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Yes cus 304s are the order of the day.

So despite all the advice on social media that men should not marry,men are still looking for wives.
Interesting times.

First it depends on what you are doing, also people got engaged in their religious groups. Some preferred to engaged tribally, marrying their tribes. All in all, don't rush to marriage. Shine your eyes well. There are good ladies and bad ladies. There are virgins and disvirgin ladies. Just shine your eyes and don't avoid red flags.

numba 2..u mean real sweet oloooshow

TooMuchStuff:
Finding a wife material for naija na by connection
but Finding Oskro or Oloshos is far easier

1 Over 90% of Beautiful gals in naija are possessed with different Evil Spirits of Water Air and Occult
2. Real sweet gals are busy with Yahoo boys
3. Plenty Ladies no get good Characters for wifeing
4 Economy don humble guys cos of marriage bills
5. Village People Factors

Sammy101111:
I swear am that guy I want my next relationship should be my last and be a marry able one

Even me baba

OS full everywhere

tiswell:
Even me baba

OS full everywhere

My brother I NO ONE ANY RELATIONSHIP AGAIN I JUST want MARRIAGE NOW make person just rest. WERE ARE THE GOOD LADIES

Sonnobax15:

Na WA..

This is another good reason why I really need to hold this my banny tight more than ever . Whenever I reflect back on how we started,I just dey imagine if her type still dey out there but I doubt it...... Forget all these social media paparazzi, honestly,it's when you're ready to settle down,that's when you'll realize that most of these relationships you find yourself in,are nothing but time-wasting .

Hope you're not the only one spending in the relationship, if not, OYO is your case.

A relationship where the guy is the only one investing and spending and the only thing the lady offers is Sex is more like a transactional relationship. The foundation is already broken and shaking.

So, take out time to check, who is investing the most in the relationship right now?

Don't let the phrase "I love you baby", " I love you baby" deceive you o. That's not the real love we are talking about. Ladies use those phrases to press the mumu button of men that lack good orientations about women.

Ladies do use those words to deceive men. The phrase "I love you baby" doesn't show a lady truly loves you o. If there is no free flow of money in the relationship, will she still stay and respect you? Those are the critical questions lots of men need to ask.

Watch "BIG LEGEND" on YouTube. You might learn one or two things from the guy contents.

Chaaiii, after watching that guy channel, I shake my head for lots of people that claim they are in relationships. Many are dating themselves.

dauntless15:
I'm going through a lot for girls hand, it's not meant to be funny sha I meant it.

Don’t worry you will be fine. The right one will come, just have faith

SmartPolician:
Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices determine whether we meet them or not. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

I disagree with the bolded.

pretydiva:
Don’t worry you will be fine. The right one will come, just have faith

thanks I appreciate.

ORLAHOLUWA:
It’s not easy my bro I just Dey pipe all of em ni
I never see my suite ni

dey pipe dey go.by the time you reach 45 and you loose all your essence and strength, body go tell you

Mcslize:
I disagree with the bolded.

why do you disagree with him.hes saying the truth

Sammy101111:
My brother I NO ONE ANY RELATIONSHIP AGAIN I JUST want MARRIAGE NOW make person just rest. WERE ARE THE GOOD LADIES

una don frustrate them and made them regret. Sorry they are all baddies

To find wife no hard, na you be thief! All those ones wey you don sleep with, none of them no dey good enough for marry? But good enough to knack....

SmartPolician:
Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices determine whether we meet them or not. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

The craziest once today was once a virgin.

ogascomax:
The craziest once today was once a virgin.

A girl who lost her virginity at 16 and a lady who is still a virgin at 26 can NEVER be this same. Anyone can be the former, but it takes so much to be the latter.

SmartPolician:
Did he grow up in isolation?

Did he live an irresponsible lifestyle while growing up?

I have met several virgins in my life. The question is, "What kind of lifestyle do you live?" If a lady still maintains her virginity after attending a university, it says a lot about her character.

There are good girls everywhere, but our lifestyle choices determine whether we meet them or not. An irresponsible man attracts his kinds.

You have no idea what he's talking about. Your input is out of place here.

ARISHEM:
Finding a Job is easier than finding a wife or a husband.


So many beautiful ladies out there but only few qualify as wife material. So many men but few are worth valuable as husbands. The job of singles is to search and not make a mistake.
Because such costly mistakes are lifetime and regrettable. And lifetime mistakes or errors are difficult to be corrected.

May we not make a lifetime mistake.

by...especially if u are fun of cheating in relationship, that one is a big sign of confusion ,distraction, selfishness and lacking focus...

Nice comment.

dauntless15:
Na when you enter street you'll realize there's nothing out there, all the good ones are gone and we're left with what I dunno, I just regret breaking up with people in the past thinking I'll get something better, from frying pan to fire.

