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Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Nazgul: 7:11am On Nov 12, 2025
SlayQueenSlayer:
He said that his doctor confirmed that he has a small D. I am pretty sure his doctor knows what a small D is.
You do know that the penis is categorized into two. Growers showers.

He might be a grower. Cos some growers can be less than 2 inches in their flaccid state and can really get big when fully erect.

If you go through his profile you'd see him complaining of how he hates swimming cos of his size. So he's definitely a grower.

About the doctor, if the doctor didn't see his fully erected Deek, I feel it's safe to say that he should disregard that analysis.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Nazgul: 7:14am On Nov 12, 2025
MetalJigsaw:
Please, Im not the poster but is 7 inches OK?
7 inches is considered big cos the average is 5.5. So you're way above average.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Honestey: 7:35am On Nov 12, 2025
There is what we call dick enlargement. Hausa people are selling it and if you add it to burantashi Omo you will become bulldozer using your warhead to destroy any obstacles as you ram through the crannies
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by TOPMAN4LIFE: 7:42am On Nov 12, 2025
Marry a very slim / tiny girl with flat bottom who is still a virgin, her vagina will be tight for your size
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by OLOKOESHIN:
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
When you have erection, how long is the dick.? You’ve got to tell us because sometimes dick look small until erection especially when it’s cold
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by BigCowHornn:
LINSAR:
How do I find that?
Discuss it on the first date or something?
Discuss it during chats that opens the relationship

You see women out there... Not all of them likes a big dick shafting. Pay attention to the short ones and leave the tall ones alone.

It is no gurrantte, just that most tall girls like it big and long... Especially slim tall ones.

But you see the average height girls or short ones that have flesh on their body? They tend to prefer it moderate or can even manage small dick


I have met those that don't even like dick at all but prefer your tongue
Meaning that if you can suck them well they will manage your small dick and heaven wont fall

All the three women like that I know are average in height and plump. One hates big dick with passion and she is well endowed... Big nyash like nobody's business

You really never know a woman just by looking at her

Nancy is the type you will think that loves big long dick when you see her big breasts and big nyash but it's not so in reality
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by AfDapone: 7:56am On Nov 12, 2025
papiSNEH:
My brother stop bothering yourself... just hustle for the bag. there's no way you can please that gender even if na 16inchs you carry dem go still cheat on you with person way promise dem shawarma... My advice is for you to go for a virgin tho it's very very hard to see..once you brake in your bolt and her nut will rhyme.. for her mind she go think that's how all bolt are.
How can you talk of virgin in the absence of the great virgin and DNA evangelist.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Emtol01: 8:05am On Nov 12, 2025
You don't have to worry yourself. You don't need a LovePeddler in your life just find a decent girl and she'll praise you to high heaven.
You can do it.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Memberclub(m): 8:13am On Nov 12, 2025
MetalJigsaw:
So you're saying I'm large even though I see my size as average🤔
You must be watching alot of porn grin
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ukaface(f): 8:34am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
God help me and my imagination this morning
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Exceed15: 8:35am On Nov 12, 2025
I think the size is not the issue but how well you use .it Understanding techniques that drives women mad is what you should learn.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ashawoman82: 8:38am On Nov 12, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Big LIE. Once a woman gets used to a big dick small won't satisfy her.
Hence the saying about white women: "Once you go black, you won't go back"
are u a woman? I've u met a LovePeddler woman who told u this offline... U see how u are basing ur believe based on online assumptions... Abeg rest... Compare the level white women marry black men compared to black women getting married to White men, I'm sure u know the latter is more factual..
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Maliqcious: 8:55am On Nov 12, 2025
To be honest size don’t really matters it just women crazy fantasies that you should do well to avoid. Imagine women with no stick getting her fellow woman to cloud 9.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by maasoap(m): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.
The question I have for you is: have you measured it when fully erect? What is size in inches or cm? And I hope there is no problem of weak errection too?
If it is up to 4½ to 5 inches when erect, nothing do you, you will overcome your inferiority complex with time. You only need to put your fear aside and get into the game and let the women you come across be the judge and not you cheesy
You even tried and doing all those tests, very bold and courageous
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Iluvmycontr3: 10:41am On Nov 12, 2025
[quote author=LINSAR post=137440106]I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.


#Most of these piece of write ups are the handiwork of SEUN n Co.

#if you know you know.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by maasoap(m): 10:48am On Nov 12, 2025
LINSAR:
Because of fat pad burying the D, right?
I have belly fat sha grin


