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Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 4:49pm On Oct 29, 2025
Double0h7:
No vex! May you find your peace 🖖
Go "f" yourself grin
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Nobody: 5:39pm On Oct 29, 2025
ukaface:
Don’t you think women will want to assume the ‘ head’ if they eventually start paying the groom price? African men Nigerian men have got pride and will see groom price as selling their man power/ man hood.
Yeah. You’ve got a point but I still see it coming into play soon. No one talked about DNA test then like the way it is preached now. If majority of Nigeria men should embrace patriarchy, then women would be made to value marriage.

The more the institution declines, the more I see women loosing (baby mamas and single mothers) and I think it’s going to get to a point where men will be so “irresponsible” that women will have no choice but to cave in. Polygamy is even closer to us than you think😁 The more you ladies act smart, the more you lose. I know it’s possible for ladies to device new schemes but if men are so emancipated that they don’t take “bullsh*te” then I’m sure we’re in for a big shock.
🚶‍♂️
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Nobody: 5:41pm On Oct 29, 2025
Nefort:
What if every girl you intend to marry keep refusing to do DNA tests after giving birth? You wouldn't get married anymore?
What if they keep the child, who loseshuh
And because of whose behaviorhuh
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Samantha125(f): 6:00pm On Oct 29, 2025
Using your Igbo on me I see.

What does that mean?
meobizy:
I always knew you were Nigerian. A true South African bengizobhala kanje.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by meobizy(m): 6:01pm On Oct 29, 2025
Sometimes, I ask myself the same thing.

Samantha125:
Using your Igbo on me I see.

What does that mean?
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by ukaface(f): 6:07pm On Oct 29, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Yeah. You’ve got a point but I still see it coming into play soon. No one talked about DNA test then like the way it is preached now. If majority of Nigeria men should embrace patriarchy, then women would be made to value marriage.

The more the institution declines, the more I see women loosing (baby mamas and single mothers) and I think it’s going to get to a point where men will be so “irresponsible” that women will have no choice but to cave in. Polygamy is even closer to us than you think😁 The more you ladies act smart, the more you lose. I know it’s possible for ladies to device new schemes but if men are so emancipated that they don’t take “bullsh*te” then I’m sure we’re in for a big shock.
🚶‍♂️
You speak like, it would be a sudden change within the blink of an eye.
THE CULTURE
TRADITION

Will never permit Groom price
Polygamy has always been in existence, still being practiced. Only that, civilization ( white man education and religion) has changed the mindset of majority.

Some women still agree to polygamy in this time and age, provided the financial security is present.
And, you men shouting for polygamy hope you have the resources to manage polygamy. No be by mouth.
Na for this economy decline and struggle you wan Dey manage 3 wives + 12 children- body go tell you.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2025
fyneboi79:
OK baby
trouble maker
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 6:24pm On Oct 29, 2025
fyneboi79:
OK baby
hmmmm

Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 29, 2025
ukaface:
You speak like, it would be a sudden change within the blink of an eye.
THE CULTURE
TRADITION

Will never permit Groom price
Polygamy has always been in existence, still being practiced. Only that, civilization ( white man education and religion) has changed the mindset of majority.

Some women still agree to polygamy in this time and age, provided the financial security is present.
And, you men shouting for polygamy hope you have the resources to manage polygamy. No be by mouth.
Na for this economy decline and struggle you wan Dey manage 3 wives + 12 children- body go tell you.
You discuss traditions and culture as if women have consistently respected them. If they had, perhaps things might be different. You kicked against virginity and a lot of marital traditions but it’s now about the man and we suddenly remember traditions😂

Regarding polygamy, it's a process that'll take time. The point is it'll be a matter of personal choice for the man, not subject to a woman's approval for him to take another wife. Any capable man would do so without needing his wife's consent.

