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There is a soul in that lady. A soul you should be happy to be connected to.
You lost a treasure. A treasure that is beyond you. Enjoy your simple living

Abeg bros when you are about to go back Update us abeg

seanery:
Hope you sha sleep with her?
Cus na tht one go vex me

I dash her to you.

Came4amod:
And going back to her will only destroy your ego further and she might not even accept you .. she has strong character.. and understand Humman emotions on a deeper level .. amongst the few humans with a well developed sixth sense .. intuition.. not manipulation just intuition

See as you dey call winchy, intuition.

Ekeneegwu:
YEAH SHES MY SPEC .. two cold ass beings moving with purpose ..

I bless you with her

Blazebond:
You need to make sure you wife her,she has a very strong personality and you are just acting up because sadly you are weak.

You can help mankind by wifing her. We no want

That's my kinda of woman.

Came4amod:
Bro did you expect her to cry or what ?

It's clear that this is about yourself. You are a manipulative person

ZACHIE:
There is a soul in that lady. A soul you should be happy to be connected to.
You lost a treasure. A treasure that is beyond you. Enjoy your simple living

I get what you’re saying bro, she’s very intelligent, no doubt sharp mind, reads a lot, and can understand people easily. But that’s exactly the problem. She’s a master manipulator, and she likes playing mind games too much. I no fit do that kind emotional chess every day. She lacks empathy everything with her na calculation. I respect her brilliance, but I value peace more.

Dtruthspeaker:
I dash her to you.

You no answer my question; YES or NO

KillerOfCrackas:
➜When I finally decided to leave, she didn’t beg, didn’t even look surprised. She just smiled and said, “You’ll come back. People like you always do.” That line shook me to my core.
This girl taught me something: not everyone who looks calm is peaceful. Some people are emotionally cold but know exactly how to pretend otherwise. They don’t feel emotions they study them and use them.
Since then, I’ve learned that love without empathy will drain you. Some people are not violent, but the way they play with your mind go humble you.
So when people talk about toxic relationships, I just laugh. Because not all toxicity comes from shouting and fighting. Some come quietly, in the form of peace that slowly destroys you.

She was not moved by your sob stories and did not cry when you said you were done with her. So, what part of this story makes her a toxic individual or a sociopath?

Came4amod:
➜Bro you left .. you were expecting her to beg you .. and she didn't .. it doesn't mean she is a psychopath.. she is just deeper than you . And fact is .. you can't even comprehend her ..

Help me tell the boy, abeg! I don read the story at least twice, wondering how OP could have concluded that the girl was toxic, let alone sociopathic.

ReacherSaidNoth:
You're not qualified to diagnose sociopathy, nothing truly outrageous in your post.

Absolutely nothing! Yet, OP declares with boldness that because she did not shed a tear when he decided to dump her that she had to have been a sociopath.

Came4amod:
➜And going back to her will only destroy your ego further and she might not even accept you .. she has strong character.. and understand Humman emotions on a deeper level .. amongst the few humans with a well developed sixth sense .. intuition.. not manipulation just intuition

I think so too! Something tells me OP knows the girl no really rate am, that is why he felt the need to come on here to label her a sociopath, in a crude attempt to dissuade himself from considering her again.

By sixth sense, you mean higher emotional intelligence levels than OP, right?

Kobojunkie:
She was not moved by your sob stories and did not cry when you said you were done with her. So, what part of this story makes her a toxic individual or a sociopath?

It’s not about her not crying, bro. I didn’t expect that. It’s the way she was completely unmoved like she couldn’t even feel anything. No empathy, no concern, nothing. She reads emotions well but doesn’t actually connect to them. That’s what made it toxic everything felt calculated, never genuine.

Came4amod:
Bro you left .. you were expecting her to beg you .. and she didn't .. it doesn't mean she is a psychopath.. she is just deeper than you . And fact is .. you can't even comprehend her ..

No be say I expect her to beg, bro. I no even dey look for that. It’s just how she act like nothing happen no emotion at all. She’s deep, yeah, but also very manipulative. There’s a thin line between depth and emptiness.

nigeriaposter:
I m currently married to one. My Dad even adopted her as a daughter, even included her in his will. Until she showed him her real character.

That girl will first you marry, if she wants to. They are highly likable.

