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Y not?
When their colleagues dey do e-sex for somewhere else, y dem no go copy?
Na u wey choose to do am virtually nau

SpencerForbes:
Why should I be the one paying for what we both enjoyed?

if a lady is going to have sex with someone she doesn't like or know well enough she may not enjoy the sex so she opts for money as compensation.

The reason for this is primarily because of men who want sex without any form of satisfactory Relationship experience inline with the girls standards or ideals.

Some simp men want fast food or speed dating where they rush the lady into sex b4 she is ready for it in such cases she will bill u and such men are usually ready to pay.

So the fault isn't only from the woman. That is my point here.

jaxxy:
if a lady is going to have sex with someone she doesn't like or know well enough she may not enjoy the sex so she opts for money as compensation.

The reason for this is primarily because of men who want sex without any form of satisfactory Relationship experience inline with the girls standards or ideals.

Some simp men want fast food or speed dating where they rush the lady into sex b4 she is ready for it in such cases she will bill u and such men are usually ready to pay.

So the fault isn't only from the woman. That is my point here.

True but what if the lady falls due to her greed, you know the guy doesn’t love you but you go ahead with the relationship because you want to level up. Then due to your carelessness, you get pregnant even with the level of contraceptives now due to your fantasy search of “soft life”. Please who’s fault is it and why should the major blame be men🤔🤔🤔

I thought women could detect a man’s motives from km away🤔 so that means she isn’t ignorant of it. It is a clear case of putting your hand in fire even when you know it is fire and then blaming your dad for not pulling you away. That logic only works on children not on adults. My point is not that men are innocent but they shouldn’t point all the fingers to men but also blame theirselves.

Another question, if you’re scammed who do you blame? The scammer or the scammed🤔

Men are at fault but women shouldn’t act victimized cos they are the main culprits.
👨‍🦯👨‍🦯

I was just going through my Facebook contact status and every girl seem to have a particular type of pose and dressing that suggests hookup, and frightening enough is how young most of this girls are. There’s no dignity in labor anymore in this country.

✓ Is it by making themselves commodities that "females are stepping up to call the shots"?

Women are not responsible for the commodifying of their bodies and beings. That can be traced back to me whp felt that women should only be able to enjoy the price placed on them by men. Virgin...good girl... fine girl ..wife material... evening newspapers ..olosho. left over women....these are some of the grading systems that have been used by men to qualify women and their worth. Women are simply taking back their lives by deciding what they are worth regardless of what label men place on them.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

elipheleh:
✓ Nothing do you sha. No shame in just saying you be ash*wo

Why should there be shame in it? Simply because men say there should be? 🥱🥱

Does a virgin turned penniless single mother after she was as used and then dumped by a man who promised her heaven and earth because she was a virgin, any less ashamed and devastated than a woman who was called an ashawo by a man she refused to sleep with simply because he would not pay? Does the ex-Virgin go around with her head high because she did not collect money for all the time and the child she ended up burdened with by a man who dumped her and left her life wrecked with a child to boot? 🥱🥱🥱

May una begin to dey reason well well.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

kiddaz:
✓ Which yeye aftermath is always borne by the woman besides getting pregnant? Somebody go just siddon dey counter everything and anything just for nothing . Holowshow is Holowshow, nor dey defend nonsense all the time in the name of women's advocate

This nonchalance is why women are no longer reasoning to live as foolishly as their mothers and grandmothers before then. You actually think nothing of the emotional and a lot of times physical labor women invest in their relationships with men in addition to the fact of the wear and teat og pregnancy on a woman's body and mental health. I no blame your at all. 🥱

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

Hhh4444:
@✓ Is it only the woman that gives up her body? What kind of perception is this? So the man's body is of no value? Abi.

Men have almost always considered themselves the price when it comes to these things, so yes, women were required to give up their bodies to the benefit of the male ego — never the female ego. Women's egos are never really talked about since it almost does not matter that women also have egos, same as men d,o as well have always been placed as direct servants to men. This is what has been.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

Tenrack:
Rest.

You're not paying to me, the app is a premium app and foreigners will be rushing you if you have a good profile.

Emeskhalifa:
➜You've said it just how it is. The traditional dating was never free You refill her gas, pay rent and other stuff. Infact, the man ends up paying more compared to what he'd pay on the dating apps.
➜ Not like the lady in the traditional dating will even be loyal so why won't a lot of men settle for the dating app?

