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Ogunnaike144:
I am not expecting anything less from someone with such a moniker..lol

tell me one person you know that maturation has killed or destroyed

bigpriik:
tell me one person you know that maturation has killed or destroyed

Most of them come out to tell their story but we don't believe..
Even VDM wey dey openly talk vile said it's not good

Whatever you do, remember moderation is the key. Even as a married man, sometimes I take care of myself by myself. It helps.
Whatever works for you, do it and ignore the crowd.

I totally agree with the Op. The advantages of Masturbation are far more than it's Disadvantages:

Advantages of Masturbation
1. Masturbation prevents or reduces patronizing Prostitutes and Hook up girls unless for SVCs.
2. Masturbation prevents or reduces having sex with your housemaid, your neighbours wife, your female neighbour, your workplace colleagues, your tenant, your students, your subordinates, your brothers wife, etc.
3. Masturbation prevents or reduces Adultery and Fornication, just to summarize Number 2 above.
4. Masturbation increases your Focus on Wealth Creation, Education, Career Progression, etc.
5. Masturbation prevents being embarrassed publicly for Sexual Assault or Sexual Harassment. Masturbation also prevents being jailed for Sexual offences like Rape. It prevents being Sacked from Job, or lynched to death because of Sexual offences.
6. Masturbation helps you to build or regain your social respect, as your sexual urges won't make you to toast any and every lady around. Whether you like it or not, most of you guys are referred to as Chronic Womanizer, behind your back.
7. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Fidelity, as you won't use the excuse of my wife is sick or unavailable, to sleep with every available hole.
8. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Bonding and prevent Divorce, as 85% of Divorce cases filed by Ladies are based on their Man having sex with other ladies.
9. Masturbation improves your relationship with the other gender, as your discussion with them won't always begin and end in Sex, no matter how sexually attractive and appealing they are.
10. With Masturbation, your mind can actually forget that ladies exist, and you get to focus on your Life goals and achievements, because at the end of the day, apart from Sex, what else can ladies really offer you? Nothing. But with Masturbation in the picture, what else do you really need ladies for? Nothing.


However, as every other addictive behaviors, avoid getting addicted to Masturbation. Masturbation is advantageous. But addiction to Masturbation is disastrous too.

essentialone1:
I totally agree with the Op. The advantages of Masturbation are far more than it's Disadvantages:

Advantages of Masturbation
1. Masturbation prevents or reduces patronizing Prostitutes and Hook up girls unless for SVCs.
2. Masturbation prevents or reduces having sex with your housemaid, your neighbours wife, your female neighbour, your workplace colleagues, your tenant, your students, your subordinates, your brothers wife, etc.
3. Masturbation prevents or reduces Adultery and Fornication, just to summarize Number 2 above.
4. Masturbation increases your Focus on Wealth Creation, Education, Career Progression, etc.
5. Masturbation prevents being embarrassed publicly for Sexual Assault or Sexual Harassment. Masturbation also prevents being jailed for Sexual offences like Rape. It prevents being Sacked from Job, or lynched to death because of Sexual offences.
6. Masturbation helps you to build or regain your social respect, as your sexual urges won't make you to toast any and every lady around. Whether you like it or not, most of you guys are referred to as Chronic Womanizer, behind your back.
7. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Fidelity, as you won't use the excuse of my wife is sick or unavailable, to sleep with every available hole.
8. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Bonding and prevent Divorce, as 85% of Divorce cases filed by Ladies are based on their Man having sex with other ladies.
9. Masturbation improves your relationship with the other gender, as your discussion with them won't always begin and end in Sex, no matter how sexually attractive and appealing they are.
10. With Masturbation, your mind can actually forget that ladies exist, and you get to focus on your Life goals and achievements, because at the end of the day, apart from Sex, what else can ladies really offer you? Nothing. But with Masturbation in the picture, what else do you really need ladies for? Nothing.


However, as every other addictive behaviors, avoid getting addicted to Masturbation. Masturbation is advantageous. But addiction to Masturbation is disastrous too.

You are right..
I usually think masturbation would destroy lives but hearing from my friend's perspective,,I am shocked,, never heard of such thing before hence why I came to ask

essentialone1:
I totally agree with the Op. The advantages of Masturbation are far more than it's Disadvantages:

Advantages of Masturbation
1. Masturbation prevents or reduces patronizing Prostitutes and Hook up girls unless for SVCs.
2. Masturbation prevents or reduces having sex with your housemaid, your neighbours wife, your female neighbour, your workplace colleagues, your tenant, your students, your subordinates, your brothers wife, etc.
3. Masturbation prevents or reduces Adultery and Fornication, just to summarize Number 2 above.
4. Masturbation increases your Focus on Wealth Creation, Education, Career Progression, etc.
5. Masturbation prevents being embarrassed publicly for Sexual Assault or Sexual Harassment. Masturbation also prevents being jailed for Sexual offences like Rape. It prevents being Sacked from Job, or lynched to death because of Sexual offences.
6. Masturbation helps you to build or regain your social respect, as your sexual urges won't make you to toast any and every lady around. Whether you like it or not, most of you guys are referred to as Chronic Womanizer, behind your back.
7. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Fidelity, as you won't use the excuse of my wife is sick or unavailable, to sleep with every available hole.
8. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Bonding and prevent Divorce, as 85% of Divorce cases filed by Ladies are based on their Man having sex with other ladies.
9. Masturbation improves your relationship with the other gender, as your discussion with them won't always begin and end in Sex, no matter how sexually attractive and appealing they are.
10. With Masturbation, your mind can actually forget that ladies exist, and you get to focus on your Life goals and achievements, because at the end of the day, apart from Sex, what else can ladies really offer you? Nothing. But with Masturbation in the picture, what else do you really need ladies for? Nothing.


