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Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Blissjeff: 5:55pm On Oct 19, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married. undecided

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit undecided

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!! undecided
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.
Since men lie,aunty pls don't marry o,so u won't be lied to.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Bloreal(m): 5:56pm On Oct 19, 2025
Wahala every where
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Blissjeff: 5:56pm On Oct 19, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married. undecided

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit undecided

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!! undecided
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.
Since men lie,aunty pls don't marry o,so u won't be lied to.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 5:57pm On Oct 19, 2025
michoim:
What are you talking! You are talking without coordination...
Read it again, patiently. It may be long but it is clear.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Pythagoras001: 5:58pm On Oct 19, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married. undecided

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit undecided

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!! undecided
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.
what is with sexist talk that men can lie? how about people can lie?
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Seunomobo: 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
This one sweet me oo.
Lailo what do you have to say about this?
E GBE mic fun lailo, ki Lailo fun wa ni opinion re Nipa oro yi grin
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by uunwanaobong3: 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2025
WORDS ON THE MARBLE;

One drunk man is more intelligent than 3 women with PhDs.

A fat woman is equivalent to what a broke man is.



by Robert Mogabe
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 6:00pm On Oct 19, 2025
maasoap:
Why the long sermon? The point of Op is simple: who walks out of 37 million naira wedding just after two weeks? We know what you are saying but we equally understand what Op meant.
It is easier to walk away just after two weeks when you were not the one who spent 37 million naira undecided undecided
So you think the cost of the wedding is a reason to stay in the marriage even if you realize you have made a mistake?
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Lexusgs430: 6:02pm On Oct 19, 2025
ednut1:
What will now happen to the rice and drinks if true?
The marriage don happen nah...... Those wey chop go don shit am comot (except people suffering from extreme constipation)..... 😂🤣
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Berankis: 6:03pm On Oct 19, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married. undecided

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit undecided

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!! undecided
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.
Discover whathuh In just 2weeks! Is she Mongo Park? Discover!!
Men that stop at nothing to impress a woman will always end up with disappointment. Except he can really afford it.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Harddiskng(m): 6:05pm On Oct 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You mean instead that women feel trapped where they are invested in a situation? This is, of course, assuming the woman did not contribute any financial effort towards the wedding reception, right? huh
Nope she didn’t.

Plus women won’t invest in who doesn’t believe in, so nothing like feeling trapped cuz a women make conscious marital investment decisions.

If man realize things like this, there would less of this kinda stories. She doesn’t invest in the relationship: news flash, she is not the one!
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by duduade(m): 6:08pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Tufiakwa
She was never ready
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Goodlady(f): 6:08pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Is N37m recipe for a lasting marriage?
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Kayberg: 6:09pm On Oct 19, 2025
Waste of money…
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Storyofmylife: 6:10pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
A man spent this on wedding and am here trying to get #110k to repay my opay loan. I am so much disturbed and worried oh.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Kobojunkie: 6:10pm On Oct 19, 2025
Harddiskng:
➜Nope she didn’t. Plus women won’t invest in who doesn’t believe in, so nothing like feeling trapped cuz a women make conscious marital investment decisions.
If man realize things like this, there would less of this kinda stories. She doesn’t invest in the relationship: news flash, she is not the one!
This response makes no sense since the OP, no matter how half-arsed it is, indicates the woman invested her time—recall, time na money — and then decided two weeks into the marriage that it ain't worth it. undecided

2. This is also a rather simplistic take on what men would do if they were to realize the red flags early, since time and time again, like women, men have shown they are equally prone to ignoring red flags. undecided
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Divoc19(f): 6:11pm On Oct 19, 2025
Good for them. The earlier they divorce the better
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by correctguy101(m): 6:11pm On Oct 19, 2025
Ah, that's why we look down on today's men kneeling to propose. They'll spend their osusu, arrange location, sacrifice the whole day just to propose and still kneel. Spend their own osusu to arrange weddings, huge sums and Las las, madam go come say she no do again. Come still split ya hard earned osusu for court.

