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greatiyk4u:
➜You judge everyone by your standards which is unfortunate but I can only emphasize .... A girl I dated right from university days till marriage is who you think I married not because of love?

Are you OK in the head? You literally admitted in your OP to all of Nairaland that the major contributing factor to you marrying this gal was not anything the girl herself did or is, but was the fact that your parents needed a caregiver and wanted to see grandchildren. What part of that comes off as love for the woman you wifed? 😂😂😂

And then you are trying to blame me for judging you by your own admission? Are you sure you are OK? 😂😂😂

Towma:
The Op's entire writeup really pissed me off, and the worst part is that he will most likely cheat on her with other women because he didn't marry her for love.
I just pity his wife Sha.

Better pity for yourself because she's comfortable and happy in her marriage because she is equally here reading this post.
If you are cheat don't assume everyone do like you

Kobojunkie:
Are you OK in the head? You literally admitted in your OP to all of Nairaland that the major contributing factor to you marrying this gal was not anything the girl herself did or is, but was the fact that your parents needed a caregiver and wanted to see grandchildren. What part of that comes off as love for the woman you wifed? 😂😂😂

And then you are trying to blame me for judging you by your own admission? Are you sure you are OK? 😂😂😂

You sound broken with fixed mind that is not ready to accept new dimension.......so you mean our relationship dating back to the university days was for same caregiving reason not love?.....I think i will join others who hve been criticizing your weak logic in most post on Nland

greatiyk4u:
➜You sound broken with fixed mind that is not ready to accept new dimension.......
➜ so you mean our relationship dating back to the university days was for same caregiving reason not love?.....
➜ I think i will join others who hve been criticizing your weak logic in most post on Nland

How am I broken if I am not the one who literally came out in public to declare that the reason I married me a wife is so I can use the woman to provide near-free hospice care for my parents and fulfil their wish for grandbabies?

2. Lots of people date people from university days for many years, only to then move on to marrying someone they had only known for a few months. So, you keep mentioning that you dated the gal from the university days, like that is somehow supposed to change any of the other declarations you boldly confessed to, which is that she was married to provide near-free hospice care for your parents and also give them grandbabies.

3. No need to inform me before joining the long queue...I am sure the others there will love you.

Towma:
Get lost, I wasn't addressing you. You know you are so sensitive to criticism then why post your personal life story here?

Criticism should be sensible and constructive

meobizy:
Children never asked to be born.

So it’s parents that asked to be born? SMH

Prettychild:
So it’s parents that asked to be born? SMH

Stop rapping nonsense! Children didn't ask to be born implies it is this who choose to conceive and birth them that force those children into existence. That you were born does not then mean you must have kids.

Kobojunkie:
Stop rapping nonsense! Children didn't ask to be born implies it is this who choose to conceive and birth them that force those children into existence. That you were born does not then mean you must have kids.

You have lost it so it is no use bantering words with you

Prettychild:
You have lost it so it is no use bantering words with you

Look who's talking! 🥱🥱🥱

Misery loves company.

Prettychild:
So it’s parents that asked to be born? SMH