life

when he finishes with you , he will go home to his likkle- wifey  

remember KARMA is a BIG BAAADDD  BITCH  

i understand the fact that he is married, and am not expecting him to make me a second wife but i just dont know how to go about this cos really am very much attracted to him

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

Stop talking to him. Dont pick his calls and if he comes to see you take pictures and tell him you will send them to his wife if he does not leave you alone.

Leilah:

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

I hope to God you get married and your husband cheats on you.

i am a white women who lives in dublin married to an igbo man. What tribe is this man from please?

Don't get with him!

Stay away from him!

He's not a good guy. Look what he's doing to you and his wife. It's not as if you guys met after he married. And even then,

Leilah:

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

  ^{*looks at  her profile *} 

Leilah:

i am a white women who lives in dublin married to an igbo man. What tribe is this man from please?

  and so?

is your husband cheating on you?

and what does his tribe have to do with all this?

heather:

i understand the fact that he is married, and am not expecting him to make me a second wife but i just don't know how to go about this because really am very much attracted to him

i understand jare ! all that[b] mojo[/b] watching  and kitten aromas rising nor gree you get sense "  "

berra wake- up from that your sexually induced slumber 

sistawoman:

Stop talking to him.  don't pick his calls and if he comes to see you take pictures and tell him you will send them to his wife if he does not leave you alone.

gbam! 

You said you met this man last year!

So you have been with him all that time?

Did you sleep with him?

Not that I'm aware of Ikamefa, ya never know though.

i can assure u he is not ur husband

Cool, but Binah at the end of the day men will be men. You are very young and pretty I'm sure you can find someone thats not married. If you continue with him were is it going to get you,

Tatase:

Don't get with him!

Stay away from him!

He's not a good guy. Look what he's doing to you and his wife. It's not as if you guys met after he married. And even then,

Leilah:

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

hehe you guys are funny.

Leilah:

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

Are you sure you are married and you're a woman?

@topic, he's off the market, that is, he's married. Let him go and next time use your head first not heart and ask for the marital status, if you've got the green light, then use your heart and fall in love.

@post
   The temtation is to find and create a relationship with him since you are attracted to him (his qualities and all that) but then a married man is a married man and it is better to avoid entering into anything whatsoever with him, yes you are in love with me (so you feel) but NOt a good idea to do any home run about it.

@ Poster

Get another man, someone is there already.

StephenP:

Are you sure you are married and you're a woman?

gbam! i been dey think the same thing oh, i been think sey na man wey put white woman pix for profile " "

The only reason your sooooo attracted to him is because hes attached. You see darling we want things we are not supposed to have. I promise you within time if you give yourself space from him you will look back and realise he wasnt all that anyways!

Leilah:

Get with him then. This marriage to this white woman is prolly not real.

do  me a favour

SHUT THE HELL UP

OR CUT OFF UR FINGERS WT A CUTLASS

MAYBE IT WILL MAKE You STOP POSTING THRASH HERE

MAY BLACK GIRLS CHASE UR HUSBAND,MAY THEY COLLECT OR SNATCH HIM FROM YOU,

HE WILL LEAVE You IN AN EMOTIONALLY NAKED STATE

THE SHAME OF BEING USED AND DUMPED BY YOUR HUSBAND You WILL  CONTINUE TO BEAR FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE

IDIOT

@POSTER

leave d man alone and look for a single guy,leave him if not babes will run after ur hubby in d nearest future

LadyT:

The only reason your sooooo attracted to him is because hes attached. You see darling we want things we are not supposed to have. I promise you within time if you give yourself space from him you will look back and realise he wasnt all that anyways!

Well said, chop knuckle  

@ poster
back away,it has no future

Wat goes around comes around,

Wow this same heather that can stop thats addicted to porn "https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-175105.0.html" now wants someone elses man. Girl where wz ur momma when u wuz growing up or do jest want to get nairalanders talking