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Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by omooba969(m): 3:15pm On Oct 06, 2025
jaxxy:
Did she sleep with his bestman or best friend so how is it not wise to leave someone who is sleeping with ur friend? undecided
What's wrong with sleeping with someone's friend, is it a crime ni? undecided
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by AndroBlaze: 3:17pm On Oct 06, 2025
Blessedarethepe:
In the first image, she said she found love again .... What happened to the earlier love? And now she has jettisoned the present love because of infidelity, what will happen to the coming love?
I hope it's not a pattern that wants to render her single without a marriage?
Na wa oooo, even to read something properly de hard some people.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by ednut1(m): 3:17pm On Oct 06, 2025
Its fake they are already married
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by obaidan: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2025
I am so so happy for the guy
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by ukaface(f): 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Geddifok

Make it make sense
A man can cheat if his partner is not a virgin?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by ukaface(f): 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
And 11 people liked this comment
Y’all are psycho
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by omooba969(m): 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Good job! You did a good thing and should be proud of yourself for walking away from that! Only the brave can do what you did here. 🤔🤔🤔
Yeye dey smell. 🙄

She's not wise. When she's lucky to find another husband, she should let us know.

We will be here...Mtchewww! 😏
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by BigYash: 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Abi o grin

Probably she even did same to someone before. What they call Karma
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Racoon(m): 3:20pm On Oct 06, 2025
Terrible! No respect for the sanctity of marriage anymore. People just behaving immorally. What a world!
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Jlow2: 3:21pm On Oct 06, 2025
50perecent of besties and kawa (meaning my friend in Hausa ) sleeps with there besties husband even after, in Jos it’s a known fact and they dnt see it as anything
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by jaxxy(m): 3:21pm On Oct 06, 2025
omooba969:
What's wrong with sleeping with someone's friend, is it a crime ni? undecided
.
it's not a crime oo but u can't be engaged to a girl and sleep with her friend. ko da now.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by omooba969(m): 3:22pm On Oct 06, 2025
ukaface:
Geddifok

Make it make sense
A man can cheat if his partner is not a virgin?
Your blood too dey hot...haba! 🙄
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by G0odharddick: 3:28pm On Oct 06, 2025
ukaface:
Geddifok

Make it make sense
A man can cheat if his partner is not a virgin?
He is soo right.

How can a lady who isn't a virgin, Someone who has visited lots of guys before and climbed their beds be canceling marriage when she herself isn't a virgin?

What made you women think you can eat your cake and have it back?

The lady only cancelled the wedding because the victim who committed the act was her closest friend (best friend). Na why she cancel am. If it was another lady the man did it with, you think say he go cancel am?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Bestwt001(f): 3:29pm On Oct 06, 2025
Women are not really proud of this
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Firstcitizen: 3:30pm On Oct 06, 2025
Best decision. I despise liars and fraudsters
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by tollyboy5(m): 3:30pm On Oct 06, 2025
immortalcrown:
Noted. It is not the first and will not be the last.

Things like this will continue to happen until the society admits that marriage comes with commitment and responsibilities. You cannot eat your cake and have it. The freedom you enjoy as a bachelor or spinster does not exist in marriage.
Trash, men have been polygamous from ages.
You handle this kind of situation with sense as a lady not calling it off.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by PUNANI01: 3:33pm On Oct 06, 2025
Let them enjoy themselves now as you had given them space.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by tollyboy5(m): 3:35pm On Oct 06, 2025
ukaface:
Geddifok

Make it make sense
A man can cheat if his partner is not a virgin?
That's not what it implies. Since you're not perfect enough to remain a virgin till that moment.
Then be patient enough to solve the issues.
Look at her, she's not looking younger. And she said she found love again lol.
Meaning some other body count added plus this one she cancelled.
She want to increase her body count to match astronomical figures or what?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Berankis: 3:43pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Let's not always be biased in your evaluations. What is bad is bad. She made a good decision. It's not worth it getting married to a traitor! The same way we would condemn her if she pinned another man's child on him.
This lady has made a great decision and her time of joy will definitely still come.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Bahamas95(m): 3:44pm On Oct 06, 2025
And the bestie would be praying to have a happy home shebi? It doesn't work like that. The kinda betrayal she would see in that marriage would be 2×.


Nor be the day wey person get injury the injury dey get pus.......both of them go chop breakfast. As for the guy I want make he punishment be paternity fraud. And na he best friend go knack he wife give am the belle.



The bride made the best decision by walking away, she would have seen hell in that marriage. The guy is an e....d....I... 0 . t.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Dhury: 3:45pm On Oct 06, 2025
So the fiancé and the bestie thought they could keep it secret forever? Congratulations to her for canceling the wedding .
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by bewla(m): 3:48pm On Oct 06, 2025
Natbrowny:
Pretty Cool Decision

She should avoid the Man and her best friend.
Thank God he did not cheat with wood
Feminist



Just chilling with a bottle of SODA
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by pocohantas(f): 3:50pm On Oct 06, 2025
Congrats on escaping a community husband.
The people trying to gaslight her should give him their sisters. This is how they make you think cheating is normal until you are in and crying. Then they still turn against you _saying you saw the signs but were desperate or hooked because of money.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Angelfrost(m): 3:57pm On Oct 06, 2025
Good choice... I wish her the best going forward.

May she find someone who respects himself and the woman he is espoused to.

Infidelity is abhorrent and simply a disregard for the feelings and emotions of another.

It's inexcusable.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by FarahAideed: 3:58pm On Oct 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Good job! You did a good thing and should be proud of yourself for walking away from that! Only the brave can do what you did here. 🤔🤔🤔
I don't know why I always feel you are a divorcee ,
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Kobojunkie: 4:00pm On Oct 06, 2025
FarahAideed:
➜I don't know why I always feel you are a divorcee ,
And I don't mind you feeling that way, so keep on keeping on! 🥱🥱
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by koladata(m): 4:02pm On Oct 06, 2025
There's love in sharing , you both should just marry him... I can't do this as a man but then its not a taboo
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by tabaralph: 4:04pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
This lady looks way older than her playboy, she should be in her late 30s and am sure she is used to disappointment, the phrase “I have found love again “ left much to be desired.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Ihengwu: 4:06pm On Oct 06, 2025
Wise decision my dear. Some men are worst than dogs.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by LordIsaac(m): 4:08pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Plus what is it about her that makes them want to keep tasting others...to wit her caption, "I found love again"?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Wealthoptulent(m): 4:09pm On Oct 06, 2025
papiSNEH:
Na you lose
AJE!
but well GIRLS no dey HELP each other sha? na ur friend thing go dey GEL and they WISH they have.. funniest, na dem dey dey APPROACH fess bfr GUY MAN turned to next AVAIL FLIGHT

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