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It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Anybody meeting their "original" partner after getting married to someone else is just greedy ..their eyes is still in the street...

..u will.meet many more fine pple after u get married......face ur marriage...... Na because u never start to dey live with them they look like the best spouse

cutecommend:
It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Not always true. It might be true only if you truly made a very terrible choice of a spouse.

Those people you see from afar as best might not the best when you go close to them, and when you marry them.

cutecommend:
➜It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married,
➜ but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Were you forced into marrying the spouse whom you now believe ain't so not the best then?

2. No, you do not! Better to divorce the one you are with, so you can go with the other one you believe to be best for you, than to cage the one you now realize you do not love —believe you settled for— in a loveless marriage, like the vast majority out there go on to do. Nobody out there feels good to be the one that was settled for.... not a single one.

Na why I like òyìnbó people
Once there is connection.. they scatter their original marriage 😂

I’ve met a few white women with this exact storyline, and they are happily married to the second person for many years. I think if there’s no children involved in the current marriage, and you meet your soulmate, then it’s probably best to walk away from the current relationship and try again. If there are children involved then it would be selfish to scatter your family for a potential.

Double0h7:
I’ve met a few white women with this exact storyline, and they are happily married to the second person for many years. I think if there’s no children involved in the current marriage, and you meet your soulmate, then it’s probably best to walk away from the current relationship and try again. If there are children involved then it would be selfish to scatter your family for a potential.

While on the surface, it may seem selfish, it isn't right to turn marriage into some sort of hostage situation for your spouse. As the other spouse, you do yourself absolutely no good trying to hold on to someone who does not love or value you in a relationship. (It should really gross you out that you are in a relationship with someone whose heart is already elsewhere.) If he/she wishes to leave, let him leave. It isn't necessary to guilt him/her into staying, nor is it sensible to try to force him/her to stay, as that only makes one into some sort of monster and not a partner.

It is better to leave the marriage completely once one realizes one no longer has happiness or joy to find within it, than to remain and have the other spouse waste his/her life dedicated to a partner whose heart and mind are elsewhere. And worse, have the children grow up watching their parents live unhappily and miserably, thinking themselves partly to blame for it. It is wrong and should not be condoned, no matter what.

There will always be someone who is much better than those you met earlier.
Its because based on your interactions, you have been able to see what people should be like and can become. So you are able to identify what the next should be.

A bird in hand, might be better than 2 in the bush

Butterflies doesn't last, you felt the same thing when you met your partner , spend more time with the new person then the butterflies will fade

advanceDNA:
Anybody meeting their "original" partner after getting married to someone else is just greedy ..their eyes is still in the street...

..u will.meet many more fine pple after u married......face ur marriage...... Na because u never start to dey live with them they look like the best spouse

QED

cutecommend:
It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Does this even make any sense to you?

Kobojunkie:
While on the surface, it may seem selfish, it isn't right to turn marriage into some sort of hostage situation for your partner. As the other partner, you do yourself absolutely no good trying to hold on to someone who does not love or value you in a relationship. (It should really gross you out that you are in a relationship with someone whose heart is already elsewhere.) If he/she wishes to leave, let him leave. It isn't necessary to guilt him/her into staying, nor is it sensible to try to force him/her to stay, as that only makes one into some sort of monster and not a partner.

It is better to leave the marriage completely once one realizes one no longer has happiness or joy to find within it, than to remain and have the other spouse waste his/her life dedicated to a partner whose heart and mind are elsewhere. And worse, have the children grow up watching their parents live unhappily and miserably, thinking themselves partly to blame for it. It is wrong and should not be condoned, no matter what.

Oshey!
So if after the second marriage, You meet someone who you better again, you will leave and then you meet another who fit you better again... then you keep moving abi?

Walahi! This thing make sense ooo.

#When we dont know the meaning of Commitment.

Lies.

After you leave your current wife and find another, you will find someone even better than the new one.

cutecommend:
It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

advanceDNA:
Anybody meeting their "original" partner after getting married to someone else is just greedy ..their eyes is still in the street...

..u will.meet many more fine pple after u married......face ur marriage...... Na because u never start to dey live with them they look like the best spouse

All this partners killing people upandan nkoor 😥

Honestly the lady in the white wedding gown looks so much like my ex-Gf way back in Ghana..

Abi na my eyes dey deceive me... ?

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Kobojunkie:
Were you forced into marrying the spouse whom you now believe ain't so not the best then?

2. No, you do not! Better to divorce the one you are with, so you can go with the other one you believe to be best for you, than to cage the one you now believe you settled for in a loveless marriage, like the vast majority out there go on to do. Nobody out there feels good to be the one that was settled for.... not a single one.

but u don old for house oh

Were you blindfolded before?

Now now now all of a sudden,you feel like eating ofe nsala,edikanIkong,miyanTauche,etc ..you better stick to that okro soup

We are to love who we marry not to marry who we love.

If it happens to you you accept it as your fate and move on

You need to move on, unless you want a second wife like Suora or you want to commit adultery.

Reason why Padi Adenuga married and remarried, even though his age is just 40.

Reason why so many married women are deceived to step outside, and having stepped outside, they realised grass not greaner at other side.

What we don't have always looks desirable to us

Fiscus105:
Reason why Padi Adenuga married and remarried

Are you sure he has ever been married before?

We can't always marry who we love hence we must learn to love who we marry.

cutecommend:
It is possible to see the best spouse for you after you are Married, but you just have to love the one you are already married to and move on.

Nature nah bastard
Until u marry, had the sex u wanted,then u will understand the person u marry is not your spec

The grass is greener when you water your ground.

Think about this!

SO YOU THINK IT'S ABOUT BEING FINE?

advanceDNA:
Anybody meeting their "original" partner after getting married to someone else is just greedy ..their eyes is still in the street...

..u will.meet many more fine pple after u married......face ur marriage...... Na because u never start to dey live with them they look like the best spouse

DMCA:
but u don old for house oh

That moniker is a specialist in causing confusion