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See how women mind dey work, wetin make you feel say you get the qualities to even be housegirl to this names when you mention? Only a broke and broken woman go wake up dey ask and demand wetin her papa and brothers and male ancestors no provide for her. S/O to our men this days for finally getting wise to detach themselves from leeches like this. Nowadays if no be procreation wetin man wan use woman do.

Your loyalty is money in other words. only broke girls would come here to be saying these words. do you feel Mr Izi poor because he married a billionaire's daughter? shame on u osho free. u go cry for in keke last last.

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

Broke girl! If you like, no go find work...

Confirm okpo

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

When you place your values on money it clearly mean we can bid how much to buy you. Men don't tend to value women like you cos you give olosho vibe. Its obvious women consider money as part of there top list when looking a man to marry but I wouldn't consider you the op as an option cos when that money is not available it becomes a huge problem. Stop competing with men unless you love being single

Women like you tend to marry men with low self esteem or a simp.

you are entitled to your opinion as discussed above.

Nevertheless, you cant dictate how the other person will treat you when he knows you are after his pocket.

keep it cool and get your bags full it will be a long ride to get such accomplished as men in such bracket also expect more from you as well...

its not a one way thing where u will always be at the receiving end else it will lead to chaos.

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

GehGeh has also told his people to make sure they don't date a broke woman either. So finally, the reality is get rich or remain single wether man or woman.

Men will finally understand why there ancestors marry plenty wives.

As a man, if you finally make money, marry plenty women and satisfy yourself. Because if you broke, you no go even see one marry... The way this gender is going.

Broke gold digger

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Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

Meaning you cant demand to be the only wife of ur rich husband..no be only you God create better thing.

occfx:
GehGeh has also told his people to make sure they don't date a broke woman either. So finally, the reality is get rich or remain single wether man or woman.

Men will finally understand why there ancestors marry plenty wives.

As a man, if you finally make money, marry plenty women and satisfy yourself. Because if you broke, you no go even see one marry... The way this gender is going.

The important thing as an adult is to have a source of income.

This is a major reason why many marriages fail woefully in Nigeria....

Only about 5% or less of women submit to a husband that is below them financially.

Kobojunkie:
You said OP is right and wrong, but did not clarify any of this in your comment.

Your wife is lucky that in your case, things turned out better than they were when she first met you. However, for the vast majority of women out there who married men who earned less at the time, the reality did not turn out the same. That is partly the reasons for why, almost 50% of Nigerian married women today are breadwinners despite being married, and of the others who were not themselves financially independent before marriage(and maintained that in marriage) a large portion of them are financially abused by their spouses in marriage.

What OP expressed is a preference many women and there is everything right and nothing wrong about their choice. Also, that choice is helped when the woman knos to be financially independent before and throughout the cause of the marriage as we are all aware that even rich men can be stingy towards their own wives and children.

Adenuga boys are also running away from ladies whom Poverty has built HQ in their father's compound like OP; nobody want to marry liability anymore

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

my regards to you Dad

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

Nuisance

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

This is exactly the mentality of ladies who later got too old for young men to fancy...

I HV up to 6 of them in my area now..smiling up ND down to any single matured guy...

Why would people be offended by what she's saying? Isn't that what prostitutes do? Which prostitute will ever go after a broke guy? ... or a guy below her pay grade? Advertisement come in various forms ... she chose this one. Prostitutes everywhere.

IbnB:
✓ Adenuga boys are also running away from ladies whom Poverty has built HQ in their father's compound like OP; nobody want to marry liability anymore

There are about 4 billion men out there in the world. Are you wanting us to believe that Adenuga boys make up the bulk of men out there that we should consider what Adenuga boys -- whoever they are --- do to be the norm for all men? Come on now...we are almost into 2026, you can do better in the area of reasoning things and life, abeg! 🥱🤣🥱

Wickedtruths:
✓ You dey wear tattered throwback pants. You will regret this comment.

I don't wear tattered underwear; that yours are tattered does not mean everyone else's. A good washing machine doesn't tear clothes unless you don't know how to use one.

Additionally, numerous videos on YouTube are available to teach you how to properly care for your clothing items so they stay useful for you for longer. It is not a flex to say your underwear is tattered when you literally do not have to do much of the washing yourself these days.

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

Me i can not date a lady that can't make a simple sentence that someone can read without cracking his head.

Kobojunkie:
That is partly the reason why almost 50% of married women in Nigeria today are breadwinners.

Don't you want gender equality anymore?

Nefort:
➜Don't you want gender equality anymore?

