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Hello guys,recently I have come to notice that the moment you make it clear to a Nigerian lady at talking stage that you are willing to abstain from baseless sex for at least 6months to a year in the relationship to be sure first of her qualities. Not once not twice have I noticed this...she loses interest. And I begin to wonder;

* Is sex truly the only female offering in a relationship?

* Do females grow cold feet because their sexual manipulation power is gone?

*Do these females give sex to hoodwink men into long fruitless relationships?

My experience......

Sex is the only way they are wired to show they love you. So you rejecting means you don’t want them the way they want you.

Sex is also a medium which they get you to commit. Once you’re committed, then the Billings and other boyfriend benefits can follow.

If you’re not having sex with her, there’s no difference between you and that guy that talks to her on her way back from shop. To them, it’s a means of appreciation, validation and proof of love.

Ovulation spikes their sex drive and who do you want them to run to if not their boyfriend🤷‍♂️ They also have libidos like us. Some even higher.

Lastly, they also like it the way we do but can’t express it due to societal stigmatization.

If you’re not ready to supply some of her emotional and sexual needs, it’s best you let her find her match. So you don’t create a post on how all ladies are not loyal and you not understanding them.
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fyneboi79:
Hello guys,recently I have come to notice that the moment you make it clear to a Nigerian lady at talking stage that you are willing to abstain from baseless sex for at least 6months to a year in the relationship to be sure first of her qualities. Not once not twice have I noticed this...she loses interest. And I begin to wonder;

* Is sex truly the only female offering in a relationship?

* Do females grow cold feet because their sexual manipulation power is gone?

*Do these females give sex to hoodwink men into long fruitless relationships?

My experience......

fyneboi79:
Hello guys,recently I have come to notice that the moment you make it clear to a Nigerian lady at talking stage that you are willing to abstain from baseless sex for at least 6months to a year in the relationship to be sure first of her qualities. Not once not twice have I noticed this...she loses interest. And I begin to wonder;

* Is sex truly the only female offering in a relationship?

* Do females grow cold feet because their sexual manipulation power is gone?

*Do these females give sex to hoodwink men into long fruitless relationships?

My experience......

I have noticed that too. I think it's the only way they can have access to your pockets, in their thinking. Therefore, they cannot be happy with you!

The goal is ACCESS, often packaged as love. You'll understand by and by!

LordIsaac:
I have noticed that too. I think it's the only way they can have access to your pockets, in their thinking. Therefore, they cannot be happy with you!

The goal is ACCESS, often packaged as love. You'll understand by and by!

I am telling you!! What this gender wants man can never tell. They don't want a man above their sexual antics...Na wa for this our time o!Our father's had a better bargain

fyneboi79:
Hello guys,recently I have come to notice that the moment you make it clear to a Nigerian lady at talking stage that you are willing to abstain from baseless sex for at least 6months to a year in the relationship to be sure first of her qualities. Not once not twice have I noticed this...she loses interest. And I begin to wonder;

* Is sex truly the only female offering in a relationship?

* Do females grow cold feet because their sexual manipulation power is gone?

*Do these females give sex to hoodwink men into long fruitless relationships?

My experience......

Yes to all your questions.

SpencerForbes:
Sex is the only way they are wired to show they love you. So you rejecting means you don’t want them the way they want you.

Sex is also a medium which they get you to commit. Once you’re committed, then the Billings and other boyfriend benefits can follow.

If you’re not having sex with her, there’s no difference between you and that guy that talks to her on her way back from shop. To them, it’s a means of appreciation, validation and proof of love.

Ovulation spikes their sex drive and who do you want them to run to if not their boyfriend🤷‍♂️ They also have libidos like us. Some even higher.

Lastly, they also like it the way we do but can’t express it due to societal stigmatization.

If you’re not ready to supply some of her emotional and sexual needs, it’s best you let her find her match. So you don’t create a post on how all ladies are not loyal and you not understanding them.
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No,you quote me wrong. What I mean is since some will feel i took undue advantage because i wanted to have a taste.
I broke up with my last in January this year because she had displayed behaviors I couldn't tolerate in a woman. Now she may go away feeling I walked away because I have had my fill,but that's not the case.
So with my new prospect I decided no sex till we are sure to avoid "he used me" statement.

SpencerForbes:
Sex is the only way they are wired to show they love you. So you rejecting means you don’t want them the way they want you...

Ah! Don't seemp. When have you seen women love?

LordIsaac:
I have noticed that too. I think it's the only way they can have access to your pockets, in their thinking. Therefore, they cannot be happy with you!

The goal is ACCESS, often packaged as love. You'll understand by and by!

Correcte!

It's about access, pockets and control

SpencerForbes:
Sex is the only way they are wired to show they love you. So you rejecting means you don’t want them the way they want you.

Sex is also a medium which they get you to commit. Once you’re committed, then the Billings and other boyfriend benefits can follow.

If you’re not having sex with her, there’s no difference between you and that guy that talks to her on her way back from shop. To them, it’s a means of appreciation, validation and proof of love.