You actually believe the pittance you pay a woman in a traditional dating is enough to cover the cost of the near-free emotional and physical labor you receive from them? Again, this mentality is the reason why more and more women are abandoning the old ways for the new way. This is why many so-called traditional-minded women are now choosing to present themselves similarly to those on dating apps. 🥱🥱🥱

2. You just mentioned earlier that there is really no incentive for them to remain loyal to men in traditional dating. Their efforts and labor are cheapened, which is one of the incentives for them to move on as soon as they can.

By the way, many men have been doing this to women for the longest, so women are simply finally playing the same game.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

Kobojunkie:
This nonchalance is why women are no longer reasoning to live as foolishly as their mothers and grandmothers before then. You actually think nothing of the emotional and a lot of times physical labor women invest in their relationships with men in addition to the fact of the wear and teat og pregnancy on a woman's body and mental health. I no blame your at all. 🥱

So all these you mentioned doesn't affect the men but only happens to the females? I blame you very well for this one-sided thinking cos if not for Seun wetin go make me dey relate with person with a d0t reasoning faculty... Nonsense 😒

bende7t:
➜KoboJ, your construct they always tire me. Why do you always support the idea of women prostituting just to prove gender equality.
➜ When them say pay the bills, you will point to the man! Thank God say una don open our eyes with the evil intent in women's heart
➜ Sister, na man be the price!
➜ Una market dey expire from 30yrs upward then the all night prayer session go start. Keep mumuing urself

1. I believe in a woman's right to do with her body as she chooses. I didn't label those of them who demand an outright price for the use of their bodies by men as prostitutes... male-centered society did that.

2. Men and women pay bills; every human being has bills to pay, but the male-centered(religion included) mindset has, for the longest, put the needs of women on the back burner— the needs of women have been taken for granted for the longest. Women are no longer choosing to sit back and take it.

3. I think it is OK that a man continues to think himself a prize in his own head. That is all good and well. If he can think of himself as the prize without needing a woman in the picture, that works fantastically for him. However, what women have a problem with is the man thinking it is Ok for him to use the woman's time and body for free in stroking his prized ego. They, too, want to be adequately compensated for their time and efforts in helping the man stroke his bloated ego. It is that simple.

4. All the more reason why women should get as much as they can from the menfolk who would think to use them before that age, right? That way, they can skip the need for the night prayer nonsense since they will have amassed enough seed money to build a better life rather than look around for a man after that point, abi?

Smartguyboy:
Tips

Invite her very late she might not want to go back, that how I ended up paying 15k for TDB actually it was for short time . She came around to 10 and couldn’t go back . 3 rounds

3 rounds na the standard for overnight and short time na 1 round.
comrade I salute u with massive respect 🫡

Kobojunkie:
1. Romance has almost always been up for negotiation, only that up until now, many men have been able to get away with getting their needs met for free, while the women are left carrying the empty bag and baggage left behind.

2. What is the difference between a woman who gives up her body for free to a man and a woman who gives up the same body at a cost to another man?

3. There was never such a line. There was simply a male-dominated past now giving way to a present where females are stepping up to call the shots, as far as the cost of giving it up is concerned.

4. Men brought it down to where women decided it all had to change for the better.

just look at ur number 2 point......im ashamed of u,...really disgraceful

Nefort:
➜The reason men pay for sex has nothing to do with the reasons you stated above. Men pay for sex because of the imbalance in demand. Men demand for sex more than women so women decided to monetize the demand. If men's libido were significantly lowered below women's then women will start being the ones paying for sex.

You didn't adequately digest all I have stated so far on the topic, have you? 🥱🥱🥱

Men are the price implies men need sex more than women, and as such, it does not benefit the woman to give up her time and body to any man for free. Come on dude... this ain't rocket science! 🙄🙄

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

Mistersolar:
➜just look at ur number 2 point......im ashamed of u,...really disgraceful

Keep your shame and disgrace to yourself... I don't care for any of it.

Dpsychologist:
➜Ah tell you. Tinder, Bumble, Badoo all same. The worst mistake you can make is to assume because they wrote looking for relationship that they really want that. Or directly asking them what they are in the app for (90% will whine you).
➜You will end up dating her or planning for something serious while another men will carry her for daybreak.

