₦airaland Forum

Is it even still worth the hassle? Following the spate of insecurity in the land. There are times I wake up with the dreaded feeling of the insecurity spreading to every nook and cranny of Nigeria.

I believe I would be forgiven for thinking that now is not the right time to start a family. The crisis and anarchy keeps festering. If you've got a family as a man how do you keep a family protected if it comes to that point?

On the contrary a man unattached to an extra nuclear family will hold some sort of advantage as he would not have young children to bother about in the midst of the crisis.

This is my take anyways...those of us getting wedded every other week should have this in mind. Don't think that the worst cannot happen because with the way we're all going, anything is possible.


As we move to starting our families, we should have this at the back of our minds - civil war could break out again. If we continue on this path, it is almost inevitable - these unabated killings cannot continue.

I am a mobile business man,single and in my mid forties and I will be interested only in child bearing with a woman in her mid to late thirties,educated bsc, gainfully employed or into business,financially independent (for her own benefit because I don't give shishi), Delta,Anambra or Benue ladies only.

fyneboi79:
I am a mobile business man,single and in my mid forties and I will be interested only in child bearing with a woman in her mid to late thirties,educated bsc, gainfully employed or into business,financially independent (for her own benefit because I don't give shishi), Delta,Anambra or Benue ladies only.

bros don dey deviate lol. Anyhow sha...as long as e work for you Baba.

Tenrack:
bros don dey deviate lol. Anyhow sha...as long as e work for you Baba.

if she has a kid for me and proves to be OK in future I will marry her. But for starters no marriage on the table.

People are just giving birth because it's what everyone does, most of them don't care about securing their families.

dederocs:
People are just giving birth because it's what everyone does, most of them don't care about securing their families.

my thoughts exactly bro. It's scary.

Tenrack:
my thoughts exactly bro. It's scary.

Most of them don't even care about the bad politicking, they act too refined to be bothered about what politicians do and how they are plunging the society to chaos with their maladministration and corruption.

dederocs:
Most of them don't even care about the bad politicking, they act too refined to be bothered about what politicians do and how they are plunging the society to chaos with their maladministration and corruption.

I swear bro. It's like the lot of them are NPCs. They never seem to be bothered. All that concerns them is to move on with life like there's nothing at stake. Almost zombie like..many of them do not even care about awakening or enlightenment. Just zombie -esque human beings.

Tenrack:
I swear bro. It's like the lot of them are NPCs. They never seem to be bothered. All that concerns them is to move on with life like there's nothing at stake. Almost zombie like..many of them do not even care about awakening or enlightenment. Just zombie -esque human beings.

Apt, zombie... satisfied and trapped by consumerism.