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SpencerForbes:
What a lost island🙁 an island with so many gems. Seems all the guys are now men😢 or they’ve migrated to telegram.

Boys have become men.

Tonnyray:
Boys have become men.

I’m so happy for that. Let the knowledge spread.

If she says “He’s just a friend,” he’s not.

Men don’t orbit women they aren’t attracted to.

You know this. She knows this.

She just hopes you’re too blind to say anything.

MY ADVICE TO MEN IS THIS " LEARN TO LET GO", then everything will be under control.

emmaodet:
MY ADVICE TO MEN IS THIS " LEARN TO LET GO", then everything will be under control.

Drop more pills boss!!

I am taking notes!!!

Gerrard59:
I don analyse am tire and have come to the realisation that it is a woman's world. I am supposed to write on this sef. An educated woman in today's world has more power and opportunity than ever recorded in history. The only way out for a man is to have few children so the bulk of his savings and investments stay within himself till he kpeme. This is because even the children at a young age cling more to their mother than their father.

Our men should be more selfish and better planners. The era of paying for the education of a woman one is not married to has to end. Complusory taking care of her siblings (that is her father's responsibility) too has to cease. Conduct DNA test in at least two reputable centres.

The sex is not even frequent as the man has to beg for it. Jesus! Wetin I don read about sex between husband and wife from today's women scare me to the bones! The favourite question is: "Is sex food?"

Thank God for Ndi red pill even though I have been harsh towards them in the past. They have been a force for good.

Oh really? Gerrard now thinks the redpill is good? It will snow in the desert then.

Who pays for a gf education? 😂...Not part of the redpill

luminouz:
Drop more pills boss!!

I am taking notes!!!

Lumi.. lumi
The pussy engineer

emmaodet:
MY ADVICE TO MEN IS THIS " LEARN TO LET GO", then everything will be under control.

I ended things with My girlfriend last week or so, deleted everything about her.

She called yesterday, she was shocked I asked who I was talking to, I honestly didn't know she was the one calling. I returned the call, she didn't pick up before I checked the number on true caller, I hissed and slept off.

I wanted to call her again, before I saw this. I still like her but this LEARN TO LET GO calm me down.
Nagode

emmaodet:


Lumi.. lumi
The pussy engineer

🤣🤣

From my experience..any woman who asks you 'is sex food'.... Love sex like die but hide under that question to test you. Never balk or let that confuse you...Demand it and take it.

My reply: It is food, now get your big ass over here and give me my ration and it must be full.

This scenario has happened to me countless times and the women involved love sex....but pretend to test you

A man who doesn't give a fvck anymore was once a man who cared too much.

emmaodet:
A man who doesn't give a fvck anymore was once a man who cared too much.

They'll break you and hurt you and then they'll say: "you've changed a lot".

Yeah. You're right. And that's because a lot has changed me.

emmaodet:
A man who doesn't give a fvck anymore was once a man who cared too much.

I have never gave a Bleep since birth and have never cared too much, alaye

emmaodet:
If she says “He’s just a friend,” he’s not.

Men don’t orbit women they aren’t attracted to.

You know this. She knows this.

She just hopes you’re too blind to say anything.

I'll add that women don't hang out around men they don't like, expect they benefit from them (money, jobs, services, entertainment, etc.). If a woman doesn't like you and she can't (or doesn't want to) benefit from you, then you are pretty much inexistent to her.

A Girl That Rejected You Today, Will Give Birth To A Girl That Would be Your Sugar Girl Tomorrow.

mosdii:
A Girl That Rejected You Today, Will Give Birth To A Girl That Would be Your Sugar Girl Tomorrow.

Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

@Rizzputin
@pukkalolo
@heartofcity12
@caveAdullam
@martinez39s
@skepticus
@emmaodet
@pansophist

she's probably disappointed with her imaginations. The poor lady is traumatised so pls dont call her again. move on

KennethIbe59:
Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

Thanks Boss please explain well

PrettyRX:
she's probably disappointed with her imaginations. The poor lady is traumatised so pls dont call her again. move on

KennethIbe59:
Thanks Boss please explain well

Many things could be involved. She might have regrets from the act, or felt it wasn't worth it, or maybe you didn't match her expectations, or she is playing games to force you into a more established commitment after the act. There could be over a hundred reasons she avoided your calls, so best to let her be until she comes around herself.

