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SpencerForbes:
Hope you’re not fond of carrying his polo🤔
You ladies should stop that. It doesn’t speak well of you.
A lady once told me if she comes, she’ll take two of my big polos. I told her to bring “Ghana must go”. She was laughing but I didn’t find it funny. I had to take all my nice polos to my bro house and she ended up taking the one I wore. She was even planning to take my EarPod in the name of girlfriend.

If you can avoid it, it’s nice but if you can’t. Take one in 3 months and it will look romantic. Not everytime coming to take my shirt in the name of “bae”
🚶‍♂️

You’re getting robbed 😂. We only take one thing and hold on to it for as long as the relationship lasts or the item becomes old then we come back for another. I take 1 hoodie and I spray his scent on it and pull it out when I miss him. It’s meant to be romantic not a shopping spree 😅

SpencerForbes:
Hope you’re not fond of carrying his polo🤔
You ladies should stop that. It doesn’t speak well of you.
A lady once told me if she comes, she’ll take two of my big polos. I told her to bring “Ghana must go”. She was laughing but I didn’t find it funny. I had to take all my nice polos to my bro house and she ended up taking the one I wore. She was even planning to take my EarPod in the name of girlfriend.

If you can avoid it, it’s nice but if you can’t. Take one in 3 months and it will look romantic. Not everytime coming to take my shirt in the name of “bae”
🚶‍♂️

He doesn’t wear polo, I haven’t taken any of his things before and I don’t ask him for anything. I don’t wear peoples cloth even if we are dating, This didn’t happen in Nigeria, thanks.

marlow1962:
Ok let's hear from your boyfriend. One sided event like this is suspicious, especially when it comes first from a female.

What happened is what I have narrated, I didn’t add or subtract from it. I don’t know if he’s on this platform.

Angiewhite:
Nope, It’s the other way round, I just don’t want to dwell on that so it doesn’t seem I’m boastful, o just want to focus on the matter on hand, why will a guy in a relationship set up his girlfriend for theft,that’s all.

The guy wanted to get rid of you. He had insulted you, called you another woman's name and probably did other things to get you out but you refused to get the message. That's why he didn't apologize to you on this.

Has he called you since the incident last week?

Meedon:
Don't listen to broke boys and girls oooo

It is better to cry jn a Lamborghini than to laugh in a hut

Hold that guy tight. Street no friendly at all.

It’s the other way around, I just don’t want to talk about that.

Angiewhite:
He doesn’t wear polo, I haven’t taken any of his things before and I don’t ask him for anything. I don’t wear peoples cloth even if we are dating, This didn’t happen in Nigeria, thanks.

Okay. Seems the guy don’t trust you then. Try to have a heart to heart talk and he might reveal his motive. Cos I don’t see any reason he should be doubting you if you’ve never done it before.

Double0h7:
You’re getting robbed 😂. We only take one thing and hold on to it for as long as the relationship lasts or the item becomes old then we come back for another. I take 1 hoodie and I spray his scent on it and pull it out when I miss him. It’s meant to be romantic not a shopping spree 😅

Some of our sisters see it as shopping spree tho. But if she doesn’t do such I’m still wondering why the man will act like that🤔

Angiewhite:
Nope, you’re wrong, I equally contribute to the relationship, I didn’t want to mention but I’m actually more “okay than him”.

Then he's clearly not into you, simply take your leave to someone who's more deserving.

Angiewhite:
This didn’t happen in Nigeria, He’s been wanting to marry me asking me to do his papers for him but I wanted to be sure of his love for me, he asks for money from me regularly, I’m the one who fuels his car, we both reside in Canada, that’s why I’m surprised why he did this because I’m more than this, I’m a nurse here , I didn’t want to mention all these before but I feel like I need to because some people are mentioning I’m with him for money, if you want to leave a lady there are other ways to do it other than this, this is the lowest of the low.

I'm sorry I misjudged you bf is a piece of dirt. You ought to have dropped the man long time ago. Btw. Are you Nigerian?

Angiewhite:
Nope, It’s the other way round, I just don’t want to dwell on that so it doesn’t seem I’m boastful, I just want to focus on the matter on hand, why will a guy in a relationship set up his girlfriend for theft,that’s all.

Dude isn't into you. He's prolly tired and wants an exit for reasons known to him if what you're saying is the undiluted truth, why are you still wasting your precious time with such an anus hole?

Op. Are you sure he isn’t hiding something in the phone🤔 cos if you’ve never done it, there no need for him to feel that way. Maybe there’s something he doesn’t want you to see.

Have you ever checked his phone??

SpencerForbes:
Some of our sisters see it as shopping spree tho. But if she doesn’t do such I’m still wondering why the man will act like that🤔

He was just fvckin with her head. If it went his way he would’ve accused her of stealing and broke up with her. He doesn’t rate op at all. I don’t know why op can’t see it though. A man who insults and belittles a woman is testing how much shi she’s willing to swallow. Calling her by another woman’s name is his way of telling her that she’s not special to him. I think he’s jealous of her and that’s a dangerous man to be with. I bet he uses her for money and a warmth. Op! Please learn from this and teach people how to treat you instead of being a “forgiving” girlfriend.