I am telling you my brother ..
Presently am thinking of divorcing my wife just because of some provoking things she always do but when I think about the women outside I will be like 🤔

If I try it then until I will 70 I can't see another again 😂
Make I kuku dey carry my cross 😆

dangotesmummy:
After tanba na igbara, na igboro they'll now be complaining say good girls no dey again. After them don deceive girls,promise marriage, impregnate and run them go dey look for harvest wey them no plant

Blaming men always as though women have no faults! When would ladies start taking responsibilities for their actions in this life? Every spoilt brats with poor parental upbringing and moral decadence would still blame men for their bad characters!

SAMBARRY:
why do you disagree with him.hes saying the truth

Where are the good girls? Whoever says good girls are everywhere is not in touch with the current reality of the society.

Enter streets, you will see only girls that dress indecently and expose their body parts to sell their markets.

In our Igbo brothers' voices : I think you get it now.

Mcslize:
Where are the good girls? Whoever says good girls are everywhere is not in touch with the current reality of the society.

Enter streets, you will see only girls that dress indecently and expose their body parts to sell their markets.

In our Igbo brothers' voices : I think you get it now.

who dey buy am? Who dey encourage am

Enter tiktok you go see girls posting yash videos and dancing naked on camera. See likes and gifts but the ones advocating decency,education, values will have 5 followers with 3 likes meanwhile the ones that push sexuality and rubbish things will get million followers. So you men are ones encouraging baddies and making them multiply.the good ones you will say they're boring and basic. OK if you think I'm lying go and type madykiss on Instagram, Facebook or tiktok and see the millions of followers she has.

Basically you have told women with your words and actions say good girl no pay abi no be wetin Bobrisky talk be that wey una dey clap fo am.the other day, I think that was last year or so a girl came to honest bunch with her full chest and said she's a side chick and married men pay her to keep them happy and she's one of the reasons men go home stress free,the same men were clapping for her. So how una wan take see good girls again?

The one that said she went to school to study engineering and came out with a 1st class the university go dash am N10k, the one that had an altercation with flight hostess when them naked her top bring out her brez, no be lands,appointments,money etc una dey promise am? Many of you like indecent women especially the shameless ones that don't have any problem dancing naked, fingering themselves on tiktok,fighting, cursing or having s3x on social media. The level headed ones you see them as drab

phorget:
To wife a woman is the easiest thing to do, give me money and watch me wife 1000 women like king Solomon.

someone like you , I'm pretty sure all you got is mouth...

Lol...at a point you won't even experience love, to even get strength to start telling girls how you love them it seems like a waste of time to you...all you need at that moment is to meet a girl that's not too expose to social media and not had too much exes, who love you for wholeheartedly..if not oga you are on a long thing..you will even see such girl and enter commitment with her at a point you will begin to ask yourself is this really what you want..a lot of confusion at that stage bro. But Insist on that person that love you..or else you gonna cry😄😄

Enigma0013:
someone like you , I'm pretty sure all you got is mouth...

Oya bring money make I show you how e dey be.

Tayorshd87:
I am telling you my brother ..
Presently am thinking of divorcing my wife just because of some provoking things she always do but when I think about the women outside I will be like 🤔

If I try it then until I will 70 I can't see another again 😂
Make I kuku dey carry my cross 😆

Stick with the devil you know bro, there's no fun out here.

dauntless15:
Na when you enter street you'll realize there's nothing out there, all the good ones are gone and we're left with what I dunno, I just regret breaking up with people in the past thinking I'll get something better, from frying pan to fire.

You are very correct same experience with me too I never thought it's going to be this difficult for me i didn't take the good ladies i met years ago serious i thought they will always be around anytime am ready for marriage to select from i never knew the life it's going to turn upside down as we grow older. Now what's really available out there these days are possessed damaged ladies and those that have been used by yahoo boys am really praying seriously now for God's grace to see someone with the fear of God cause I know how dangerous it is to fall into the hands of wrong partner.

Mrexcell:
You are very correct same experience with me too I never thought it's going to be this difficult for me i didn't take the good ladies i met years ago serious i thought they will always be around anytime am ready for marriage to select from i never knew the life it's going to turn upside down as we grow older. Now what's really available out there these days are possessed damaged ladies and those that have been used by yahoo boys am really praying seriously now for God's grace to see someone with the fear of God cause I know how dangerous it is to fall into the hands of wrong partner.

Very dangerous, one mistake you can't afford to make twice, there's nothing left, if you get lucky again please do everything to make it work.

Autumn and winter are cuffing seasons that way. What you explained must be the Gen Z definition.

Double0h7:
And in the west this is the hobosexual season so women are advised to hide their homes and hide their cars. 😅

Marriage will make or mar you. You come out alive or dead It's like a bet. You win or you lose