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JimD:
Too much generalisation. It's not always cut and dry. Women feel urges too, sometimes as much as men. But they have more control than men. If a woman cheats or does something like the above, she goes all out to cheat because she has lost all respect for the man.

SpencerForbes:
At the bolded, that’s the same point I stated. A woman might love or respect a man and still cheat.
Yes or no??

They have biology and psychology. Maybe a few might be able to curb it due to tradition and religion; but if not properly suppressed it’s bound to show its ugly face.

A woman might love you (conditionally) but if you ain’t satisfying her sexually and there’s someone to take the blame while she fulfill her innate nature, she’ll definitely do it.

Those that haven’t done it are just looking for opportunity and once it strikes (alcohol and loneliness) she’ll definitely fulfill her fantasy.

JimD:
Nah. I agree with the bolded as I pointed out. But it's going to take much more (not even money) for a normal woman who loves or respects you to cheat on you. That's why many women stay in sexless marriages today. Not that there's no opportunity. It's just a kinda of societal construct or code they adhere to. Well unless we're talking about the emotionally damaged. Many ladies today fall into that category.

SpencerForbes:
The bolded got me laughing because ‘many’ ?
That’s what they definitely want you to see. She might be cheating on her husband with her boss or even a total stranger. So I doubt the ‘many’ you used there.

You’re kinda funny 😁 you said many fall into the category of emotional damaged and you still stated that many stay in sexless marriages. Seems you’re contradicting yourself🤔
Where are the few categorized?

JimD:
Alright. I heard you. Read between the lines: women vs ladies

ojuu4u:
If you know the number of women that have ignorantly and innocently destroyed her beautiful relationship/marriage, you wouldn't have been surporting at all times.

It will do you good, to support and against wen it matters most.

maasoap:
She's free as long as she is ready to deal with potential fallout

SpencerForbes:
Women seem to walk a tightrope with societal expectations, balancing what they want (satisfaction) with looking virtuous – society can be tough on women perceived as not fitting the role. They're smart and often want men to protect them, but not many men want to take on something that's kinda “general”

They've got sexual fantasies like anyone else, probably want sex as much as guys do, but might be cautious about showing it openly. They don't wanna be seen a certain way that limits their options, so sometimes they find roundabout ways – like getting involved with someone in their partner's family, friends or a total stranger.

Some guys who are into sex aren't great providers; others chasing big dreams don't have time for intimacy. It’s hard finding a sexually focused man that can really provide for their wives and children. (Majority of them aren’t ready to settle down). Women dealing with these mixed messages want stability and satisfaction. If they're feeling hot and their partner's not cutting it, they might use something like alcohol as an excuse that lets them follow their instincts without societal scorn and reproach.

That’s why majority of church girls once given the opportunity or excuse are always bad girls 😊

Proserpina:
Simple question

Why can't they be accountable? You wrote a book on unrelated topic. In your mind you have answered well

SpencerForbes:
Societal stigmatization ,inability of partner to fulfill sexual fantasies, innate and biological needs etc. I think I’ve summarized it enough.

Seems you’re a lazy reader😁

Proserpina:
All these things are they reason one can decide not to be accountable ba?

I believe you should go back and think again. This is not it at all.

FreeSpirited:
Something that reads like a chatGPT response.
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Be envying....

Goodlady:
You mean think you own us.

God dey.

Goodlady:
It's nothing when a guy do it despite having a relationship or he's married. But when a woman do it, you all will say what?

FreeSpirited:
Something that reads like a chatGPT response.
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Be envying....

Fiscus105:
If a woman who is serious relationship goes outside and party with her friends, she got carried away and started dancing like, it happens in the picture below.

A. CHEATING
B. NOTHING
C. INAPPROPRIATE
D. JUST HAVING FUN.


To me, it's INAPPROPRIATE.

NB. Some girls don't know when not to cross redlines.

Fiscus105:
If a woman who is serious relationship goes outside and party with her friends, she got carried away and started dancing like, it happens in the picture below.

A. CHEATING
B. NOTHING
C. INAPPROPRIATE
D. JUST HAVING FUN.
To me, it's INAPPROPRIATE.
NB. Some girls don't know when not to cross redlines.

Goodlady:
You mean the guy?

placeofallure:
You're not any different from the girl. Case Closed!

Diamond098454:
men will never change.

FreeSpirited:
Sign of a loose woman, who has no boundary I guess. A single woman may be excused, perhaps looking for a male, seeking attention, trying to get laid.
But a Lady in a relationship in the presence of her boyfriend/man, that's a gross lack of respect for the man. Any man who allows that is a weak man. A very weak man. The woman will do worse and believe she can get away.

FreeSpirited:
Something that reads like a chatGPT response.
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Be envying....

goran3310:
Girls Night?!? 🙂
You’re free to go, and on your way, feel free to look for a new boyfriend.We’re not together anymore.
And even if you stay — we’re still not together, because you dared to even think about leaving.
The next month will be pure torment. 🙂

Hhh4444:
Women are not meant to be taking seriously...they hate to take accountability for their actions. I see no reason why a man should commit to that gender.

jaxxy:
It's an open relationship or she's keeping her options open or she's still looking for her husband.

It is not cheating unless its an exclusive relationship and u have set the limits or boundaries.

There are different kinds of relationships. serious casual, undefined, exclusive, mutually exclusive or open, relationships.

So pls b4 u get insecure know the context of the situation. u are not married to her. She has a choice.

PhilipEboh:
The Truth is your woman is not any better.
I wish the men here knew what Thier respective women secretly fantasize about and a fully capable of. Coming from a married man!

Hhh4444:
So you think getting married to her will make her bad behaviours go away? You obviously don't understand female nature. If she is doing this while dating, expect her to do worse in marriage. I pity man when no understand women. E go learn the hard way.

PhilipEboh:
The Truth is your woman is not any better.
I wish the men here knew what Thier respective women secretly fantasize about and a fully capable of. Coming from a married man!