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jaxxy:
if a lady is going to have sex with someone she doesn't like or know well enough she may not enjoy the sex so she opts for money as compensation.

The reason for this is primarily because of men who want sex without any form of satisfactory Relationship experience inline with the girls standards or ideals.

Some simp men want fast food or speed dating where they rush the lady into sex b4 she is ready for it in such cases she will bill u and such men are usually ready to pay.

So the fault isn't only from the woman. That is my point here.

Kobojunkie:
Why should there be shame in it? Simply because men say there should be? 🥱🥱

Does a virgin turned penniless single mother after she was as used and then dumped by a man who promised her heaven and earth because she was a virgin, any less ashamed and devastated than a woman who was called an ashawo by a man she refused to sleep with simply because he would not pay? Does the ex-Virgin go around with her head high because she did not collect money for all the time and the child she ended up burdened with by a man who dumped her and left her life wrecked with a child to boot? 🥱🥱🥱

May una begin to dey reason well well.

** By Men, I mean male-centered men and women who back them. And by Women, I, of course, mostly mean women who are against the traditional illusion that has persisted until now(there are still lots of women(many of our mothers and grandmothers included) who still go around parrotting the old model that has largely traumatized women as the way.

No explain too much. No damage control needed. We know ash*wo
Be proud about it. Just open ash*wo institute already

elipheleh:
➜No explain too much. No damage control needed. We know ash*wo Be proud about it. Just open ash*wo institute already

My guess is a lot of you would also judge your grandmothers and mothers as asha**wos if she were brought before you while you had to have a blindfold on. So, I tell women not to think anything of it when you refer to them by the same names you would your own blood if the situation were right... asha^^wos

Kobojunkie:
My guess is a lot of you would also judge your grandmothers and mothers as asha**wos if she were brought before you while you had to have a blindfold on. So, I tell women not to think anything of it when you refer to them by the same names you would your own blood if the situation were right... asha^^wos

Abeg separate my grandma from your mouth. She doesn't trade nor sponsor ash*wo.
Grand matron on Allen, go on.
We stand by you.

Yap as OP says it becomes some kind of marketplace. Nice post I read few weeks ago, called online dating reset, explains very well...

PUNANI01:
i have a real dating app but you must pay for it. Girls will be chasing after you like say tomorrow no dey.

PUNANI01's blunt comment about charging for a "real dating app" actually points to the only way forward for serious daters. The pay-for-play model is broken when it's just about hookups, but a pay-for-quality model is essential.

If people are paying a subscription, they are signaling genuine intent. This helps filter out the time-wasters, scammers, and those just "performing" for social media clout. The fee becomes a prerequisite for seriousness, not a bribe for affection.

We need platforms built on this principle. Instead of wasting time on the transactional mess of free apps, check out emerging Nigerian platforms focused on verified, serious matches. For those looking for real relationships, not negotiations, look towards curated communities like http://www.naijacupid.com.ng to find genuine connections.

The cost shouldn't be high emotions or collateral; it should just be a small fee to join a community of serious people.