Perhaps embracing traditional patriarchal structures could lead to a decrease in baby mamas and single mothers in our society.
🚶‍♂️
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Samantha125(f): 8:00pm On Oct 29, 2025
You can't quote me in a language you don't understand.
meobizy:
Sometimes, I ask myself the same thing.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 8:20pm On Oct 29, 2025
Diamond098454:
trouble maker
Really?
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by budaatum: 8:41pm On Oct 29, 2025
Harddiskng:
Oyinbo say “trust but verify”

You can only have a problem with your man verifying if you have something to hard. All these ones you are yarning “a matured man won’t do DNA test blah blah blah” is just emotional blackmail.

No good woman would have a problem with her husband conducting DNA test
I don't have a problem with a man conducting DNA test. What I have problem with is the man having the trust issues that will make him feel he needs to do a DNA test.

If he is that insecure, I can not possibly be the woman for him.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by meobizy(m): 8:57pm On Oct 29, 2025
…but it happened.

Samantha125:
You can't quote me in a language you don't understand.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 9:18pm On Oct 29, 2025
fyneboi79:
Really?
add me on Facebook , send your Facebook name and tell me what you are putting on let me add you.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 1:23am On Oct 30, 2025
Diamond098454:
add me on Facebook , send your Facebook name and tell me what you are putting on let me add you.
search for "Lusting Angel" on Facebook....with a Caucasian female profile picture.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 5:55am On Oct 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
search for "Lusting Angel" on Facebook....with a Caucasian female profile picture.
can't find it. Send your WhatsApp through email for me. I really need your advice on something very important.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 8:53am On Oct 30, 2025
Diamond098454:
can't find it. Send your WhatsApp through email for me. I really need your advice on something very important.
send me your Facebook name or you check your email
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 10:43am On Oct 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
send me your Facebook name or you check your email
Diamond Maureen
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m):
[quote author=Diamond098454 post=137292882]Diamond Maureen[/quotsent
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 11:51am On Oct 30, 2025
Diamond098454:
Diamond Maureen
check your Facebook
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Annie939(f): 11:54am On Oct 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
who cares? If she doesn't fall in line with my wishes as a man after that,I can as well still kick her out entirely. What do you ladies even think you are worth?
Facebook
Annie Frank it's a white female picture and it's the first picture you will see immediately you click Annie Frank
Just DM
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 11:54am On Oct 30, 2025
Annie939:
Annie Frank it's a white female picture and it's the first picture you will see immediately you click Annie Frank
Just DM
Who is this?
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Annie939(f): 12:48pm On Oct 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
Who is this?
Diamond , trouble Maker .............
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 12:49pm On Oct 30, 2025
Annie939:
Diamond , trouble Maker .............
I already sent a message on Facebook to Diamond maureen
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by fyneboi79(m): 12:50pm On Oct 30, 2025
Annie939:
add me on Facebook.............. Annie Frank chat me up
I already chat you up on diamond Maureen page
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by PerfectStranger(m): 2:03pm On Oct 30, 2025
Diamond098454:
perfect............... Trust your girl or wife. Let her understand what you want and your rules women are not that bad ooooooo. If you ask me , all this women cheat women cheat it's not true
The ones that trusted their partner ended up training someone else's children.
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 3:02pm On Oct 30, 2025
PerfectStranger:
The ones that trusted their partner ended up training someone else's children.

Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by PerfectStranger(m): 5:16pm On Oct 30, 2025
Diamond098454:
add me on Facebook , send your Facebook name and tell me what you are putting on let me add you.

Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Diamond098454(f): 6:28pm On Oct 30, 2025
[quote author=PerfectStranger post=137297479][/quote]

Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Bendeco02: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2025
Samantha125:
Using your Igbo on me I see.

What does that mean?
Better remove Igbo from your mouth

That's not Igbo language undecided
Re: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Samantha125(f): 6:49pm On Oct 30, 2025
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bendeco02:
Better remove Igbo from your mouth

That's not Igbo language undecided
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