A female corper also serving in the same company with me just told me of recent that she would love to do "things" with me.I was even foolish enough to ask her "things like what"?.She said we could hang out during breaks,spend time during weekends,go clubbing whenever there is time,just be there for each other.The problem I've got is that a lot of managers are interested in this girl and 'word' has gone round that she is interested in me.Several people have left this company for daring to go out with the female staff in this company.Reason?The ladies are very few in number and they are reserved for the ogas them.Abeg nairalanders wetin I go do?I kinda like the girl and at the same time, I kind of like the job-wouldn't like to be booted out of a company where I'm serving cos of a girl

hhhhmmmm, you have just got to choose one, either the girl or the job goes.

Corpers do not get fired. They can only frustrate you there by giving you more work than necessary. I do not think work can kill you instead it will make you stronger/give you more experience. But if you do want to be retained there, its best to play it low with the babe and face your job. If not, go for her if you like her. Good luck.

My guy, bebe2007 was right about employers not having the authority to scak a corp member. My advise to you is to get "rolling" with the chick. Make sure the chick feels you The best thing about service year is the number of escapedes you can boast of. My guy enjoy yourself to the brim Less I forget, where are you serving?

Mr. Silly (ejoyment officer) says you should enjoy since its your service year (a year of flexing)!!! i do not have a problem with that but remember people have gotten good jobs from youth service (that is they were retained).

The question is do you want the job after your service year? If you do, keep away from the babe. i warn you. there are no jobs out there, you should behave and get this job for starters. many more babes will come your way when you are employed and can afford to pay their bills. Say you do not get a job immediately after service and she does, would she still want you?? unemployed boyfriend!!! Think o! Naija hard ok.

Well, poster please answer me now! where you dey serve? my church mind dey tell me say you no dey serve for lagos.
@ bebe2007. I was asking about you the other time you didn't respond I no go ask after you again

@sillyboy, i answered you, go back to your thread, you will see it there. Your brother Niceuzor wan thief d greeting sef. how are u dear?

No mind am. Really I was asking the poster where is he serving? That will help me in my constructive advise for him. You suppose trust my advise too

Let her know you like her too,But always abstain from each other while in the office.I mean play back yard runs, Shine ur eye man

Where is the place?

I'm serving as a Junior maintenance Engineer in one of the breweries in the east (sorry,for security reasons I no go mention the actual state).And talking about being retained,my boss has told me that I've got a high potential,but as you guys advised;I should stay away from the chick!Men,its going to be very hard because she is the rare type,and from all moves,she does like me.I no wan look like slacker.

My guy
U should have a principle and policy that guides u in the office
Office shld be 4 official matters and never private matter, don dissapoint the girl who goes 4 what she wants unlike some fake gals,
Dont leave her 4 insatiable married ogas whose wives are not enough for
Simply in the office behave and comport ur self very well.
She may end up being ur wive if it works out

Man you are there for a purpose and you have to fulfill that. Why not just concentrate on your job and the leave the girl alone. But if you prefer the girl to the job then you are free.

To the question yes there is harm in it.

I don't think there is a problem,

e don happen to me several times but was not interested in some but went on wit some

It's great when u re able to express ur feelings , I think some guys take those girls to be promiscous or take them for a ride