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I don't know why is a norm in our society today for a grown up man, doing well financially who is not interested in marriage to be considered an irresponsible man. I think a man's decision should be personal not mandatory or tailored by society.

Marriage should be a thing of personal decision not been pressured by society.

What do you think?

They want you working and tap dancing in the plantation.

Say NO to plantation

Being single gives you freedom to enjoy your life.

For instance today is a public holiday and since morning I have been indoors eating the to/ tow of two girls who came to visit me

Society is balanced on the backs of married men.


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No man should have that amount of freedom. You're a potential threat to the laws because you'll be able to ask questions without fear.

HelloWorld80011:
No man should have that amount of freedom. You're a potential threat to the laws because you'll be able to ask questions without fear.

What do you mean by the bolded.

LoneSoldier:
What do you mean by the bolded.

When you are unmarried, you can challenge authority or raise insurrection since you don't have any family they can threaten or cause harm.
But a married man above 30 won't cause any fight because he won't want to put his wife through challenges

Timini is not tagged irresponsible.

Now we have plenty Timinis in the country.

They target the poor dudes

TotoSuckker:
Being single gives you freedom to enjoy your life.

For instance today is a public holiday and since morning I have been indoors eating the to/ tow of two girls who came to visit me

you just dey use lexx your life ni oh..

The community needs married men to function properly and give orders

DON'T ALLOW ANYBODY TO FORCE YOU INTO MARRIAGE, WHEN YOU ARE NOT FULLY READY. MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN HAVING ENOUGH MONEY TO SHOULDER THE MARITAL RESPONSIBILITY; YOU MUCH BE EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY STABLE.
(MANY RESPONSIBLE MEN ARE NOW IN BURIAL GROUND) BE WISED.

I have clocked 30 and still single with pride. Anyone that sees me as an irresponsible man needs his or head examined.

Which society is that , maybe in pluto

Not enough for you aby

Because they are irresponsible.

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Even the ones that are married with 3 to 4 children and living from hand to mouth and struggling to pay rent will make that statement

No be by marriage oh!

Please post all threads in the right section, and don't derail threads by posting off topic.

No society does that.
Definitely not in Nigeria.
Maybe 40yrs...
Definitely not 30yrs.

Remain single if you want. It is a choice that you are entitled to and the vast majority of the world's population wouldn't notice.

I was not aware of that, what did they do?
What is their sin

Don’t do it guys!

I don say my own.

I hate this platform

Abroad by 18, 19, 20 people already have kids so that by 40, they're done training children. More reason they're responsible and focused in life while in naija, a man and a woman of 30+ still dey post sexy pictures on instagram.

Go to titktok and see how Nigerians chase free money and u will know that it will be a long lane for people to ever arrive. Anyday monetisation will be cancelled, alot will be useless

You see people give stupid reasons for being single. A man or woman of 30+ that's not in a serious relationship dont have any reason to blame Tinubu for bad govt.

[color=#1986BC] Society? Which society? Is it the one that tinubu has ravaged and pillaged that it's no longer attractive to be married any longer? In the US, staying single at 30 is very well received via the lens of ideology of avoiding having your life destroyed by self entitled women while in Nigeria, staying single is very much applauded via the prisms of economy and financial intelligence because Tinubu is not playing...[/color]

Society they say

What/Who makes up a society and who/what passes this judgement?

LoneSoldier:
I don't know why is a norm in our society today for a grown up man, doing well financially who is not interested in marriage to be considered an irresponsible man. I think a man's decision should be personal not mandatory or tailored by society.

Marriage should be a thing of personal decision not been pressured by society.

What do you think?

Very easy

They're afraid of acquiring new responsibilities

I don't understand ooo
For the longest of time, single 30+ women were being shamed and told they would die single. Women said nothing.

E reach men turn, dem begin cry.

Nonexisting1:
I have clocked 30 and still single with pride. Anyone that sees me as an irresponsible man needs his or head examined.

Same here.

Unfortunately the society tries to gaslight men into getting married.

At 20, you are too young and inexperienced for dating...!

At 30, you are getting old and should settle down.

At 40, why haven't you gotten married and become a father?


At 50, why are you behaving like you are still young?!!


At 70, why are you still alive?!!



...Men can never catch a break in this 3rd world society of busybodies.

Abeg which society is that?

Tell us more about it please because some of us aren’t aware

Every community has its own rules, not all societies determine a responsible person by his martial status

HelloWorld80011:
When you are unmarried, you can challenge authority or raise insurrection since you don't have any family they can threaten or cause harm.
But a married man above 30 won't cause any fight because he won't want to put his wife through challenges

.. this is funny ...but very true! But at 30 the man shouldn't be on the streets raising hell. He should be sitting somewhere with his family revving up the youths and getting them to pool their excessive energy and muscle and fearlessness into the insurrection. At 30 he's too old ... no longer has that youthful exuberance for ehmmm ...reckless participation. He need to be married and be raising a family by then. Just saying!

I'm in my thirty, not because am irresponsible or bad as portrayed by the society but because i had to struggle to get some things which my parents never gave me, and which i had to struggle hard to give my children what I've never had, though another issue is finding the right partner because most lady prefers ready made guys than an hardworking determined guys. Many of us wish to marry at a specific time and age but nature and destiny works in different ways.

Because the society needs someone that will mop up the women roaming the streets