Tenrack:
Your boyfriend is richer than you. Endure he would eventually change, okay? Better to cry in a car than to cry outside one abi how dem dey put that quote sef. Endure the barrage of insults, it's a very small price to pay, after all you're gonna secure the bag.

I pity you, because he his driving car doesn't garranty that he will make a better family, She rather date a guy without car but responsible than dating or marrying an irresponsible man just because the man has car and money at the end, she will regret.

He subconsciously put the phone there, hence when he cannot remember. When you are in a state of panic, your body secretes adrenalin. This might cause you to act irrationally, hence the reason why he asked you to search your bag and all that.


My point is that, it's like an honest mistake and you don't habe to end the relationship unless if he has other flaws that you cannot forego.

Samantha125:
The same Nigerians who a making money by making content on SA affairs on YouTube? You must be joking.

lol I don't know about this

Helpout12345:
The guy wanted to get rid of you. He had insulted you, called you another woman's name and probably did other things to get you out but you refused to get the message. That's why he didn't apologize to you on this.

Has he called you since the incident last week?

I waited for three days to see if he will apologize for the embarrassing, he didn’t so I blocked him.

Tenrack:
Dude isn't into you. He's prolly tired and wants an exit for reasons known to him if what you're saying is the undiluted truth, why are you still wasting your precious time with such an anus hole?

I thought as much as well.

SpencerForbes:
Op. Are you sure he isn’t hiding something in the phone🤔 cos if you’ve never done it, there no need for him to feel that way. Maybe there’s something he doesn’t want you to see.

Have you ever checked his phone??

Maybe.

Double0h7:
He was just fvckin with her head. If it went his way he would’ve accused her of stealing and broke up with her. He doesn’t rate op at all. I don’t know why op can’t see it though. A man who insults and belittles a woman is testing how much shi she’s willing to swallow. Calling her by another woman’s name is his way of telling her that she’s not special to him. I think he’s jealous of her and that’s a dangerous man to be with. I bet he uses her for money and a warmth. Op! Please learn from this and teach people how to treat you instead of being a “forgiving” girlfriend.

You’re 100% correct , because I noticed the smirk on his face when he was searching, like someone who knew what they were doing. Just I couldn’t wrap my head around it, it really disturb my brain for days, I was in a shock mode.

nnamdi640:
I pity you, because he his driving car doesn't garranty that he will make a better family, She rather date a guy without car but responsible than dating or marrying an irresponsible man just because the man has car and money at the end, she will regret.

That’s right.

Juliearth:
He subconsciously put the phone there, hence when he cannot remember. When you are in a state of panic, your body secretes adrenalin. This might cause you to act irrationally, hence the reason why he asked you to search your bag and all that.


My point is that, it's like an honest mistake and you don't habe to end the relationship unless if he has other flaws that you cannot forego.

No it wasn’t a mistake dear, he knew what he was doing , that’s why I just want to know the motive behind it, he had this evil smile on his face while searching for the phone, like someone who knew what they were doing and that’s why I was more confused myself and had to sit down and just looking at him.

Angiewhite:
You’re 100% correct , because I noticed the smirk on his face when he was searching, like someone who knew what they were doing. Just I couldn’t wrap my head around it, it really disturb my brain for days, I was in a shock mode.

Don't try to understand any of it (whatever his motive was).
Don't even ask him about it.
Just give yourself peace and move on.

Whoever has you questioning your worth is not worth it.
Nobody can make you feel small without your permission.
Never doubt yourself and your worth.


If you find it difficult moving on from him, I'm here to help you in any way that I can.

At least now you do, they're well aware that the name "South Africa" alone generates traffic.

So now allow me to enjoy nairaland in peace...😤😤😤... Even Seun said I can stay for as long as I wish and do as I please while I'm around here given that I don't break any nairaland rules...😌😌😌... Some of us are law abiding citizens and respect the laws of our hosts...🤭🤭🤭

I mean how many of you in here were given an official welcome by the big boss?😏😏😏

papiilo:
lol I don't know about this

Samantha125:
At least now you do, they're well aware that the name "South Africa" alone generates traffic.

So now allow me to enjoy nairaland in peace...😤😤😤... Even Seun said I can stay for as long as I wish and do as I please while I'm around here given that I don't break any nairaland rules...😌😌😌... Some of us are law abiding citizens and respect the laws of our hosts...🤭🤭🤭

I mean how many of you in here were given an official welcome by the big boss?😏😏😏

lol was just joking... i think you're good . But that recognition is because you're too loud always talking about SA

Angiewhite:
I thought as much as well.

break it off. You deserve a man who'll love and respect you, and not take your kindness for granted. Shalom.

Angiewhite:
No it wasn’t a mistake dear, he knew what he was doing , that’s why I just want to know the motive behind it, he had this evil smile on his face while searching for the phone, like someone who knew what they were doing and that’s why I was more confused myself and had to sit down and just looking at him.

Okay then! I'm sorry about your ordeal.