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Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ashawoman82: 12:09am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
bro, coming from someone with big dick, trust me women prefer ur dick size.. Provided it's up to 5 inches when erect u are good to go, forget what u see online... An average woman don't like big dick, there are millions of ways to please a woman without dick sef.. It's the same fallacy about Naija women preferring dark guys to fair guys online, offline na fair guys them love pass..... Never believe women online....
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 12:25am On Nov 12, 2025
Mariangeles:
So, your libido get mind dey off the roof. undecided
Make I get low libido ontop wetin dey do me—double tragedy grin
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by 2mch(m): 12:26am On Nov 12, 2025
MrNipplesLover:
Take this and keep it - your D will definitely grow after puberty...

In fact, you fit reach 30 make ur D still dey grow...

Ooh, u don read everywhere say men sesh-hual @rg@ns stop growing at so-so age, abi?

Those are just fallacy....

You just gon' have a slow growth of ur D, but trust me, u go remember say someone talk am say ur D go still dey grow even when u hit 30...

Ur case na slow growth, just like in some women, they grew buubs at matured ages...
You de lie give this man, e no good. Dick de stop growing after like 21 and start to shrink after 40’s.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by WebKraft: 12:31am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
You failed to mention erect length, but 4.5 - 5 inches is within the normal range for girth. Most guys with a girth bigger than 5 inches are on the larger side...

Besides, average penis size (erect) in Nigeria is 5.5 inches based on medical research so even if you fall slightly below that, you're still ok. Just stop comparing yourself to others cos comparison is the theft of joy.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by bobbyslim(m): 12:43am On Nov 12, 2025
My guy try to dey eat uncooked potatoes you will see the difference 👍
Thank me later
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ikaeniyan0: 12:50am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
If it's 4.5 to 5 inches long, then it's not too small.

If you know where dem dey do agbo around you, talk to an agbo seller, you might be lucky and see one wey Sabi wetin you go use to make it longer, but b careful

If am to advise you, I will advise you to keep on using it like that, so far you're lasting long during sex, it's fine
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Memberclub(m): 1:07am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
He's probably average. I dey shame to rock babe.
he has a small penis. Lesser than 3 inches lol. You still won't believe me anyway. It's all in your head. Just learn not to give a fckkkk
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 1:15am On Nov 12, 2025
Nazgul:
You wrote all this and failed to tell us the main thing which is your Deek size in inches. Reveal that information and we'll know if you're small or average. And whether or not you should be worried.

Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case.
He said that his doctor confirmed that he has a small D. I am pretty sure his doctor knows what a small D is.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by FreeIgboho: 1:25am On Nov 12, 2025
Ashawoman82:
bro, coming from someone with big dick, trust me women prefer ur dick size.. Provided it's up to 5 inches when erect u are good to go, forget what u see online... An average woman don't like big dick, there are millions of ways to please a woman without dick sef.. It's the same fallacy about Naija women preferring dark guys to fair guys online, offline na fair guys them love pass..... Never believe women online....
Big LIE. Once a woman gets used to a big dick small won't satisfy her.
Hence the saying about white women: "Once you go black, you won't go back"
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by stainzville: 1:26am On Nov 12, 2025
Of all the problems in Nigeria and the world na D size be ur problem shocked
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by otherway: 1:33am On Nov 12, 2025
If you are 5 inches long when erect? You have no issue.

Ladies love big dck visually but are OK with 5inches in reality.


The pleasure zone in the psy is just 3inches from the opening which is why fingering pleasures them.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Osanoghodua1: 1:42am On Nov 12, 2025
Size doesn't matter, just know how to use it very well when you get married. Small D can cause problem if properly used. It's not the size that matters the skillfulness in usage that matters. When the penis gets erected doesn't it increase by 3x or 4x? You don't need to marry a LovePeddler too. Most of our fear is a mirage. Usually, a woman's Virgina expands or contracts to accommodate the size of any penis.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ponmoalata: 2:12am On Nov 12, 2025
Fear not.

A lady who's truly in love with you wont care about your manhood size as long as you're good in other areas in bed.

Even some women dont like ninjas with big banana because our ego wont let us go down on them.

Worry about making it big, women will stay
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Nobody: 2:29am On Nov 12, 2025
mine is 10inches, girls dey run from me after 1 round, come and borrow it please
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by focus7: 2:53am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
You can't be as small as Chinese dick, but even if it is as that, don't rush and don't be discouraged. First of be confident in yourself, get a good job earn good money, look good and always dress. Read and watch videos on pre-intimacy, know the difference sensitive place to touch a woman and be good in exploring. Then take your time and find a lady, there's a lady that will accept your size, but when you find, treat her well and don't spoil her.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by jmichael259(m): 3:34am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Measure it with ruler or something find out how many inches first. Truly there are D that are indeed small to the point it's not going to do anything but if you're within 4-6 inches then no wahala. It can be a small problem if it's less than 3inches.
This is the 21st century, just find electronic toys that are around your size to use and combine to service the lady. Learn pre-intimacy, massage, cuddling, hand job and many other healthy acts to handle the situation.
Incase in the rare case that it's actually too small, Do not hide this fact until after marriage! It'll never go well.
Your solution will be excellence in non penetration methods of lady's satisfaction, proper use of toys and making sure your financial status is strong.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Tenrack: 3:43am On Nov 12, 2025
chiagozien:
Learn how to use what you have.