This won't work.
My libido is off the roof. Masturbation wan wound me!
Masturbation is good but its excessiveness is bad, like everything in excess is bad.
If you get too used to masturbation, the day you see a real vg, you will be disappointed in yourself and your supposedly small D will be the least of your trouble or concern
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ishilove: 10:52am On Nov 12, 2025
folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This is the funniest sh1t ever.
We shall ask the ones advising him to marry a virgin if they are virgins themselves. Virgins for virgins. Chaste for chaste. If you have polluted yourself sleeping with different women then you have no right to seek a virgin.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Iweakbro: 10:55am On Nov 12, 2025
papiSNEH:
My brother stop bothering yourself... just hustle for the bag. there's no way you can please that gender even if na 16inchs you carry dem go still cheat on you with person way promise dem shawarma... My advice is for you to go for a virgin tho it's very very hard to see..once you brake in your bolt and her nut will rhyme.. for her mind she go think that's how all bolt are.
You have comprehension problems. He is dealing with issue of confidence with the opposite gender. Money does not take away insecurities. Is your mentality this poor?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by maasoap(m):
LINSAR:
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
LINSAR:
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.
One would want to assume that you really have a problem when it is just in your head. Don't divorce that your masturbation like right now and go out to get dates
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Mpotomisticai(m): 10:56am On Nov 12, 2025
Keep having erections. It will help u to gradually enlarge ur D. The penis gradually gets bigger with constant erection.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by kiddaz: 11:15am On Nov 12, 2025
The reality is that you don't even need a gigantic pipe to satisfy her. So long as your thing no be micro p, stays rock hard, you're skilful and you're adventurous in the oza room. Any girl that says your pipe is too small for her please look elsewhere. Same way some love gigantic pipes is same way some do not want it but prefer the regular ones. Some vaginal canals are bigger naturally than some and some others have been so over pounded severally by monstrous pipes that they can't go back to default mode again. So use your brain and stop worrying over nothing
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by NotOfThisWorld(f): 11:21am On Nov 12, 2025
You'll find someone who will love you as you are.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:29am On Nov 12, 2025
Nazgul:
You do know that the penis is categorized into two. Growers showers.

He might be a grower. Cos some growers can be less than 2 inches in their flaccid state and can really get big when fully erect.

If you go through his profile you'd see him complaining of how he hates swimming cos of his size. So he's definitely a grower.

About the doctor, if the doctor didn't see his fully erected Deek, I feel it's safe to say that he should disregard that analysis.
Yes I am a grower but still small when erect.

I am 5 inches in length when erect and 4.5 inches in girth when erect.
I am 3 inches in length when flaccid. I don’t remember my flaccid girth.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:38am On Nov 12, 2025
SmartPolician:
@LINSAR

Just focus on meeting a virgin and marrying her. Don't date those ladies carrying wells in-between their thighs.

Those ones have seen it all. Virgins aren't wild yet; they only have fantasies.
Unfortunately, you don’t know who is a virgin until intimacy.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:39am On Nov 12, 2025
infogenius:
@ op

Bro, I can tell this thing has really weighed on ur mind for a long time.
The truth is, every man has one area in life that tests his confidence, and for u, this happens to be it. But that doesn’t make u less of a man.

Since the doctors have confirmed u’re fine, then the real battle is in ur mind, not ur body.
Size doesn’t define satisfaction or masculinity, confidence does.
Many men with what u call “small” have great partners because they know how to love right and carry themselves with assurance.

Stop focusing on what u think u lack and build the rest of ur life , ur mind, ur goals, ur presence. When u become a man of value, women see beyond anything physical. The right woman will respect u for who u are, not what u have.

You’re fine, bro. Just live, grow, and stop letting insecurity write ur story.
Thank you very much!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:43am On Nov 12, 2025
pansophist:
In the era of hoeflation, penis side may matter, but in reality, it should not.

If you’re healthy, can achieve and maintain erection, can ejaculate, and responsible, then your insecurity is unfounded.

Make sure you pick a homely lady, an intentional virgin. Not virgin by circumstances (too young), but those well-trained girls that intentionally keep it for their husband.

The internet is a place where if you spend some time on, even a well to-do guy will feel like he is a failure in life. The average penis size is 5 to 6 inch, and most men are within that range.

Any girl that insults you due to your penis size has just confessed that she is for the streets. Discard and move on.
Thank you very much!!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:46am On Nov 12, 2025
Memberclub:
he has a small penis. Lesser than 3 inches lol. You still won't believe me anyway. It's all in your head. Just learn not to give a fckkkk
I will appreciate if you can give me the OT this your guy uses in keeping babes around despite his size.

I am hella handsome. About 3 ladies even asked me out personally. I am the one rejecting them because I feel they will be disappointed to find me small.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2025
otherway:
If you are 5 inches long when erect? You have no issue.

Ladies love big dck visually but are OK with 5inches in reality.


The pleasure zone in the psy is just 3inches from the opening which is why fingering pleasures them.
The thickness is what is the issue. It’s just 4.5inches thick.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:49am On Nov 12, 2025
jmichael259:
Measure it with ruler or something find out how many inches first. Truly there are D that are indeed small to the point it's not going to do anything but if you're within 4-6 inches then no wahala. It can be a small problem if it's less than 3inches.
This is the 21st century, just find electronic toys that are around your size to use and combine to service the lady. Learn pre-intimacy, massage, cuddling, hand job and many other healthy acts to handle the situation.
Incase in the rare case that it's actually too small, Do not hide this fact until after marriage! It'll never go well.
Your solution will be excellence in non penetration methods of lady's satisfaction, proper use of toys and making sure your financial status is strong.
Thank you. I am 5 inches in length and 4.5inches in girth. All when erect.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:50am On Nov 12, 2025
aysnoopy:
Can u just tell the inches
I'm not big down there despite tall and slim which people think will av a huge one.
And to be honest, with my lil size, I have an ex despite her size, she always scream and ask for more and I'm not that huge to be honest.
Just have confidence in yourself.
I'll like to know d size if you don't mind
Thank you. I am 5 inches in length and 4.5inches in girth. All when erect.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:52am On Nov 12, 2025
DrAda:
Uwc. Unfortunately this is not my area of specialty. My advice will be to see a doctor who is an adult endocrinologist. Cheers
Thank you.

But you didn’t advise me as a woman. Virtually all the advice I received are from men, I’ll want to know what the average woman thinks if you don’t mind.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:52am On Nov 12, 2025
attahc:
Nothing you wan tell me, you dey do soapy
Make konji wound me?
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