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The family have a total of 4 million because some inconsiderate and unsupportive wives money belongs to them while the husband money belongs to the family.

Exousiang01

I can't help your mindset.







I will be waiting for you when you get marry. Na una type dey cry foul.

advanceDNA:
We are just very weird as Nigerians .....that's why y'all get abroad and it becomes rocket science being a team player with someone that's supposed to be your spouse ....

Abeg look well before you marry

Nor go marry your enemy..

My own mindset disregards woman money o. As long as I'm confident in what I carry in my bag, who cares about woman money? Those stingy creatures go let you see shege before you smell their 1kobo. So I have never ever looked at a woman's purse. I just make sure I have enough for me and my own.

Very wuked gender

Chilipepper:
Wife has 2million, Husband has 4million:how much do they have in total as family?

They have four million in total...

Because if he got put eye for that two million wey the wife gets, the family go eventually scatter

1st Rule of Bia-bia Bank: You are only allowed to deposit, you can never withdraw

The family has N4 million as a family. The money the wife has is not for the family.

Depends on the wife type of person and get way of reasoning

Caaz:
Hahahahaha
But my money is also my husbands money too.

lol. Nai you no declare the real amount you made working with those yahoo boys? How much you give am again out of like 300k plus wey you make from the deal...was it 20k or thereabouts . Everyday I dey learn more and more about the true nature of women on here and out there. I no dey try sound offensive o. I'm just being open minded. You worked for your stuff you can ask well do with it the way it pleases you. Well-done ma..God bless your hustle 🔥

Banhammy717:
One of the reasons men don't live long.

I pity Nigeria

some men are even defending it. Lol. Them dey make marriage appear more and more like scam. After wetin I don go through for relationships, I'll be damned if I let the same happen again in the guise of marriage

zuby4real10:
That's how one civil servant called me to borrow him 20k to complete pay his daughter school fees. His wife provision shop worth nothing less than N3m. I was just wondering y can't he borrow the money for his wife since the child is her biological daughter.

who-ha she no go give am. Women are really wonderful beings. Especially today's women. Wonderful creatures.

Shawarmagirl:
This is why Nigerians fight and divorced abroad. Over here, both the husband and wife pays bills equally. The wife cook and the husband cook. Bills are shared. But Nigeria ladies will say my money is my money.

God bless you for this truth. For saying it the way it is, may your days be long and fruitful. You go marry husband wey go cherish you and handle you like a princess all the days of Una life.

Tenrack:
lol. Nai you no declare the real amount you made working with those yahoo boys? How much you give am again out of like 300k plus wey you make from the deal...was it 20k or thereabouts . Everyday I dey learn more and more about the true nature of women on here and out there. I no dey try sound offensive o. I'm just being open minded. You worked for your stuff you can ask well do with it the way it pleases you. Well-done ma..God bless your hustle 🔥

The money i gave to him i dash ham,i go still carrying ham out on sunday go host ham.
Istill needed to buy materials from the money.

Atlest i pressed him small thing based on say na my boss he be,after buying the materials and paying some workers anything wey remain i go use ham stock the house with foodstuffs,so you see na him still enjoy the money.

Wisdom!

bikefab:
It depends on the kind of woman you have as a wife.
If she's a leech, the total money in the house is #4million.
If she's a co-builder and a proper home manager, the total money in the house is #6 million.
Inversely, if the man is an efulefu human being, he won't even let the wife know there's any money in the house. He will continuously sweet talk her into bringing her #2million for the family upkeep

Makr man kuku be efulefu na. Cause gone are those days...

Misterone:
N4 million. You don't force a woman to support you. It should be voluntary. If she wants to, she will

Same should apply to the man ..

Everyone should keep their finance to themselves

... And the monikers with (f) suffix left the group chat!

N6m

Chilipepper:
Wife has 2million, Husband has 4million:how much do they have in total as family?

6 million as a man 4 million as a family

Double0h7:
They have 4m duh! 😝

baby mama is d answer to these.
will u like me to honor you by making u my baby mama?

Good wife 6 million in another way 5 million but bad wife 4 million

Denalarian:
2 million.. cos a bad woman won't double yours, she's still collect another 2 million from you add it to hers then declare bankruptcy

You're a legend. Exactly my thoughts.
Inside the man's 4m, she has 2m. While they both spend the remaining 2m.

No Nigerian woman cares about her husband.

Sonnobax15:

In the Nigerian setting,ask every good mathematician around you,he/she will tell you the answer is 4,even without thinking twice about it or pressing any calculator

4 million minus any expenses

Caaz:
The money i gave to him i dash ham,i go still carrying ham out on sunday go host ham.
Istill needed to buy materials from the money.

Atlest i pressed him small thing based on say na my boss he be,after buying the materials and paying some workers anything wey remain i go use ham stock the house with foodstuffs,so you see na him still enjoy the money.

Wisdom!

dawan dey sha. Some women no go half wetin you do. For me I think most of them are stingy. If a woman was to gift me money in a relationship, I would be very very uncomfortable.

correctguy101:
My own mindset disregards woman money o. As long as I'm confident in what I carry in my bag, who cares about woman money? Those stingy creatures go let you see shege before you smell their 1kobo. So I have never ever looked at a woman's purse. I just make sure I have enough for me and my own.

Very wuked gender

Baba. .life is not balanced....

If a man get enough money to cater for all his family without his wife's help...then It's fine for her to keep her money....

But when you see clearly that your partner is still in his growth phase and you expecting him to do everything when u have to be a team player.....that's just witchcraft

N4m

LoL no be only 4 million....as a guy, go open mouth say na 4m you get na....your pocket go sry before your eye open.....I get 1.5m, the 2 5m de ret for oe money market fund or whatever investment. 1.5m finish, I no get money, rain abuses from now till tomorrow that her 2m must reduce too....call me whatever you like....I no send ....that 2.5m go later come handy

N4m

Marvyx:
6 million with a sensible wife.

Are there truly sensible wives that will assume such family has 6m and practice it

DMCA:
baby mama is d answer to these.
will u like me to honor you by making u my baby mama?

I’d rather rip my womb out with my bare hands than to carry your spurn ☺️

Not in all marriages. In mine we have #6m+

Silentgroper:
Same should apply to the man ..

Everyone should keep their finance to themselves

Oga, nobody force you marry. If you don't manage your home with what you have, na "see finish" be that. If you give your wife money to take care of the home, if she has to support you, fine. If she doesn't, no problem. Or are you saying at the end of the month, you'll ask your wife to bring her share of the house keep allowance? Does that make sense?

I get angry when I read rubbish like this.
Most Nigerian women now carry over 70% of the financial burden of running the home.

I talk from experience.

Dpaulie:
In my family we have 4.9million
3M from me and 1.9M from my wife
My wife, such a supportive wife and mother

So you keep N1m to yourself while she keeps N100k to herself.

Oversupportive dey worry am!