₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
I see new things everyday on FB and hands down, this is some crazy shit. This lady is searching for a sister wifer for her husband and baby daddy.
'I’m currently looking for a sister wife, I come with 2 men which is my handsome husband and my kids father. I can do all the cooking. I don’t put my mouth in private places. I need you to handle that for me and I will make sure my men are gentle.
Send in vid of your skills. I’m willing to give two days off ONLY!"

Kobojunkie:
She is obviously not being serious. What else do you know about the lady whose Facebook page you got this from? 😏😏😏

AndroBlaze:
➜I wonder what makes you think she is not being serious.

Kobojunkie:
She is obviously not being serious. What else do you know about the lady whose Facebook page you got this from? 😏😏😏

Nnamdipapa:
➜What lady are you talking about Kobo?

Kobojunkie:
The one from your OP.

Kobojunkie:
Na woman dey marry wife for man? If yes, which of the two men is she trying to marry the sister wife for or to?

AndroBlaze:
➜There is a very entertaining ( old ) HBO series called "Big Love" which is about how some splinter Mormon groups in the USA still practice polygamy.
It'll help you understand a bit how their polygamy isn't always pushed by the males....but yeah this one is a bit different sha since the woman is already partnering with 2 men simultaneously.

Kobojunkie:
It seems you didn't bother reading the post before responding at all. What aspect of the story about a woman who claims she has two men in her life — a husband and a baby daddy— wanting a sister wife makes you think this is something about Big Love & polygamy?

AndroBlaze:


Also if you answer rudely again, don't expect another response from me, as you are not talking to a child.

AndroBlaze:
✓ Your tone is a bit curt, and kind of annoying, but I'll look beyond it and try and answer civilly.
The woman is in a relationship with 2 men simultaneously, which suggests she is already in polygamy (polyandry, to be specific, which is a type of polygamy).
She is now asking for another woman to come and share in her relationship, which means we'll now have 2 men and 2 women, all being together simultaneously, which is still classified as polygamy.
The series I referred, has all sorts of polygamy, plural marriage and relationships detailed in it, but more interestingly, why some women, as in this case, will be the engines pushing for it and not men, as we Africans usually expect.
Also if you answer rudely again, don't expect another response from me, as you are not talking to a child.

Double0h7:
She, the husband, the baby daddy, and whoever takes her up on her offer are all mad.

Nnamdipapa:
You want to apply