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As a lady, have you ever done successful hard-to-get in this recent times? As a guy, have you persistently chased any lady doing hard-to-get?

RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BECOME VALUELESS BUT HIGHLY COMMERCIALIZED DUE TO THE FAILED ECONOMY....
RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONSIDERED AND CONDUCTED STRICTLY AS BUSINESS ..... NO EMOTIONS, NO HIDE AND SEEK GAME.. NO TIME WASTING
THE BUSINESS MODEL IS CALLED HOOKUP OR FRIENDS OF CONVINIENCE...
NO LOVE, NO EMOTIONS,...... JUST COLD MONEY AND CRUDE SEX... THATS ALL

This period, to text even my relatives na war not to think of double texting someone’s daughter.

Any girl that does hard-to-get will be replaced by another girl for the price of suya and shawarma😎

Funniest part is the easier one might even give you peace of mind compared to the hard to get🥱
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They do still exist in villages.

Short answer: yes, it does.

Not advisable, though. For our ladies, the younger generation is coming up faster than you can say jack. The faster you find a man to tie yourself to, the more secure your future.

I'm a guy and I play hard to get. Comman beat me, I'm in my house.

Sure.
For men wey get useless time to waste. Dem gyals go use dem as a tool for validation and attention.


E get one girl wey I been dey use as lender of last resort (if all my desireables and availables are outta reach, we dey align cure our kongji.

One fool dey pursue this girl like craze to an extend they guy say even if she dey do OS, him no mind to wait and marry her. Kai! Some parents born useless men sha.

Olden days Stuff , who does that these days

No, guys no longer waste their time chasing women.

Hard to get ? Go check Badoo etc,u go see them Preaching JESUS BABY . Sonnobax15 kal them native hen" .

Com lekki, ikeja u go see them even shining their teeth ready to follow u go

Ask Ned Nwoko that question

The question should be, do ladies still introduce their boyfriend to their female friends?

For those looking for genuine love probably but for those looking for hookup no. Just hold money.

Yes, in her father's house and in Nollywood.

Nah
This generation is cooked, everything is transactional now
Getting a decent chick to date talk more marriage is going to be hectic

You may be sidelined if you don’t got the bag in the name of hard to get but if the bag is solid, all them shenkies would not form any hard to get cos you are the bag.
More like a trophy or jackpot.

They’d never say no it or make life difficult for you

Playing hard to get is still very much in existence, forget what men are saying on social medias. A man can do anything to have a woman of his dream, he won't mind to wait or pass through anything to have her.

If you think any girl can't play hard to get with you, it simply means you'd never met the ones you can't afford to let go.

Yes there's but for those men that decide to keep begging.
Once she tells me "No".. omo I don move oh...them plenty outside

Normally, as a guy man, na from the first day u talked to a girl u go know whether she go say yes or no

But unfortunately some guys foolishly keep following one girl as if his destiny is tied her "yes". Person wey go still cheat on you. SMH

for nollywood or kannywood

It doesn't,all dey say now is " how much?" simple

Yes. if you are still pursuing. she go form hard to get

Not true. The rate new fresh gals take dey flash greenlight these days, no guy get that patience. As one is playing hard to get, another 10 gals wey fine and fresh pass am dey flash green light any where you go. It doesn't work now. Maybe you're referring to low quality men anyway.

yemmit90:
Playing hard to get is still very much in existence, forget what men are saying on social medias. A man can do anything to have a woman of his dream, he won't mind to wait or pass through anything to have her.

If you think any girl can't play hard to get with you, it simply means you'd never met the ones you can't afford to let go.

Days of hard to get is over. Raw cash had taken over!

SpencerForbes:
This period, to text even my relatives na war not to think of double texting someone’s daughter.

Any girl that does hard-to-get will be replaced by another girl for the price of suya and shawarma😎

[b]Funniest part is the easier one might even give you peace of mind compared to the hard to ge[/b]t🥱
🚶‍♂️

Funny enough, easy to get are most times virgins why the hard to get already has 12million+ body count, no capping.

thisisit:
RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BECOME VALUELESS BUT HIGHLY COMMERCIALIZED DUE TO THE FAILED ECONOMY....
RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONSIDERED AND CONDUCTED STRICTLY AS BUSINESS ..... NO EMOTIONS, NO HIDE AND SEEK GAME.. NO TIME WASTING
THE BUSINESS MODEL IS CALLED HOOKUP OR FRIENDS OF CONVINIENCE...
NO LOVE, NO EMOTIONS,...... JUST COLD MONEY AND CRUDE SEX... THATS ALL

It is not economy, it is people's choices.
Is it economy that makes all restaurants to be full every Friday?

Whether you form hard to get or not, the joke is on the women folks. When you reach menopause you go know wetin you do yourself

I am targeting Arab women this year, I no do Nigerian women.

Oh Nadia! Beneath that hijab I see......

silibaba:
Funny enough, easy to get are most times virgins why the hard to get already has 12million+ body count, no capping.

Wow 😮 you just made an observation I’ve noticed but never researched about. I’ve noticed some of my best babes are easy to get and the current one is a virgin. She reached out but I can never think less of her for that. I actually salute her confidence.

If only seun will leave one thread for us. The more he pushes them to frontpage, the more it gets derailed.

Nice observation 💯🍹
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DeJoeee:
Not true. The rate new fresh gals take dey flash greenlight these days, no guy get that patience. As one is playing hard to get, another 10 gals wey fine and fresh pass am dey flash green light any where you go. It doesn't work now. Maybe you're referring to low quality men anyway.

Men beg for love❤ too 100%, "being simp or Alpha" as it is popularly called here is just a delusional phrases used to massage men ego.

While it is good to have abundance mentality, there are some ladies that tick all your boxes that you can't afford to lose. Only an immature boy or play boy go after every girl because they are plenty, a man with wisdom carefully select his woman, and go for her irrespective of what it takes.

Jaycobbs:


Short answer: yes, it does.

Not advisable, though. For our ladies, the younger generation is coming up faster than you can say jack. The faster you find a man to tie yourself to, the more secure your future.

I'm a guy and I play hard to get. Comman beat me, I'm in my house.

Drop location make men mount for your doormouth.

LoneSoldier:
Whether you form hard to get or not, the joke is on the women folks. When you reach menopause you go know wetin you do yourself

I am targeting Arab women this year, I no do Nigerian women.

Oh Nadia! Beneath that hijab I see......

how u take know, the next change wey go enter my hand now na clean shuaarab pussy I go collect abeg if u get any update let me know

Yes, I chased my previous lady for six months. It wasn’t worth it. No try am.