Ovulation spikes their sex drive and who do you want them to run to if not their boyfriend🤷‍♂️ They also have libidos like us. Some even higher.

Lastly, they also like it the way we do but can’t express it due to societal stigmatization.

If you’re not ready to supply some of her emotional and sexual needs, it’s best you let her find her match. So you don’t create a post on how all ladies are not loyal and you not understanding them.
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You couldn't be more wrong. You are using yourself as a man to read a woman. Only a woman can tell you the truth.

StillDtruth:
Ah! Don't seemp. When have you seen women love?

Love to women is just a feeling highlighted by desperate words...need,want.

fyneboi79:
No,you quote me wrong. What I mean is since some will feel i took undue advantage because i wanted to have a taste.
I broke up with my last in January this year because she had displayed behaviors I couldn't tolerate in a woman. Now she may go away feeling I walked away because I have had my fill,but that's not the case.
So with my new prospect I decided no sex till we are sure to avoid "he used me" statement.

Why should you care what your ex thinks about you?
You both are adults and had sex enjoyed by both of you. Who knows if she’s already enjoying herself with another man.

Not all relationships will lead to marriage. Have fun, enjoy yourself and don’t lay emotional burden on yourself. What’s meant to be will be. One thing ladies don’t like and might not tell you is comparing your present relationship to the last one or worrying that it will end like the last. Once she senses that, she’ll feel you’re still in love with the other gal.

Go with the flow! If she likes you, she’ll be the one trying to make the relationship work and if you’re on the verge of breaking up, always try to reason with her why you aren’t compatible. Verbally or with your actions. Never end a relationship in war and she’ll always remember you.

Any gal that wants to feel that way, should go ahead. You don’t know how many she has used too. But if you’re looking for long term relationships, make sure you’re emotionally connected before sex if not one person will always feel guilty.
All I’ll say is forget about your ex and try to enjoy this relationship 🍹
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fyneboi79:
I am telling you!! What this gender wants man can never tell. They don't want a man above their sexual antics...Na wa for this our time o!Our father's had a better bargain

What you don't understand is that why your wants flow 1 by 1, and ends, women are over over greedy. They want everything in sight eg if they see blue Camry pass, they must want it. If 30 minutes later a yellow Camry of the same type still passes, they still want it also. And even if they have 1phone 17, they would still want Samsung 17, Nokia 17 and all the latest phones in the world.

It is women they are talking about in economics where they say man's wants are insatiable

vdestro:
You couldn't be more wrong. You are using yourself as a man to read a woman. Only a woman can tell you the truth.

I’ve had conversations with hundreds of them. I might be wrong but I’ve done and played games that makes them reveal their hearts to me😂😂😂

Always try having relationship talks with ladies that you’re not dating. But make sure you’re trustworthy and not a gossip. Try to make them be free with you and you’ll learn a lot. What I’ve learnt from gals that are free with me, I can never learn from my fellow guy or girlfriend. I don’t want to derail the thread but I’d have given you a hint you’ll never know as a guy🍹
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fyneboi79:
Love to women is just a feeling highlighted by desperate words...need,want.

It's a feeling that does not concern you. It is a feeling that starts with themselves and ends with themselves. The only trick is that they involve you in it. Abi you never hear Basketmouth on how women will involve you when they are cheating?

Men, una still no know wazzup

SpencerForbes:
I’ve had conversations with hundreds of them. I might be wrong but I’ve done and played games that makes them reveal their hearts to me😂😂😂

Always try having relationship talks with ladies that you’re not dating. But make sure you’re trustworthy and not a gossip. Try to make them be free with you and you’ll learn a lot. What I’ve learnt from gals that are free with me, I can never learn from my fellow guy or girlfriend. I don’t want to derail the thread but I’d have given you a hint you’ll never know as a guy🍹
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I am female!

StillDtruth:
Ah! Don't seemp. When have you seen women love?

Contrary to what you think, women also love but are afraid to show it. That’s why you’ll see a girl being chased by men in cars and she’ll still follow that guy in one room. Once that guy cheats on her, it’ll will scar her to the point she might never forgive guys.

Especially if he deflowered her. A girl does not just allow anybody to be her first, she allows someone she’s connected to, someone her heart melts for. So how do you define that?
Even if she gets married and was very connected to her first guy, she’ll always go back.

Just stay chosen and you’ll enjoy relationships🍹
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fyneboi79:
No,you quote me wrong. What I mean is since some will feel i took undue advantage because i wanted to have a taste.
I broke up with my last in January this year because she had displayed behaviors I couldn't tolerate in a woman. Now she may go away feeling I walked away because I have had my fill,but that's not the case.
So with my new prospect I decided no sex till we are sure to avoid "he used me" statement.

This is where you are supposed to see that women, sex and Sathan have a very big connection.

Or have you forgotten how guys have been dumped because uncle was trying to be a good boy?