"Mr. husband marry for church
He make big party
Then he start to spray
Because him love him wife
Mrs wife come run away
Bank manager run come
He say, "Mr. pay me your debt"
Wetin he dey find, for Lagos e oh?" - High Prophet Anikulapo Fela Kuti

Even Baba has seen it in the spirit.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by BigCowHornn: 6:13pm On Oct 19, 2025
immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us the cost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.
Busy body didn't read
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by lildush(m): 6:15pm On Oct 19, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married. undecided

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit undecided

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!! undecided
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.
A man just lost 37million naira and this is all u have to say? Who lies more than women? Especially the cheating ones. Women lie and cheat more Dan men. Anyway I blame him for spending dat much money to marry a lady I know is not a virgin.. he will have made her contribute 50% of the money.. she will not have quit the marriage. Let this be a lesson to all men. Don't spend much on weddings. If any lady is demanding a big ceremony let her contribute 60% of the money... If she's not ok with dat. Let her accept wat is available or go.. a lady who loves u will not stress u. If she does. Den it's a red flag.. dump her before the relationship goes far.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Ashirioluwa: 6:17pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Fiction story
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by femi4: 6:19pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Ned spent more than that on regina Daniels

No be by having elaborate wedding
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by tollyboy5(m): 6:20pm On Oct 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nothing wrong with spending even more than that on a wedding or reception. Just that there are literally still people out there who have yet to realize that money does not equal a marriage guarantee. According to OP, the man's friend felt to bring the half-arse story to public space, not understanding that this would damage his own friend, not the girl. undecided
Everything is wrong if the spending is from one side only.
Infact it's a red flag
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Ashirioluwa: 6:22pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Some folks will come online to write imaginary stories just for clout chasing.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Afolue(m): 6:24pm On Oct 19, 2025
It may look huge to those who can not afford to spend such amount of money. But truth be told, some ladies can be heartless , wicked, silly enough , foolish enough , devilish enough, just name it, to allow a guy waste such sum of money on their behalf and still not have feelings of guilt and pity.
The guy Na ritualist, Abi na gay, or armed robber, or kidnapper. That She couldn’t have said she never noticed any signs before saying I do.

Getting some women pregnant out of wedlock is just the best in some cases….
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Kobojunkie: 6:24pm On Oct 19, 2025
tollyboy5:
➜ Everything is wrong if the spending is from one side only. Infact it's a red flag
. Nothing is wrong with that since it all depends on the contract between the couple. undecided

For instance, in the Traditional marriage system, the man is expected to be the major spender and provider. If the man chose instead a partnership, then maybe the woman would have to bring her share. Traditional is not shoved down anyone's throat, so there is absolutely nothing wrong with the man alone footing the bill. undecided
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by maasoap(m): 6:26pm On Oct 19, 2025
TheGift:
So you think the cost of the wedding is a reason to stay in the marriage even if you realize you have made a mistake?
Not just the cost as the stand alone reason, listen to me clearly.
The period is very short my guy. You can't spend 37 million naira on wedding and walk away from it after just two weeks even if you married devil himself/herself. If the woman was the one who spent that amount, she wouldn't walk away just after two weeks. She would want to exercise patience and see if both could walk through their issues.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by lildush(m): 6:27pm On Oct 19, 2025
It's so sad..... I'm this harsh economy.. may God bless men with wisdom wen it comes to dealing with women ooo. I just can't imagine some things men do for some women.. the problem is dis.. even if u talk till next year dey will Neva listen... anyway their money their problem
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by kingthreat(m): 6:29pm On Oct 19, 2025
One thing I am sure of is that is next marriage would be less than 2 Million naira.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by OnlyGodAvail86: 6:30pm On Oct 19, 2025
meobizy:
Believe online tales at your own risk. Everybody is now an author.
I believed this because samething happened to me about 2months ago, while mywife just quit our marriage 40days later.
Re: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by Curious345: 6:32pm On Oct 19, 2025
The guy was "zero erection"
immortalcrown:
Telling us why the marriage ended is more important than telling us the cost of the wedding. The cost of the wedding is never the reason the marriage ended.

Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

Wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.
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