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How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 9:02pm On Nov 11, 2025
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Hezzyluv:
If you no get advice for this guy, just keep quiet. Don't jump into this thread and start the normal talk of make money first, then use the opportunity begin dey cast the guy upanda. Put yaself in his shoes n give him some encouragement.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by budaatum: 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Are you certain that what you see is those men not knowing how to use their selves?

Do you not know that the size of a d does not the man make?

Surely there must be other things that are good about you than your d. No?

Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by muyico(m):
My guy?? Forget am, except you wanna date wide hole, find decent lady??
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Nazgul: 9:29pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
You wrote all this and failed to tell us the main thing which is your Deek size in inches. Reveal that information and we'll know if you're small or average. And whether or not you should be worried.

Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Iseoluwani: 9:30pm On Nov 11, 2025
honestly as in in all honestly i dont know what to say
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by EmmaLege: 9:30pm On Nov 11, 2025
Omo you really need to know how many inches you get in other to find solution o
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Imperare: 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
A lovely home orientated lady won't even bother you. Most Women don't really take this serious if you know how to use what you have
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Bahamas95(m): 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
What I have to say is that you should avoid anything borehole. I am very sure that Lamani guy would agree with me.



A tear rubber wouldn't make you bother much about this issue, but at least you should have told us the size for better advice.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Profezzor: 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
muyico:
My guy?? Forget am, except I wanna date wide hole, find decent lady??
I really agree with you. Except you are marrying a sex therapist, There is more to relationship and marriage than sex and long dicks
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by jubrilELsudan: 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
WOW LET ME GET YOU RIGHT....ARE YOU SAYING YOUR PRICK IS JUST LIKE THAT OF A SMALL PUPPY EKUKE?

Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by papiSNEH(m):
My brother stop bothering yourself... just hustle for the bag. there's no way you can please that gender even if na 16inchs you carry dem go still cheat on you with person way promise dem shawarma... My advice is for you to go for a virgin tho it's very very hard to see..once you brake in your bolt and her nut will rhyme.. for her mind she go think that's how all bolt are.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Hayaoga1(m): 9:32pm On Nov 11, 2025
Just marry a v.irgin, that's all
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Kobojunkie:
LINSAR:
➜I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before. I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.
Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal. The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big. He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.
The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me. What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
You are just 24-years-old. Why not give yourself some more time to really grow to accepting who you are(your body included) before you go out chasing after women and stuff? Prioritize self-love over romantic love so you can develop the shield necessary to keep you from breaking down when attacked by others for your body. undecided

Self-confidence, stemming from deep self-awareness and self-love, can and should be your best weapon when pursuing romantic love. undecided
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by chiagozien(m): 9:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
Learn how to use what you have.


Is not by size.





If you want I teach you how to go 40 mins to 1 hour on the first round without releasing.



The second unlimited until you are tired and want to release.






But know a good 20 minutes is already enough.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Haydens: 9:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
Size matters na only for borehole, for a virgin any size can fit even micro can still fit too.

Go for a virgin, if the seal is broken don't buy.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigCowHornn: 9:34pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
You don't need just any woman

Find the one that understands you.


For every product there is a market
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by TimiofAbuja: 9:34pm On Nov 11, 2025
What does small D looks like?

If it's bigger than those tiny crayons you are good to go
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Melancho:
Trust me, same way you see men salivating over big backside is the same way most of them don't care about it. That's why you see tiny or slim or flat ladies getting married, dating and all.

Just focus on becoming a better you.

Have you seen the statue of David and his prick?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Haydens: 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2025
For long lasting erection eat watermelon everyday.

For my side here watermelon na water I no dey use am play, I dey buy 5 for 1k and I dey finish 1 full one before I invite any banny and I dey see the result effectively and well.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by folake4u: 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2025
Hayaoga1:
Just marry a v.irgin, that's all
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This is the funniest sh1t ever.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by tragergeorge(m): 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2025
dildos de
you add other sexual skills
learn how to suck fully for like 16mins

as long as u can impregnate woman then you good to go

and then try de fol)ow upcoming girls wen never de take senior brother them Kala
dassol
cos girls de wen no fit take half of wetin some other de swallow with phone for ear de make call
no de carry Coman anyhow if not you go de embbarras yourself....
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by autoez: 9:36pm On Nov 11, 2025
Bro focus on fulfilling your life and worry less about your size. Pray for a wonderful woman who will appreciate you. And let's not forget, all those girls who worry about size are prostitutes.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by betbaron: 9:36pm On Nov 11, 2025
Nazgul:
You wrote all this and failed to tell us the main thing which is your Deek size in inches. Reveal that information and we'll know if you're small or average. And whether or not you should be worried.

Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case.
A pix at least could have saved him the stress
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by DixseenMktPlace(m): 9:37pm On Nov 11, 2025
Use style snap am make we see

I won check something first fess fess

🤭
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by PheelzAlmighty: 9:37pm On Nov 11, 2025
People worry about the wrong things.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Godsonkemz(m): 9:38pm On Nov 11, 2025
Don't be obsessed with it. Just work on building your confidence regardless of dick. Though it's a genetic disorder but u can massage it to add some inches to it
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by olisefom: 9:38pm On Nov 11, 2025
I will suggest you do the following:
1. Take your time to build your finances to a very save level - women follow money, not big D.
2. Build other aspect of your body to complement to complement the seemingly missing size. Muscles. Brain and all.
3. Only date (or marry) Virgins - they don't have an idea what sizes are, and by the time she does (if she ever does) please free up and take your kids (if it has gotten to the level of kids)
4. Don't bother about who you love. Love only that lady who loves you.
Good luck
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Jagabanbogu: 9:38pm On Nov 11, 2025
If you have a very good game play on bed and if the liquid inside your small thing is fertile my bro you are good to go.

Women who crave big rods are wide down there.

For every shoe created, there is a leg size that'd wear it.

Look for a Lady who hasn't known men, and you'd be surprised how she'd be begging to go slow on her.

You may only have issues with her vagina after childbirth. But then the Virgina is elastic and can fix it self
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by blamingthedevil: 9:39pm On Nov 11, 2025
Size doesn't matter.... regular use will give you needed experience to build confidence and be the man everyone will be running after

Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Noblex2011(m): 9:39pm On Nov 11, 2025
Don't stress yourself bro.
What is the inches first?
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