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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by EarthKing(m): 7:26am On Oct 18, 2025
Shikenan! grin cheesy

PerfectStranger:
Most pastors and daddy GOs enjoy these privileges pass darling husband.

Any woman that simp around with her pastor me I'll also look for a female pastor with big yansh and do same too. Let d best simp win grin
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by EvilMerodack(m):
pocohantas:
Various reasons

1) Some claim they are avoiding evil eyes. They don't want their husbands to be target of snatching.

2) Pseudo-maturity/toughness. They don't want to be seen as female simps.

3) Love has indeed faded and has been replaced solely b

4) Some are genuinely trying to protect their marriages. Remember the saying of "Stop posting your marriage. Happy marriages are not on social media, yenyenyen". My friend who is loudest about her husband has the best marriage I know of. Nothing will (most likely) happen to your marriage if both of your hands are clean. Most marriages I have seen social media bring down, one or both had skeletons in the cupboard.


5) Fear of breakfast. Imagine posting husband everyday only for him to be filmed with sidechick. You will become national example of a female simp.


6) The man dey shame them. After marrying the available, to post hexagon head no easy abeg.


7) The man may not want it. I have seen some men claim they do not care, but I haven't seen a man who didn't appreciate words of affirmation when he is cornered with it. For some it is coping mechanism. For others they really do not care.


8 ) Privacy reasons. Let the man have his anonymity. He could be a politician or terrorist.


9) Scarcity concept. If you too see the husband, you fit see am finish.

Finally, if any man is genuinely bothered by it, I advise he communicates to his wife. Some of us think you guys do not care, because it is what you have told us over and over. If you care now, please tell your partner.

Thank you..
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by FalseProphet1(m): 4:46pm On Oct 18, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
Tell us the story please
The story is very long.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Tenrack: 5:53pm On Oct 18, 2025
Kaczynski:
for me, i hate unneccessary attention, im too private that i cant even let my babe post our pics on sm, im not on any sm either .

i dislike that shii


i once broke up with my ex for posting us on sm, its fine we can take pics but please dont post it , numerous girls has suspected that either im a yahoo boy or ritualist


since when did privacy became a
bros shey e get where I offend you?
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Vinnie2000(m): 10:57pm On Oct 18, 2025
OP
Dat's bcus in Nigeria, our ladies do NOT marry who love or wanted
But the Man that was Rich or arranged for them. sad

90% of Nigerian married women do NOT love their husbands. smiley
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Kaczynski: 12:42am On Oct 19, 2025
Tenrack:
bros shey e get where I offend you?
didn't you see my email on that thread??

if you didnt reach me here hiroshimatsuoka@proton.me
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Tenrack: 4:52am On Oct 19, 2025
Kaczynski:
didn't you see my email on that thread??

if you didnt reach me here hiroshimatsuoka@proton.me
I swear I didn't sire. Thanks I'll text you asap.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Tenrack: 6:16am On Oct 19, 2025
Kaczynski:
didn't you see my email on that thread??

if you didnt reach me here hiroshimatsuoka@proton.me
Sent sire. Thanks
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Avoid Celebrating Their Husband Like Their Boyfriends by Ayo8(m): 11:26pm On Oct 19, 2025
pocohantas:
Various reasons

1) Some claim they are avoiding evil eyes. They don't want their husbands to be target of snatching.

2) Pseudo-maturity/toughness. They don't want to be seen as female simps.

3) Love has indeed faded and has been replaced solely by duty.

4) Some are genuinely trying to protect their marriages. Remember the saying of "Stop posting your marriage. Happy marriages are not on social media, yenyenyen". My friend who is loudest about her husband has the best marriage I know of. Nothing will (most likely) happen to your marriage if both of your hands are clean. Most marriages I have seen social media bring down, one or both had skeletons in the cupboard.


5) Fear of breakfast. Imagine posting husband everyday only for him to be filmed with sidechick. You will become national example of a female simp.


6) The man dey shame them. After marrying the available, to post hexagon head no easy abeg.


7) The man may not want it. I have seen some men claim they do not care, but I haven't seen a man who didn't appreciate words of affirmation when he is cornered with it. For some it is coping mechanism. For others they really do not care.


8 ) Privacy reasons. Let the man have his anonymity. He could be a politician or terrorist.


9) Scarcity concept. If you too see the husband, you fit see am finish.

Finally, if any man is genuinely bothered by it, I advise he communicates to his wife. Some of us think you guys do not care, because it is what you have told us over and over. If you care now, please tell your partner.

Thank you.
How come you're so knowledgeable on this topic..?
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