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A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Jennyclay(op): 3:53pm On Oct 12, 2025
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday undecided
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag undecided

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying undecided
Their lives depend on month ending undecided
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Talkisneeded(m): 3:56pm On Oct 12, 2025
Legit 9 to 5 is now considered a sin in this present dating world …



But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by brain54(m): 4:01pm On Oct 12, 2025
E no get the kind of advice we no go see for NL...

It is well fah!
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by MaziObinnaokija: 4:05pm On Oct 12, 2025
sad u better take life jeje. Nah Salary earners still dey support/pay those wey u mentioned. Abi wetin u too wan bring to the table, . Constant nagging, eat,sleep,watch TV,gossip,on tiktok, fbk,WhatsApp, IG,etc, fight neighbours,buy rice on credit abi grin
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Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by muyico(m): 4:05pm On Oct 12, 2025
Your occupation??
Discipline??
Marital status??
Ur hubby occupation??
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Sonnobax15(m): 4:09pm On Oct 12, 2025
lipsrsealed
The Almighty Jennyclay cheesy.

Personally,once I come across any banny and I find out she doesn't have a job,I just see that as a big red flag even without being warned by my Tailor angry
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by fyneboi79(m): 4:17pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday undecided
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag undecided

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying undecided
Their lives depend on month ending undecided
Local village champion!! You dey talk like say you get sense,but we all know say you lack direction in life.
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by immortalcrown(m): 4:18pm On Oct 12, 2025
I am not surprised. This poster has always been fond of making stupid statements on this forum.

Financial strength is never determined by the type of job that someone does. A salary earner can be richer than someone who is self-employed. Someone that is self-employed can be richer than a salary earner. Many traders that own many shops are not as rich as some bank managers. Many traders with many shops are not as rich as top civil servants in the CBN.
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Fred166: 4:20pm On Oct 12, 2025
Honest work is no longer seen as a sustainable way of living. That's how much the country don spoil reach.
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Jennyclay(op): 4:45pm On Oct 12, 2025
immortalcrown:
I am not surprised. This poster has always been fond of making stupid statements on this forum.

Financial strength is never determined by the type of job that someone does. A salary earner can be richer than someone who is self-employed. Someone that is self-employed can be richer than a salary earner. Many traders that own many shops are not as rich as some bank managers. Many traders with many shops are not as rich as top civil servants in the CBN.
i like to make stupid statement? undecided. You sound so much like a salary earner, probably a teacher undecided

Can you please tell me just one salary job that pays so well? undecided
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by TheBreastSucker(m): 4:46pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday undecided
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag undecided

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying undecided
Their lives depend on month ending undecided
When are you going to bring your 'oranges' for me to su*k? grin
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by immortalcrown(m): 4:56pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
i like to make stupid statement? undecided. You sound so much like a salary earner, probably a teacher undecided

Can you please tell me just one salary job that pays so well? undecided
Your logic here is either childish or stupid, and I will prove it to you.

No occupation is better than the other in terms of finances. It all depends on the level at which you operate in any occupation or career you choose for yourself. If you choose to be an employee, try to grow so that you'll be promoted to the position where you begin to earn so much. You can also earn so well as a teacher by working in a school that has a good salary structure. If you choose business, try to grow in it so that you will make more profit.

How much money you make is not determined by what you do but by how you do what you do. A teacher that rises to the position of commissioner or minister earns more money than a trader that has been managing just one shop. A trader that is growing in his or her business makes more money than some people that work in banks. Some teachers make more money than some people that work in the military. It all depends on the level at which you operate in whichever career you choose.

Some musicians are richer than some footballers. Some footballers are richer than some musicians. Some traders are richer than some people that work in the Nigerian Custom or in the CBN. Many teachers are richer than some content creators. Some content creators are richer than many bank managers. Some pastors are richer than some native doctors. Some native doctors are richer than some pastors.
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by PerfectStranger(m):
"There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people."

why you no go learn am? u get disability? ?grin
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Judybash93(m): 5:05pm On Oct 12, 2025
Low IQ post
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by RealityKings1: 5:36pm On Oct 12, 2025
Why don't you have your own money?
Instead of waiting for the salary earners, why not ask your own Father?

If the salary earner can't meet up at that point, at least your own family should be able to fill in that gap. Except of course they are ___________
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by arantess: 5:38pm On Oct 12, 2025
Judybash93:
Low IQ post
I dey tell you 😁😂😂

An adult reasoning like this is disastrous
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by franugo(m): 5:42pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday undecided
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag undecided

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying undecided
Their lives depend on month ending undecided
You never still get sense ? 😲
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by franugo(m): 5:49pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
i like to make stupid statement? undecided. You sound so much like a salary earner, probably a teacher undecided

Can you please tell me just one salary job that pays so well? undecided
If you want to be educated, then be humble in your request. NCDMB staff collect humongous benefits at start of every year, some get over 40m, and have salaries that range from 5m to 10m. A captain of a ship earns over 6m monthly, that's not adding his other benefits. Engineers in oil companies earn crazy amount of money and EDs in banks get humongous benefits from profit sharing and dividend payments coupled with monthly salaries of over 10m depending on the bank.
Ordinary BO in some banks get close to 900k monthly, have you ever seen 900k in one month before?
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by tnerro1(m): 9:34pm On Oct 12, 2025
Be specific, some end of month salary earnings get levels

NNPC salary earner
CBN
FIRS
etc
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Justme556(m): 9:40pm On Oct 12, 2025
immortalcrown:
Your logic here is either childish or stupid, and I will prove it to you.

No occupation is better than the other in terms of finances. It all depends on the level at which you operate in any occupation or career you choose for yourself. If you choose to be an employee, try to grow so that you'll be promoted to the position where you begin to earn so much. You can also earn so well as a teacher by working in a school that has a good salary structure. If you choose business, try to grow in it so that you will make more profit.

How much money you make is not determined by what you do but by how you do what you do. A teacher that rises to the position of commissioner or minister earns more money than a trader that has been managing just one shop. A trader that is growing in his or her business makes more money than some people that work in banks. Some teachers make more money than some people that work in the military. It all depends on the level at which you operate in whichever career you choose.

Some musicians are richer than some footballers. Some footballers are richer than some musicians. Some traders are richer than some people that work in the Nigerian Custom or in the CBN. Many teachers are richer than some content creators. Some content creators are richer than many bank managers. Some pastors are richer than some native doctors. Some native doctors are richer than some pastors.
Your head may be small, not bigger than a FIFA ball, but what you got inside is way bigger than a whale. Believe me, bro👍
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by Tohsynetita1(m): 10:40pm On Oct 12, 2025
Jennyclay:
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday undecided
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag undecided

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying undecided
Their lives depend on month ending undecided
He can do what you listed and still be stingy to you.
Stinginess doesn’t depend on either you are rich or not o.
You can be richest man in the world and still stingy to yourself
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by SisterAnn(f): 11:33pm On Oct 12, 2025
This lady Sabi press una neck for this forum 😆

Nnenne, press harder! grin
Re: A Man Doing Salary Job Should Be Considered A Red Flag. by kiddaz: 12:06am On Oct 13, 2025
SisterAnn:
This lady Sabi press una neck for this forum 😆

Nnenne, press harder! grin
Lol na the way them even take her seriously dey mozz me pass 😂
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