As a mother, she is very good to her children. But I have being training the boys not to give in the manipulative nature of their mother.

As for wife, she has nothing on me. The only power she gets is s*xx, and I get alternatives for that.

I told her once, if I must carried you go abroad, I would not do mistake go UK or USA, it is Afghanistan we will go.

There actually men who can handle those type of women. And if you can make them respect you somehow, you are good to go, at least they will handle your children and home well, but u just have to be alert to their schemings and manipulative tactics and not bow to it, that's the only u can retain their respect. Once u allow them have higher hand in getting u through manipulation, they will make you hell and a doormat

KillerOfCrackas:
✓ It’s not about her not crying, bro. I didn’t expect that. It’s the way she was completely unmoved like she couldn’t even feel anything.
✓ No empathy, no concern, nothing. She reads emotions well but doesn’t actually connect to them. That’s what made it toxic everything felt calculated, never genuine.

How did you deduce that she couldn't? Did you run medical and psychological tests on her to determine this all by yourself? 🥱🥱🥱

2. No empathy and no emotions yet there seemed to be lots of emotions yet she was able to cry when things did not go her way? Oh boy! Accept say the gal was not that into you and move on. 🥱🥱🥱

KillerOfCrackas:
No be say I expect her to beg, bro. I no even dey look for that. It’s just how she act like nothing happen no emotion at all. She’s deep, yeah, but also very manipulative. There’s a thin line between depth and emptiness.

It is called I-don't-give-a-fk-about-you and the gal may have put you on that line for a long time before you decided to leave. 🥱🥱🥱

NiRfreak:
✓ There actually men who can handle those type of women. And if you can make them respect you somehow, you are good to go, at least they will handle your children and home well, but u just have to be alert to their schemings and manipulative tactics and not bow to it, that's the only u can retain their respect. Once u allow them have higher hand in getting u through manipulation, they will make you hell and a doormat

Make them respect you because in your eyes, women are toys/dogs to be trained and coaxed into a form that pleases the ego of men, abi? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

I keep repeating that you religious-minded folks hate women so much. 🥱🥱

KillerOfCrackas:
I met this fine fair girl in Woji, Port Harcourt early last year. I went to visit one of my guys, and she was sitting outside her compound pressing her phone. At first glance, I just saw one quiet, decent-looking babe. You know those girls that look innocent and respectful? That was her.
We started talking that day, and she was surprisingly easy to relate with. Within a week, we were already close. Everything about her was calm no drama, no unnecessary talk, always composed. I even told my guy say I don finally jam wife material.
Even my parents liked her. The first time she came to visit, my mum couldn’t stop praising her. She helped in the kitchen, greeted everyone politely, and behaved like someone raised with good morals. My dad even joked that I shouldn’t waste time before she escapes.
At first, everything was smooth. She always knew what to say, how to behave, and how to make me feel comfortable. But over time, I began to notice some strange things.
This girl no get emotion. I’m serious. If I tell her something deep or painful, like when I lost my uncle, she’ll just say “Sorry dear,” with straight face and continue what she’s doing. No hug, no concern, nothing.
But if I do something small that hurts her ego maybe I forget to call her or delay reply she’ll suddenly act emotional, start crying small, saying things like “You don’t love me anymore.” I later realized it was all performance.
She also had this scary way of reading people. She’d meet someone once and already know what to say to get what she wanted. I saw her manipulate her friend one time without raising her voice just calm words and fake sympathy.
When we argued, she’d use things I told her when I was vulnerable against me. She remembered every little thing I said and turned it around perfectly to make me feel guilty. I go end up apologizing for something I didn’t even do wrong.
Outside, everybody thought she was perfect. My friends used to say, “Guy, no let that babe go o, she get sense.” Meanwhile, I was the one dying silently inside.
When I finally decided to leave, she didn’t beg, didn’t even look surprised. She just smiled and said, “You’ll come back. People like you always do.” That line shook me to my core.
This girl taught me something: not everyone who looks calm is peaceful. Some people are emotionally cold but know exactly how to pretend otherwise. They don’t feel emotions they study them and use them.
Since then, I’ve learned that love without empathy will drain you. Some people are not violent, but the way they play with your mind go humble you.
So when people talk about toxic relationships, I just laugh. Because not all toxicity comes from shouting and fighting. Some come quietly, in the form of peace that slowly destroys you.