No need to worry yourself over another person’s opinion. Did you enjoy yourself? Was the experience worth it? That's the most important thing for you: how you feel! If you want a more established relationship with her, then give her a few more days, and call back (or chat her up). Just talk casually at first, jokes, how are you, and the like. Then afterwards, you can bring up the elephant in the room, and you two discuss your next steps like adults – like, should you all date, keep it FWB, open up about the relationship to your senior man (and his wife), etc. But if she keeps avoiding you, just lock up and move on like it never happened. Even if you run into her in person while visiting your Senior Man, just lock up and withdraw your familiarity with her.

So for now, give her space, chill, and let her decide your next move.

Thanks Boss for taking your time to reply

She doesn't know where I live.

I am thinking of giving her today and tomorrow, if she doesn't call back or chat, I will visit her place of work tomorrow evening

As for the expectation I believe I Knack her well, she just dey moan all through licking my fingers as I dey knack her

I no even cum... After 30 minutes of knack she said she has to go home that her sister will be worried

Potvalor:
Many things could be involved. She might have regrets from the act, or felt it wasn't worth it, or maybe you didn't match her expectations, or she is playing games to force you into a more established commitment after the act. There could be over a hundred reasons she avoided your calls, so best to let her be until she comes around herself.

No need to worry yourself over another person’s opinion. Did you enjoy yourself? Was the experience worth it? That's the most important thing for you: how you feel! If you want a more established relationship with her, then give her a few more days, and call back (or chat her up). Just talk casually at first, jokes, how are you, and the like. Then afterwards, you can bring up the elephant in the room, and you two discuss your next steps like adults – like, should you all date, keep it FWB, open up about the relationship to your senior man (and his wife), etc. But if she keeps avoiding you, just lock up and move on like it never happened. Even if you run into her in person while visiting your Senior Man, just lock up and withdraw your familiarity with her.

So for now, give her space, chill, and let her decide your next move.

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Yes just a casual parole....

Thanks Boss I appreciate your time 🙏 🙏 🙏

Potvalor:
Alright then, you did well man. But I guess you guys didn't define your “situationship” even before the knack? Was it intended for a relationship or just a casual parole? If it is the former, then her behavior is totally out of place and weird. But if it is the latter, then maybe she is just sulking cos she wants something “more”. Just a random hypothesis, though, so go ahead with your plan to meet her at her workplace and clear things out.

Best of luck Boss.

Life humbles men, time humbles women.

Life forces men to grind or die.

Time forces women to face the reality of their choices.

One learns discipline through pain.

The other learns regret through time.

If you are always messaging, calling, texting, initiating most of the time, she doesn't like you like that, she wants you to win her over like a slave pedestalizing it's queen, if she doesn't start conversation with you and only messages you to bill you when she is in need she doesn't like you at all

Dating gals with lower socioeconomic status is crazy, girls from poor background, they are hungry, no matter how young they are they are in survival mode, especially in third world nations, they would be billing you, and they funny thing is that the hood boy that disvirgined them and was giving them steady supply of sex at their early prime years wasn't billed, and I'm not talking about almost post wall or post wall poor gals I'm talking about poor gal in their prime years

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Potvalor:
Many things could be involved. She might have regrets from the act, or felt it wasn't worth it, or maybe you didn't match her expectations, or she is playing games to force you into a more established commitment after the act. There could be over a hundred reasons she avoided your calls, so best to let her be until she comes around herself.

No need to worry yourself over another person’s opinion. Did you enjoy yourself? Was the experience worth it? That's the most important thing for you: how you feel! If you want a more established relationship with her, then give her a few more days, and call back (or chat her up). Just talk casually at first, jokes, how are you, and the like. Then afterwards, you can bring up the elephant in the room, and you two discuss your next steps like adults – like, should you all date, keep it FWB, open up about the relationship to your senior man (and his wife), etc. But if she keeps avoiding you, just lock up and move on like it never happened. Even if you run into her in person while visiting your Senior Man, just lock up and withdraw your familiarity with her.

So for now, give her space, chill, and let her decide your next move.

@JESHAL007 WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE ON This sir

KennethIbe59:
Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

@Rizzputin
@pukkalolo
@heartofcity12
@caveAdullam
@martinez39s
@skepticus
@emmaodet

KennethIbe59:
@JESHAL007 WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE ON This sir

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Give her time, if she no respond cut off

Thanks 🙏 🙏 🙏

JESHAL007:
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Give her time, if she no respond cut off