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Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by neonly: 8:51am On Nov 13, 2025
I believe yur story na who never reach der no go understand
But it ok sha welcome to a life of freedom again
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by gbemishile: 8:55am On Nov 13, 2025
Mtcheeeeeewwwwww.
Nonsense.u had to wait in the marriage untill u were stabbed in the neck.na ur ghost for leave the marriage.
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by DeShineShine(m): 9:01am On Nov 13, 2025
Congratulations!
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Bahamas95(m): 10:08am On Nov 13, 2025
Congratulations OP, you did the right thing.




I dated a beautiful girl some years back and I saw the handwriting on the wall and decided to end the relationship. This girl got anger issue, her modus operandi is that she won't even tell you why she's angry no matter how hard you persuade her to talk. She was behaving like someone possessed by marine spirit.

Many thoughts were just running through my mind that time, "what if this girl stab me with a knife in my sleep" etc.

I woke up one morning and called to inform her that she shouldn't get close to my house again. She was shocked and I started receiving calls from her friends and family to beg me but all their pleading fell on deaf ears.

Till today she's still single, no man in his right senses would marry that girl, I dodged a bullet.
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Bruno3000(m): 10:24am On Nov 13, 2025
lilvicky68:
You waited too long
Aswear, me highest 3 months, am divorcing her ass.
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by equity1(m): 11:08am On Nov 13, 2025
guest1234:
1) My family is taking it as a pain upon themselves because they know that she is taking my weakness as a strength to her because I don't talk or beat her, she has started misbehaving. This said ladies has slapped me over hundred times this year without me retaliate.
2) I started having the thought of divorce when she started misbehaving and hitting me and today when she stab me is what broke the camel back
3) No ( child) issue yet we courted for five years and the marry is one year and 8 months.
Does it mean you never noticed this violet signs during courtship or did you ignore it ?
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Fearyourcreator: 11:33am On Nov 13, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Glad to know that there are no kids involved. Or else you would be stuck with having to raise them with your abuser at least until they turn 18 or for life..🥱🥱

Please fast forward your exit and to get your folks not to try to strong arm the woman in anyway; all that can go south quickly. 🥱🥱

Please file those papers ASAP so you can be free and begin your healing from all that unnecessary suffering you endured for no good reason whatsoever. undecided
Madam rest , women go do bad thing na ways to use style not to condemn them you dey always find
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by enemyofprogress: 11:55am On Nov 13, 2025
Very good. It's better for your peace of mind and your future. Please can I have her phone number?
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Izugreat8940: 11:58am On Nov 13, 2025
Nice decision bro
Brotherhood is proud of u
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Revolva(m): 12:05pm On Nov 13, 2025
she belong to the street
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by eagleonearth(m): 12:34pm On Nov 13, 2025
Kayberg:
Remove your "Point 1".
No sane family will watch the wife of their son murder him in the name of marriage before reacting.

"Points 2 & 3" are good enough and well said without "Point 1".
somebody's moniker is"junkie" and you have time to be replying her mentions.
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Banbanna(m): 1:33pm On Nov 13, 2025
Na this kind comment I dey look for since.
I'm really struggling here to make sense of a situation where a full grown man would/should tolerate physical assault from his so called wife.
That guy really needs toughening up and perhaps some testosterone injection
Nawao, na so some men dey meek themselves, all in the name of not beating a woman? Shey, he's seen the monster husband abuser he has created.
And this is even the wife he'd courted for 5 years b4 marriage. Any sensible, discerning person would have seen the redflags and dodged the bullets.
Ganicus676:
After over a 100 slaps this year alone, you still didn't feel like quitting until she stabbed you, if you had die, shey na your ghost for dey write this story abi?



Op, you failed when you chop the first slap and didn't say anything, like which kin women una dey carry put for house that would slap you and still be feeling alright....
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Lovelydaisies: 1:36pm On Nov 13, 2025
Gotocourt:
Bro, e get why I dey hustle money. See, I b confirm northerner📌💯. Women na tissue paper . That gender will stop you from reaching your potentials
Women aren't tissue paper,not even the ones in your family. Maybe YOU are.
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 2:49pm On Nov 13, 2025
penta:
Lies..