Is not by size.





If you want I teach you how to go 40 mins to 1 hour on the first round without releasing.



The second unlimited until you are tired and want to release.






But know a good 20 minutes is already enough.
how you go take show am
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Kajaard: 4:14am On Nov 12, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You are just 24-years-old. Why not give yourself some more time to really grow to accepting who you are(your body included) before you go out chasing after women and stuff? Prioritize self-love over romantic love so you can develop the shield necessary to keep you from breaking down when attacked by others for your body. undecided

Self-confidence, stemming from deep self-awareness and self-love, can and should be your best weapon when pursuing romantic love. undecided
I like this. Kobo sometimes your head dey correct but other times I really don't know what's going on in that coconut head of yours cool

To the Op: there you have it. Kobo has said exactly what I would say.

You are still 24, there is still time for your dick to add inches. I am a perfect example. I actually became quite bigger after graduation many centuries ago.

So relax bro. Eat healthy and avoid junk food. Exercise and avoid stress in your life. Your testosterone levels will improve. Cheers cool

cc: LINSAR
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Rindo69: 4:22am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
What do you want to carry big D to do? You do not need more than 3 to 4 inches to satisfy. Don't let what you cannot change lead youto depression. Women will not remember the size of the D if you satisfy them in other ways. Learn other ways ...research but if you want to waste money, go and be buying cream
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by MetalJigsaw(m): 4:28am On Nov 12, 2025
Nazgul:
You wrote all this and failed to tell us the main thing which is your Deek size in inches. Reveal that information and we'll know if you're small or average. And whether or not you should be worried.

Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case.
Please, Im not the poster but is 7 inches OK?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by MetalJigsaw(m): 4:40am On Nov 12, 2025
BigDawsNet:
What’s ur erect sick size? Let start from dere

5.0-5.5 average
5.5-6.0 slightly above average
6.5-7.0 above average
So you're saying I'm large even though I see my size as average🤔
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Hipocratic88: 4:47am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
You haven't mentioned the size. It is not about size though but about the heart and how well it pumps blood. If you need a penis amplifier, safe and effective to have one or two inches more link up.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by AllBlack: 4:54am On Nov 12, 2025
budaatum:
Are you certain that what you see is those men not knowing how to use their selves?

Do you not know that the size of a d does not the man make?

Surely there must be other things that are good about you than your d. No?
consolation talk.
nothing beats the look on a woman's face when she gasps, bites her lips and grabs the bed sheets as the pipe goes in.

if you like write all the alphabets with your tongue, if you like use your fingers like a DJ, she will still run to the man that smashes her till she passes out.

I really feel for the OP sha.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by aysnoopy(m): 4:55am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Thank you for taking time to pull these up.

But then, the average african man has an average size larger than all these measurements.

Secondly, I lived with boys and now men, I can tell you that I haven’t seen anyone small like me.

You seem to be a medical doctor. If you won’t find it intrusive and disturbing, I can avail pictures to you privately.
Can u just tell the inches
I'm not big down there despite tall and slim which people think will av a huge one.
And to be honest, with my lil size, I have an ex despite her size, she always scream and ask for more and I'm not that huge to be honest.
Just have confidence in yourself.
I'll like to know d size if you don't mind
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by DrAda(f): 5:02am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Thank you for taking time to pull these up.

But then, the average african man has an average size larger than all these measurements.

Secondly, I lived with boys and now men, I can tell you that I haven’t seen anyone small like me.

You seem to be a medical doctor. If you won’t find it intrusive and disturbing, I can avail pictures to you privately.
Uwc. Unfortunately this is not my area of specialty. My advice will be to see a doctor who is an adult endocrinologist. Cheers
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by AguluLiar: 5:56am On Nov 12, 2025
blamingthedevil:
Size doesn't matter.... regular use will give you needed experience to build confidence and be the man everyone will be running after
Size matters
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ibinaboonline: 6:10am On Nov 12, 2025
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. Proverbs 3:5.
LINSAR:
So she won't know what it looks like before marriage, or it suddenly won't be an issue just because we are married? huh
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ejimatic: 6:22am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Regardless of what gave you as your dick zise ,you can still get to the "promised land" with your woman.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by turawaa(m): 7:08am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Get a very decent girl or Decent Virgin.
You need to do some kegel exercises too
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by attahc: 7:10am On Nov 12, 2025
Nothing you wan tell me, you dey do soapy
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