You just described my personality here, the only difference is that I don't cry, but I'm emotionless and very good at manipulating people especially girls, to get my way or get what I want, again I'm very calm, handsome and innocent looking, but behind the attractive face lie, a stone cold emotionless man, and yes many girls I dated, broke up with me and came back again multiple times before some of them finally got married, they're just hooked on my personally.

NiRfreak:
but u just have to be alert to their schemings and manipulative tactics and not bow to it, that's the only u can retain their respect. Once u allow them have higher hand in getting u through manipulation, they will make you hell and a doormat

So, does it worth it?Na this kind further maths una go dey do day and night cause people like them are always playing games

Its exhausting abeg

DanseMacabre:
That one no be sociopath na. You never jamb the one wey her own na to dey provoke you to your tether end so that you go fit beat am small before una fvck

Omo I jam one like this o, if she never lock my cloth make I wire her better beating, she no go wet
I don’t even know the pattern cos for my life I’m not the type that can ever touch a woman

Untill after many scenarios and she see say I no be woman beater type
She use mouth open up to m blah blah

From all you typed here seems u just a weak man

I thought i'm the only one who was looking for what the girl did wrong o ... your uncle die and she didn't cry for you ... see wetin people dey date.

ReacherSaidNoth:
You're not qualified to diagnose sociopathy, nothing truly outrageous in your post.

Oga you are just a very weak man, all these nonsense you typed here without point , wetin the girl do you exactly, your uncle die she didn't cry ... which kind human being be this. YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP

KillerOfCrackas:
I met this fine fair girl in Woji, Port Harcourt early last year. I went to visit one of my guys, and she was sitting outside her compound pressing her phone. At first glance, I just saw one quiet, decent-looking babe. You know those girls that look innocent and respectful? That was her.
We started talking that day, and she was surprisingly easy to relate with. Within a week, we were already close. Everything about her was calm no drama, no unnecessary talk, always composed. I even told my guy say I don finally jam wife material.
Even my parents liked her. The first time she came to visit, my mum couldn’t stop praising her. She helped in the kitchen, greeted everyone politely, and behaved like someone raised with good morals. My dad even joked that I shouldn’t waste time before she escapes.
At first, everything was smooth. She always knew what to say, how to behave, and how to make me feel comfortable. But over time, I began to notice some strange things.
This girl no get emotion. I’m serious. If I tell her something deep or painful, like when I lost my uncle, she’ll just say “Sorry dear,” with straight face and continue what she’s doing. No hug, no concern, nothing.
But if I do something small that hurts her ego maybe I forget to call her or delay reply she’ll suddenly act emotional, start crying small, saying things like “You don’t love me anymore.” I later realized it was all performance.
She also had this scary way of reading people. She’d meet someone once and already know what to say to get what she wanted. I saw her manipulate her friend one time without raising her voice just calm words and fake sympathy.
When we argued, she’d use things I told her when I was vulnerable against me. She remembered every little thing I said and turned it around perfectly to make me feel guilty. I go end up apologizing for something I didn’t even do wrong.
Outside, everybody thought she was perfect. My friends used to say, “Guy, no let that babe go o, she get sense.” Meanwhile, I was the one dying silently inside.
When I finally decided to leave, she didn’t beg, didn’t even look surprised. She just smiled and said, “You’ll come back. People like you always do.” That line shook me to my core.
This girl taught me something: not everyone who looks calm is peaceful. Some people are emotionally cold but know exactly how to pretend otherwise. They don’t feel emotions they study them and use them.
Since then, I’ve learned that love without empathy will drain you. Some people are not violent, but the way they play with your mind go humble you.
So when people talk about toxic relationships, I just laugh. Because not all toxicity comes from shouting and fighting. Some come quietly, in the form of peace that slowly destroys you.