Or why we all see that women love bad boys but forc a virgin and dump him breaking his heart in pieces?

vdestro:
I am female!

Wow that’s nice. I’ll love to hear your view. I’m always open to learning🍹
Why would a girl feel sad because her boyfriend doesn’t want sex🤔

SpencerForbes:
Wow that’s nice. I’ll love to hear your view. I’m always open to learning🍹
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Women are cold hearted calculative beings. So whatever you think you know is what they want you to know.

vdestro:
Women are cold hearted calculative beings. So whatever you think you know is what they want you to know.

Not when they have nothing to lose. That’s why sometimes I don’t believe them but i fact check and sometimes it comes out right.

vdestro:
Women are cold hearted calculative beings. So whatever you think you know is what they want you to know.

Let’s talk about the spike in ovulation period and majority of women are always very Hot when they’re ovulating. Is that also a lie🤔
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SpencerForbes:
Not when they have nothing to lose. That’s why sometimes I don’t believe them but i fact check and sometimes it comes out right.

I laugh as if you knew the female mind you would not say what you say.

vdestro:
I laugh as if you knew the female mind you would not say what you say.

Why don’t you help us out, I’m all ears🍹
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SpencerForbes:
Let’s talk about the spike in ovulation period and majority of women are always very Hot when they’re ovulating. Is that also a lie🤔
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Everything is weaponized with a woman even the so called ovulation. She plays it as she deems fit.

SpencerForbes:
Contrary to what you think, women also love but are afraid to show it. That’s why you’ll see a girl being chased by men in cars and she’ll still follow that guy in one room. Once that guy cheats on her, it’ll will scar her to the point she might never forgive guys.

Especially if he deflowered her. A girl does not just allow anybody to be her first, she allows someone she’s connected to, someone her heart melts for. So how do you define that?
Even if she gets married and was very connected to her first guy, she’ll always go back.

Just stay chosen and you’ll enjoy relationships🍹
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Bro, don't deceive yourself.

If you look deep and open your ear, you would see/hear the reason why she is with him. And except for virgin, it has nothing to do with love.

99% of it is FAKE and Manpullation.

Probably you are still running on 1980 goodness feeling when girls used to be good and used to love but your brothers spoiled them all and called them mumoo saying that the guy would dump them or break her heart for loving him. And he truly did.

So, now, they are bad and now men are complaining.

Serves them right though.

vdestro:
Everything is weaponized with a woman even the so called ovulation. She plays it as she deems fit.

I like the fact you’re trying to make a lady sound scary and mysterious but I’m very sure they aren’t. All they need is a little twitch and you’ve gotten them. If she’s emotionally connected to you, even if you aren’t her bf, you have a high chance of you can play your game well.

That’s where the term “you used me” is from. Just play your cards well and you’ll be above their game. Yes women are very manipulative but they always bend their rules for men they love. If she loves you, she’ll want intimacy but if she doesn’t, your touch irritates her🍹
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fyneboi79:
Love to women is just a feeling highlighted by desperate words...need,want.

See, how you are taking. You do not even know that you are playing the woman's tune.

No worry when they finish with you, you would now run to the other extreme of redpoll to cure yourself like FRANCISTOWN.

The guy don quiet humble after women don finish am

StillDtruth:
Bro, don't deceive yourself.

If you look deep and open your ear, you would see/hear the reason why she is with him. And except for virgin, it has nothing to do with love.

99% of it is FAKE and Manpullation.

Probably you are still running on 1980 goodness feeling when girls used to be good and used to love but your brothers spoiled them all and called them mumoo saying that the guy would dump them or break her heart for loving him. And he truly did.

So, now, they are bad and now men are complaining.

Serves them right though.

That’s why I talked about the guy that deflowered her. He has a chance of experiencing innocent love compared to the ones after him. They’ll just be paying for sins they didn’t commit.

She knows the guy can hurt her but she’ll still wanna give it a try and when she gets bitten, the rest of the relationships is revenge.

Best part is to stay chosen🍹
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SpencerForbes:
Why should you care what your ex thinks about you?
You both are adults and had sex enjoyed by both of you. Who knows if she’s already enjoying herself with another man...

See, seemp dey worry you. When your turn comes, you would learn and you would regret talking like this.

SpencerForbes:
I like the fact you’re trying to make a lady sound scary and mysterious but I’m very sure they aren’t. All they need is a little twitch and you’ve gotten them. If she’s emotionally connected to you, even if you aren’t her bf, you have a high chance of you can play your game well.

That’s where the term “you used me” is from. Just play your cards well and you’ll be above their game. Yes women are very manipulative but they always bend their rules for men they love. If she loves you, she’ll want intimacy but if she doesn’t, your touch irritates her🍹
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I laugh once again but I understand it's too much and hard to swallow so I understand you can't take it.

StillDtruth:
See, seemp dey worry you. When your turn comes, you would learn and you would regret talking like this.

For real 😳 sorry bro but I don’t have emotions. They died long ago. Now I just work with the flow🍹
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