However, as every other addictive behaviors, avoid getting addicted to Masturbation. Masturbation is advantageous. But addiction to Masturbation is disastrous too.

Oga no lie o
Your penis never shrink before

Those supporting masturbation with lies

Those lie are from the pit of hell, don't listen to your devilish father voice o.

Masturbation is way better than sleeping with random women. No risk of disease, no distractions, and he gets to save his money 100%. I do not see anything wrong with that.

Ogunnaike144:
I have a friend, 25 years old, who once told me something that left me speechless.

He said, “Masturbation has saved me… not destroyed me, like people say.”

At first, I was confused. Saved him? How?

So, I asked.

He looked me in the eye and explained:

“I’m 25 and I’ve never had sex. Anytime I get Hot, I just help myself. People think it’s weakness. For me, it’s strength. It keeps me focused.”

He told me about how he tried dating before. How it always ended the same way—distractions, manipulations, emotional games. Instead of giving him peace, relationships drained his energy.

So, he made a decision. He cut it all out. No more chasing. No more drama.

“Since then,” he said, “I’ve had full concentration on my work. And because of that, I’m doing really well.”

And he wasn’t lying.

He’s into tech. He’s building something huge—an app that, according to him, will shake up Africa. He even told me the idea, and honestly, I was shocked. It’s bold. It’s powerful. And the crazy part? He’s already done with the web app. Right now, he’s building the bridge for expansion.

I sat there listening, half inspired, half confused.

On one hand, I saw his confidence, his focus, his progress. I saw someone who didn’t let urges, relationships, or society’s pressure derail him.

On the other hand, I wondered—was he truly right? Is masturbation really what saved him? Or is it just his discipline, his choice to put concentration above pleasure?

Maybe what saved him wasn’t the act itself… but the mindset behind it.

Maybe he simply refused to be controlled by others, and chose to control himself.

And that choice—whether people agree with it or not—gave him peace, focus, and direction.

Now, I’m left with the question: is he correct? Or is it just his own way of surviving in a distracting world?

Ive been masturbating for the past three years and I can tell you for free that my life is messed up im always feeling unwilling to do anything and I'm always unsuccessful at what ever I manage to do worst of all I keep having demonic dreams and weird experience when ever I masturbate at midnight sometimes it feels as if someone is sitting on top of me and I can move or say anything and there will always be this black shadow that I see speaking in a language I can't understand long story short there is nothing good about masturbation it's demonic and sh!t

Ogunnaike144:
I have a friend, 25 years old, who once told me something that left me speechless.

He said, “Masturbation has saved me… not destroyed me, like people say.”

At first, I was confused. Saved him? How?

So, I asked.

He looked me in the eye and explained:

“I’m 25 and I’ve never had sex. Anytime I get Hot, I just help myself. People think it’s weakness. For me, it’s strength. It keeps me focused.”

He told me about how he tried dating before. How it always ended the same way—distractions, manipulations, emotional games. Instead of giving him peace, relationships drained his energy.

So, he made a decision. He cut it all out. No more chasing. No more drama.

“Since then,” he said, “I’ve had full concentration on my work. And because of that, I’m doing really well.”

And he wasn’t lying.

He’s into tech. He’s building something huge—an app that, according to him, will shake up Africa. He even told me the idea, and honestly, I was shocked. It’s bold. It’s powerful. And the crazy part? He’s already done with the web app. Right now, he’s building the bridge for expansion.

I sat there listening, half inspired, half confused.

On one hand, I saw his confidence, his focus, his progress. I saw someone who didn’t let urges, relationships, or society’s pressure derail him.

On the other hand, I wondered—was he truly right? Is masturbation really what saved him? Or is it just his discipline, his choice to put concentration above pleasure?

Maybe what saved him wasn’t the act itself… but the mindset behind it.

Maybe he simply refused to be controlled by others, and chose to control himself.

And that choice—whether people agree with it or not—gave him peace, focus, and direction.

Now, I’m left with the question: is he correct? Or is it just his own way of surviving in a distracting world?

People talks about marriage like marriage men actually have sex regularly, even as sporadically you have sex the shitty the sex becomes

It's either you end up becoming a cheat or a celibate

BlackAdam65:
Ive been masturbating for the past three years and I can tell you for free that my life is messed up im always feeling unwilling to do anything and I'm always unsuccessful at what ever I manage to do worst of all I keep having demonic dreams and weird experience when ever I masturbate at midnight sometimes it feels as if someone is sitting on top of me and I can move or say anything and there will always be this black shadow that I see speaking in a language I can't understand long story short there is nothing good about masturbation it's demonic and sh!t

I know I shouldn't find this funny. But I laughed when you said you masturbate at midnight. Haba nau.. and the part where you see a black shadow speaking in a language you don't understand