What aspect of that leads you to believe that gender equality should no longer be a goal?

Kobojunkie:
What aspect of that leads you to believe that gender equality should no longer be a goal?

Why did you state that 50% of women are breadwinners? Why should we be bothered about it if women want gender equality?

Nefort:
➜Why did you state that 50% of women are breadwinners? Why should we be bothered about it if women want gender equality?

Many of you simply hate women is the major problem here. 🥱🥱🥱

The cost of the invisible labor done by women in marriages includes a significant financial impact, estimated to be worth trillions of dollars globally if paid, and a severe toll on their emotional and mental well-being, leading to stress, burnout, and resentment. This includes the "mental load" of managing a household and family, which is separate from physical chores and contributes to inequality and relationship strain.

For women, to add to the above burden laid on them in marriage, to have to bear the burden as breadwinner, you think people should not be bothered... clearly you lot hate women, your mothers included. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Many of you simply hate women is the major problem here. 🥱🥱🥱
For women, to add to the above burden laid on them in marriage, to have to bear the burden as breadwinner, you think people should not be bothered... clearly you lot hate women, your mothers included. 🥱🥱🥱

You don't really sound smart.

There are many marriages where men are the breadwinners and also do house chores.

There are many marriages where men do tedious jobs which are much more stressful and difficult than the house chores women do at home.

There are many marriages where women are the breadwinners and men do the house chores.

Did you really account for all these different configurations of a marital home? Marital homes are not universally the same. In some marital homes men work harder than women. And in some other marital homes women work harder than men. But generally the fact is that both men and women collectively work hard. But you only want to believe that only women work harder than men which is absolutely false.

Kobojunkie:
Many of you simply hate women is the major problem here. 🥱🥱🥱
For women, to add to the above burden laid on them in marriage, to have to bear the burden as breadwinner, you think people should not be bothered... clearly you lot hate women, your mothers included. 🥱🥱🥱

Then why get married? If it is such a huge burden why bother? The human female is the only specie that I know that does things they consider self detrimental. Marriage is slavery, child bearing is dangerous, why do it? You mean to tell me that you do all these for MAN or could it be that you also gain from it physically, emotionally and spiritually?

You can't claim men hate women when y'all keep doing things you clearly feel is harmful to you, DEM FORCE YOU?

It's her choice and she's entitled to it. The only thing i will like to add is this

Money don't command loyalty , submission or submissive in marriage or relationship. To many divorces and separation among the rich

Originalsly:
Why would people be offended by what she's saying? Isn't that what prostitutes do? Which prostitute will ever go after a broke guy? ... or a guy below her pay grade? Advertisement come in various forms ... she chose this one. Prostitutes everywhere.

Yes you are right. According to a Russian adage, if you always go after the money you are a prostitute. Male or female

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

So unfortunate that your respect has a price. Unfortunately, the big question is will such a man respect you?

Learn from the Regina story before you end up as a stat

abbey621:
➜Then why get married? If it is such a huge burden why bother? The human female is the only specie that I know that does things they consider self detrimental.
➜ Marriage is slavery, child bearing is dangerous, why do it? You mean to tell me that you do all these for MAN or could it be that you also gain from it physically, emotionally and spiritually?
➜ You can't claim men hate women when y'all keep doing things you clearly feel is harmful to you, DEM FORCE YOU?

The simple reason is that many of these women have been programmed from birth to believe they have no worth without marriage. That remains the major reason why many females engage in that which is self-detrimental. Their self-worth has been eroded by the societal programming to the point that they do not consider even their own health and life worth investing in, and that is sad.

Boys do not receive similar brainwashing from childhood, and as such, they don't feel obligated to do for their wives more than they can muster in themselves to do for them. Rather, many are told they are entitled to a wife-material who would aid them in accomplishing their life goals as well as their procreation goals in life. This explains why there are so many men out there who believe women should be content with what is, in most cases, less than the bare minimum — subhuman standard of relationship treatment, aka abuse.

2. Again, it is the mental enslavement programming hammered into them from childhood. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Nonsense! A man who loves a woman would treat her like his partner... (in religious speak) be equally yoked with her in marriage. That is only possible if a man loves a woman. However, a man who hates a man does the opposite... he sees her as his servant/slave to take advantage of, and that is what the vast majority of Nigerians, including the religious-minded— in direct contradiction to their so-called religious values— are notorious for doing. 🥱🥱🥱

While it is easy to blame the women in these cases for not attaining self-love before marriage — overthrowning all of their childhood trauma— that does not remove the blame from those who take advantage of them at that.