So your insinuation is that a man should be able to freely mind a woman's resources— emotional, physical, and mental labor — free of charge in a relationship? I am really glad that this current generation is no longer having that nonsense.

2. But, menfolk have done a lot worse than that for so long. Why is it suddenly wrong for women to do pretty much the same?

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

ogascomax:
➜I like your point because we have to holistically look into this matter. I don't support any behaviour that is not God standard but if we are to look into this.
➜ Men have always taken advantage of this situation and many girls have become heartbroken, baby mama etc. Now they are saying it has to be business, a give and take situation so if there is any consequence I bear that consequences by myself. More of taking their fate in their hands.

1. Leave the meaningless mentions of god out of this because the last I checked, the god that is thrown at women is men. Male-centered society has raised men as gods over women, and every time religion speaks to women, it is always for the glorification of the egos of men. Even in marriage, a woman is told that a man is her head/god. So, embrace honesty and replace any mention of the term god with men .

2. Don't get me wrong! It has always been give-and-take; women have, for the most part, been left with the short end of the stick in the past. What women want is a more equitable exchange for their contributions to helping men remain the prize they claim themselves to be.


** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

JetStar:
➜The poverty situation in Nigeria also contributed to this mess. It has blurred the line between geniune dating and prostitution.
➜ Little surprise here that Nigerian men are often the perpetrators of romance scams and business email compromise when it comes to dating women abroad.
➜ Ladies have learned that too.

This ain't just about poverty, but more about standing up to be seen as humans in their right, same as men. And this isn't happening only in Nigeria. This is happening even in many of the most developed nations, where women(and their egos) have also been marginalized for the longest.

2. Men have been playing games with women for the longest, and women are simply tired of being victims and collateral damage in male-centered societies.

3. And boys are having tantrums for silly reasons.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

PUNANI01:
You're not paying to me, the app is a premium app and foreigners will be rushing you if you have a good profile.

drop the name of the app na. This talk plenty

ogascomax:
➜It's hard for her to know Na. She can't see your heart but she can only see your intentions. You showed her all the wonderful love but neither does she know that you have an evil agenda.

It is the whole good guy illusion that many women were brainwashed with from a young age. It takes some of them several heartaches to learn to judge a man not by his words but by his actions, same as they would judge every other human out there.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

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kiddaz:
➜So all these you mentioned doesn't affect the men but only happens to the females? I blame you very well for this one-sided thinking cos if not for Seun wetin go make me dey relate with person with a d0t reasoning faculty... Nonsense 😒

Keep in mind, as you continue to respond, that the general idea that men are the price; everything of this goes to the glorification of the male ego, never the female ego; the female who partakes in these rituals gets nothing. She is basically a free sacrifice to the ego of the man in all of this. Unless, of course, she puts a price on her contributions herself.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

DMCA:
3 rounds na the standard for overnight and short time na 1 round.
comrade I salute u with massive respect 🫡

Na 2 rounds be standard
3 na with abeg

Smartguyboy:
Na 2 rounds be standard
3 na with abeg

na because u no d discuss about d rounds upfront. dem no wan loose out because of 1 round addition na..
and depending how I flex dem (food, alcohol, small chops, suya etc).. dem d free me Kwikie before dem leave in the morning
some d even suggest we hangout some other time again

Tenrack:
drop the name of the app na. This talk plenty

Don't mess it up if you get there. The name is : Lovely (meet and date local). Enjoy

PUNANI01:
Don't mess it up if you get there. The name is : Lovely (meet and date local). Enjoy

arigato hhhhgghhhhgg

DMCA:
na because u no d discuss about d rounds upfront. dem no wan loose out because of 1 round addition na..
and depending how I flex dem (food, alcohol, small chops, suya etc).. dem d free me Kwikie before dem leave in the morning
some d even suggest we hangout some other time again

Lol

Old customer service anything you get goes.

I have one back then she need 5k I told her to come around .. lol

Even knack one uniuyo girl for 2k though she chop dinner and breakfast before leaving.

God forgive me 🙏

Smartguyboy:
Lol

Old customer service anything you get goes.

I have one back then she need 5k I told her to come around .. lol

Even knack one uniuyo girl for 2k though she chop dinner and breakfast before leaving.

God forgive me 🙏

Testosterone get power I swear