Is her name Stellamaris? You just described an ex
She was pure evil

KillerOfCrackas:
I met this fine fair girl in Woji, Port Harcourt early last year. I went to visit one of my guys, and she was sitting outside her compound pressing her phone. At first glance, I just saw one quiet, decent-looking babe. You know those girls that look innocent and respectful? That was her.
We started talking that day, and she was surprisingly easy to relate with. Within a week, we were already close. Everything about her was calm no drama, no unnecessary talk, always composed. I even told my guy say I don finally jam wife material.
Even my parents liked her. The first time she came to visit, my mum couldn’t stop praising her. She helped in the kitchen, greeted everyone politely, and behaved like someone raised with good morals. My dad even joked that I shouldn’t waste time before she escapes.
At first, everything was smooth. She always knew what to say, how to behave, and how to make me feel comfortable. But over time, I began to notice some strange things.
This girl no get emotion. I’m serious. If I tell her something deep or painful, like when I lost my uncle, she’ll just say “Sorry dear,” with straight face and continue what she’s doing. No hug, no concern, nothing.
But if I do something small that hurts her ego maybe I forget to call her or delay reply she’ll suddenly act emotional, start crying small, saying things like “You don’t love me anymore.” I later realized it was all performance.
She also had this scary way of reading people. She’d meet someone once and already know what to say to get what she wanted. I saw her manipulate her friend one time without raising her voice just calm words and fake sympathy.
When we argued, she’d use things I told her when I was vulnerable against me. She remembered every little thing I said and turned it around perfectly to make me feel guilty. I go end up apologizing for something I didn’t even do wrong.
Outside, everybody thought she was perfect. My friends used to say, “Guy, no let that babe go o, she get sense.” Meanwhile, I was the one dying silently inside.
When I finally decided to leave, she didn’t beg, didn’t even look surprised. She just smiled and said, “You’ll come back. People like you always do.” That line shook me to my core.
This girl taught me something: not everyone who looks calm is peaceful. Some people are emotionally cold but know exactly how to pretend otherwise. They don’t feel emotions they study them and use them.
Since then, I’ve learned that love without empathy will drain you. Some people are not violent, but the way they play with your mind go humble you.
So when people talk about toxic relationships, I just laugh. Because not all toxicity comes from shouting and fighting. Some come quietly, in the form of peace that slowly destroys you.

KillerOfCrackas:
Bro it’s not about her not begging. I didn’t expect that. It’s the way she acted like nothing ever happened no emotion at all. She no just strong, she empty. There’s a big difference between being calm and being cold.

She's way emotionally stronger and deeper than you. This simply means she can rattle your mind off. You're the one behaving like a woman in the relationship while she's behaving like the man who's logical and calculative.

I met a girl exactly like her just last week and she came over on Sunday, we ended up knacking. What's more? She's so calm, reserved and doesn't talk much and of course it might be she's pretending as well because when a woman is comfortable with you she'll talk, talk and tell you things.

How to react?

1. Be calm too
2. Don't react with emotions rather be logical in thinking before talking
3. Whenever she's with you, don't talk much, ensure you smashed her very well (of course tell her sweet and romantic things at this point)
4. Don't be always available (match her energy)
5. Have a deeper psychological level than her (study her and flow exactly the way she does) the goal is for your IQ to be higher than hers! But sadly it appears hers is higher than yours

nigeriaposter:
I m currently married to one. My Dad even adopted her as a daughter, even included her in his will. Until she showed him her real character.

That girl will first you marry, if she wants to. They are highly likable.

As a mother, she is very good to her children. But I have being training the boys not to give in the manipulative nature of their mother.

As for wife, she has nothing on me. The only power she gets is s*xx, and I get alternatives for that.

I told her once, if I must carried you go abroad, I would not do mistake go UK or USA, it is Afghanistan we will go.

I told her once, if I must carried you go abroad, I would not do mistake go UK or USA, it is Afghanistan we will go.
Badman spotted 😅😂🤣📌💯

Is she a Leo?
Seen one before,but I outsmarted her..
Dammn,bro seems vvomen notice men that are locked up there emotionally and psychologically so they try to test them..

Simple,just stay cold,nothing belongs to you.
Some past pains made me cold😹.

nigeriaposter:
I m currently married to one. My Dad even adopted her as a daughter, even included her in his will. Until she showed him her real character.

That girl will first you marry, if she wants to. They are highly likable.

As a mother, she is very good to her children. But I have being training the boys not to give in the manipulative nature of their mother.

As for wife, she has nothing on me. The only power she gets is s*xx, and I get alternatives for that.

I told her once, if I must carried you go abroad, I would not do mistake go UK or USA, it is Afghanistan we will go.

hahahaha some couple conversation right here