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Oga, there's more to sex than penetration.
Make her run wild with your fingers, tongue etc. Do intense pre-intimacy

Google ways to make her feel good. By the time she's hooked on that, she wont be bothered by size again.
It is not by length but by how you use it.

Na lalami fit solve your problem oooo because why you self want go carry community borehole, go show lalami the D size he go find you your exact size way go tight well with no complain qnd live happily ever ever

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

Hey NwaAmaikpe is that you?

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

don't bother yourself

go out there and make money

My brother try get money forget about your D...

@LINSAR

Just focus on meeting a virgin and marrying her. Don't date those ladies carrying wells in-between their thighs.

Those ones have seen it all. Virgins aren't wild yet; they only have fantasies.

Bro is having a headache over women that don't care about you. If you like have big dick small dick don't have money women won't give a damn about you unless you have money so chase money

Hmmmm. What is your stretched penile size (SPL)? Pay attention to the word stretched. Measure it and compare to these images attached to this post (culled from researches conducted in diff countries since I can't find one for Nigeria). If it is within normal, please don't bother yourself

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

What’s ur erect sick size? Let start from dere

5.0-5.5 average
5.5-6.0 slightly above average
6.5-7.0 above average

@ op

Bro, I can tell this thing has really weighed on ur mind for a long time.
The truth is, every man has one area in life that tests his confidence, and for u, this happens to be it. But that doesn’t make u less of a man.

Since the doctors have confirmed u’re fine, then the real battle is in ur mind, not ur body.
Size doesn’t define satisfaction or masculinity, confidence does.
Many men with what u call “small” have great partners because they know how to love right and carry themselves with assurance.

Stop focusing on what u think u lack and build the rest of ur life , ur mind, ur goals, ur presence. When u become a man of value, women see beyond anything physical. The right woman will respect u for who u are, not what u have.

You’re fine, bro. Just live, grow, and stop letting insecurity write ur story.

Lemme see the pics

folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This is the funniest sh1t ever.

Virgins sef like big D?

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

Bro, it is not the size that matters but what you can do with it.

Those ladies body shaming people because of the size of the D are women of easy virtues.

Pay them no mind. Then you need to overcome your own psychological fear of being judged based on the size of your D.

LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?

Size doesn't matter...its your erection that's the koko

If you can maintain an erection, focus on bedroom skills

This is very dicey

Is not everyone that will have big, or small dick. The question is have you ever felt aroused and you see your thing getting strong when you are around a lady or maybe when you wake up in the money sometimes? If yes, you will be fine no matter what the size you have. And I'll say go ahead and woo a lady of your choice and don't feel shy, just know she either say no or yes and yes may not be immediate. But if your answer to my questions are no, you need to work on yourself first.

budaatum:
Are you certain that what you see is those men not knowing how to use their selves?

Do you not know that the size of a d does not the man make?

Surely there must be other things that are good about you than your d. No?

I'm sure you don't believe this lie you wrote, do you?

autoez:
And let's not forget, all those girls who worry about size are prostitutes.

^^^
Not true.

There are many, many women for whom size does matter. And those women are not prostitutes.

How small is it?

Most people no get problem for this life

My brother, kuku cut am comot and/or join others in the seminary...

According to d doctor he said some women get big breast while some get small buh do dey av shallow vir*gi*na

The problem is una too dey watch adult flicks
Okay let me break it down for you
So in adult flicks the male talent do auditions i.e the size of their thing so that's why you see most of them are hung
Your normal size believe it or not is the general population size
Nothing can increase or decrease your tool size because it is genetics
Now to the low T,your physician should be able to prescribe something for that because in 2025 that's not an issue anymore.
As per women talking anyhow you might want to check the topics on FP where a woman falsely accused her OWN husband
Women talk off point nine times out of ten
Ignore and build yasef

Hmm. May you find a woman that loves you. I won’t lie to you and give you false hope. Find real love and behave well. That is the antidote to such circumstance. Try marry woman who come from family where girls de complain about the big size to help your future children.

Don’t jump into sex no matter how tempted. Try to win them over with your personality first, so you avoid the rude ones make dem no go lower your self esteem more than required.

joseph1832:
I'm sure you don't believe this lie you wrote, do you?

That there might be better more valuable and important things about the op than his d?

To be sincere, yes I do believe the op might have more desirable things than a d. He might be smart. He might be kind. He might be clean, disciplined and matured. He might be smart and intelligent and witty and lots of many other things that are much more desirable than the size of a d that the op could be I believe because I don't know, hence me asking instead of lying, as you claim.

Or do you have any evidence the op might not be any of these things and or more?

how small are we talking about? That's a genuine concern but its not by size but by how u use the size uve got.

Ponder on this and work on ur self, mindset and confidence.

Don't belittle yourself
Allyou need here is the strength and energy to ride on to cloud 9
And like my people have said get the inch first to determine if you are good to go or not and never allow it to depress you
Enjoy life as it's a gift from God

Lukuluku69:
Those ladies body shaming people because of the size of the D are women of easy virtues.

^^^
Not true.

There are many women (too many to count) who 'body shame' men for not 'measuring up to expectation' (pun intended)...and these women certainly aren't 'easy'.

It may seem cruel that there are women who judge men on something these men have no control over...but it is what it is.

Take this and keep it - your D will definitely grow after puberty...

In fact, you fit reach 30 make ur D still dey grow...

Ooh, u don read everywhere say men sesh-hual @rg@ns stop growing at so-so age, abi?

Those are just fallacy....

You just gon' have a slow growth of ur D, but trust me, u go remember say someone talk am say ur D go still dey grow even when u hit 30...

Ur case na slow growth, just like in some women, they grew buubs at matured ages...

okay. What you need now is good sex education. It is not by size or shape. It is about finding the right rhythm, not DJ rhythm scratching the woman anyhow like a disc, NO. Knowing how to go 3cm per second in giving her head, also some women may find a higher or lower rhythm or frequency more pleasurable. You also need to find her G spot from her reaction, you may not find that rough part well, you may not find at all. It is mostly about communication and respect. Not the *spank* and asking "who is your daddy?".
Unlike men, womens pleasure centers are at the gate, including the G spot.
But you really need to know what sex does to the brain, not the propaganda that even health companies are spreading around the internet. Something that will make you loss interest in sex and go into other dopamine driven activities. So people hide it away from the internet, I bet p**n industries pay alot of money to hide it.