AI bot write-up.

Op, what are you testing? grin
No it is my write up and entirely what played out in my life
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 2:50pm On Nov 13, 2025
Kobicove:
You wife get mind slap you hundred times, and you dey look am?! angry
Things we do for love and fear of the unknown
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 2:56pm On Nov 13, 2025
sonofthunder:
So what exactly were you guys about before she proceeded to stabbing you? What were you guys fighting about? The attempt wasn't while you were sleeping I would imagine.
It was a little quarrel and I never knew she will be in possession of the object but God gave me the strength to overcame
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 2:57pm On Nov 13, 2025
Sammy5413:
Physical abuse from ur wife?
Wait, Dude ur wife dey beat you?
She don't beat me but always use that as her first target because she knows I will not retaliate
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 2:58pm On Nov 13, 2025
Caaz:
Oga not all MEN are volatile....some men are super calm and peaceful.
That is the category of men I fell into, sadly it hurt
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 3:00pm On Nov 13, 2025
Rilwayne001:
5 years wow. Were there no signs at all?
No single sign of that throughout the journey
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 3:03pm On Nov 13, 2025
chatinent:
As Nairaland don see say the forum don dey lag behind, I won't be surprised this story was fabricated.
True life story
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Gotocourt: 3:07pm On Nov 13, 2025
Lovelydaisies:
Women aren't tissue paper,not even the ones in your family. Maybe YOU are.
wink cheesy grin I no go lie for you
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by lailo: 3:20pm On Nov 13, 2025
I can divorce a woman who talk to me anyhow let alone slap cry not to talk of waiting till knife action.
If u pai, u pai for nothing grin
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Diamond098454(f): 3:27pm On Nov 13, 2025
Married people are separating everyday
Is like married life has turned into a do or die affair , it's really hurtful.

How can a woman beat a man is it possible?

Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Ebymyk(m): 3:33pm On Nov 13, 2025
IamAsiri:
Not this way. There is usually a slip-up somewhere.

Unless the lady has a mental problem, of which he should be aware of too or a really serious spiritual problem...
Yes indeed...It could be a serious spiritual issue...
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Ebymyk(m): 3:36pm On Nov 13, 2025
guest1234:
She don't beat me but always use that as her first target because she knows I will not retaliate
imagine...I won't wait for her to attack,she will be moved to where mad people are rehabilitated ASAP...
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On Nov 13, 2025
guest1234:
Things we do for love and fear of the unknown
You mean attachment instead, right? You had better go learn your about the difference between love and attachment to ensure you prevent yourself from replaying that same nonsense on yourself, even if in another form.🥱🥱🥱
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 3:51pm On Nov 13, 2025
guest1234:
✓ She don't beat me but always use that as her first target because she knows I will not retaliate
Not retaliating was the sensible thing to do--- of course, you should have reported her to the police and had her charged as a domestic abuser, but that issue is another topic Nigerians as a whole continue to drag their feet on for lord knows why --- , but not removing yourself completely from that situation was completely out of wack. undecided
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 3:51pm On Nov 13, 2025
Ebymyk:
imagine...I won't wait for her to attack,she will be moved to where mad people are rehabilitated ASAP...
That's a crime since you have no right to do any such to an individual for assaulting you. undecided
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 4:59pm On Nov 13, 2025
Starhearts:
Until l listen to ur wife side of her story... b4 l will conclude my judgement...

I can't based my judgement only on ur submission
You can go and meet her in her parents house to get her own version since you believe it is everyone that can fabricate stories to get likes.
Take care
Re: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by guest1234(op): 5:00pm On Nov 13, 2025
chineduisaac:
Wait are you saying there was no signs of her being violent all through this 5 years?? Women can be very deceitful. It's scary undecided
No single sign
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