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Young man shares the brutal message a lady sent him after asking her to be his girlfriend.

Source: https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/10/man-shares-response-he-got-from-woman-after-asking-her-to-be-his-girlfriend.html#google_vignette

She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism will make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

By the way, is it a crime for ladies to be respectful and polite? Nothing kills a woman’s character faster than arrogance and rudeness.

Fellas, this man's failed mission is a fine example of what a man should NEVER ask a woman. Any man foolhardy enough to formally apply for the official post of "boyfriend" will only succeed in killing off any chance of romance that might have existed BECAUSE that kind of question carries so much baggage as to erase whatever attraction the woman might have initially felt for the man if only he had kept things simple.

A young woman faced with a man applying to be her boyfriend will immediately sense that the man is lacking in confidence, and likely to become jealous and possessive as soon as the woman replies that such a formal relationship can start. Instead of going that old-school job application approach to entering the promised land, it is far better to keep things playful, flirtatious, and light hearted, so the girl can simply go with the flow, without being placed under pressure by such a formalized applications to hang pipe.

You just went and ask an agbero out😒 now she has roasted you and brother zone you
hope you’ve blocked her and if you dare beg her and come back here to cry, 3 strokes of cane 🦯

Una go Dey fall person hand👨‍🦯

The guy should just ignore her and build himself.. she is probably with one fvckboy that doesn't have her time while she keeps this young nigga for chats and emotional support.

This is part of the process.. the only sin is forgiveness (i.e if the guy allows her keep him tied in friend zone).

Jakumo:
Fellas, this man's failed mission is a fine example of what a man should NEVER ask a woman. Any man foolhardy enough to formally apply for the official post of "boyfriend" will only succeed in killing off any chance of romance that might have existed BECAUSE that kind of question carries so much baggage as to erase whatever attraction the woman might have initially felt for the man if only he had kept things simple.

A young woman faced with a man applying to be her boyfriend will immediately sense that the man is lacking in confidence, and likely to become jealous and possessive as soon as the woman replies that such a formal relationship can start. Instead of going that old-school job application approach to entering the promised land, it is far better to keep things playful, flirtatious, and light hearted, so the girl can simply go with the flow, without being placed under pressure by such a formalized applications to hang pipe.

The boy did nothing wrong asking her out.. she obviously hovers around him which made him think she has interest in him.
The boy in not looking bad and will definitely get a better girl as girlfriend.

Some men dey cha...

Imagine creating time from your busy schedule just to woo a lady,only to end up getting this kind of a message from the same native hen that you want to spend your hard earned money on

Simps are always doing too much.

She has a right to say NO? And it should not be a thing. Individual tastes and standards

Well, he's not bad looking... ... He's got great modelling traits like those South Sudanese...

A very necessary lesson for him.

Next time, he should not ask a wig-wearing tout for a relationship. He got it the other way around.

He should not be going around applying for the position of a boyfriend, but conduct himself in such a way that ladies find him desirable, then he choose from them.

But her outburst was unnecessary. Just say no, politely.

dollynnn:
She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

Why will she end in Shiloh for turning down a mans offer of using relationship as a bait to fuk her pussy?
What value is he bringing into her life aside sex?
all in the name of stupid relationship!

❌A boy who's still eating mama thank you
❌ A boy who doesn't have a clue of how to love himself first
❌ A boy who's not yet matured to chest bills
❌ A boy who has no bearing and proper understanding of how life works

From the photo made available
This boy should be thinking of adding value to his life by thinking less of satisfying a confused penis!

If E Reach Your Turn , Leave The Remaining Materials For Your Carpenter

dollynnn:
She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

This one prayers can’t even be answered at Shiloh, cuz Oyedepo always talks about arrogance and how it is a hindrance to marital bliss.

I no con know where she go go in other to have marital bliss. I doubt if it’s even in her future sef. She would be a single mother jare.

Imagine the audacity “let’s keep things the way they are” at the end of her message. Na the guy f-up, he makes time for her. After this if he ever chats her again ehn….

This is an example of what makes people bitter and sociopathic, especially towards the opposite gender. Tomorrow now if this seed she sows grows, she'd come to Nairaland and become a Kobojunkie!

This one na old style naw, if you use this style nowadays it's mission impossible.
I remember the day girl in my area then wrote a love letter to me. I swear I was like what a joke......

Hehe u be senegalese ? Lol 😆

GOSPELTRUTH31:
Why will she end in Shiloh for turning down a mans offer of using her pussy for fun all in the name of stupid relationship

Please, try and get some rest.

The last time I ask a girl to be her boyfriend was when I was 13 or 15yrs.


Since i enter 17 or so na frequent teasing, romance, knacking and the girls be asking what are we?


So it's understandable since the boy is a minor, for adults beech pls.

Nonsense and ingredients. [

for wetin naw??
The girl is very brutal.
Why pour so much venom over a simple question?

If am to be the guy, our friendship is over

The days when we ask women out are long gone. Now we just keep it simple, take it slow and let her decide for herself of he's single not to want to start a relationship with you. No be only women dey "woke" now.

Hmmmm, something is fishy about this post, seems to me this guy generated an A.I response narrative, conclusion? fake.

Never ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend.

Sonnobax15:

Some men dey cha...

Imagine creating time from your busy schedule just to woo a lady,only to end up getting this kind of a message from the same native hen that you want to spend your hard earned money on

Some people are still human, please.

eulogised:
She has a right to say NO? And it should not be a thing. Individual tastes and standards

In a derogatory, disrespectful, uncouth and revenge-inviting manner?

She should have use a lower tone, is too harsh, but she is correct from her side.

We guys tend to leave our lives and future plans to getting a girl. Which money will you use to take care of her and yourself if you keep running headlessly at a woman! Lol.

We often mistake kindness for sex or love too.
Slow the pace. It might not come naturally, but let her be at peace and solace in taking that love path with you. Dont rush her, but at the same time calculate the right time to strike!

Was there any need for such an outburst?
She sounded really uncouth.
A simple "I'm not interested" would have been enough
.

Not until guys know, it's not every girl you see you ask out.

I can see some people lashing the girl, the same people will be saying, girls should marry who they love and not for money, they are the once also be blaming the girl for rejecting the guy, because, she didn't love him an inch.

Move on my dear and continue building a better part of yourself.

Do not let such harsh response derail you from your objectives or goals.

Tomorrow shall tell the final story.

People get mouth o
Brutal