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A warning to black women in the diaspora that are interested in dating non-black men. (reddit)

Not all white men are wealthy! And not all of them will take a black woman (regardless of how beautiful you are) seriously because of your black womb (lots of white people despire blackness). Black men have it different because they are males and as men they are choosers, regardless of how blackness is viewed in the diaspora.

This Nigerian woman Onyeka got scammed by a 6 foot plus white man with blonde hair and blue eyes because of many reasons. One of them was that (she wanted to get her white friends jealous).

Honestly, this is a disgrace to us Nigerian women but I hope those that wish to date outside of their race understand how non-black men act. They are not angels, they can lie, they can be abusive and not all are wealthy.

PLEASE be warned.

Has anyone watched the storytime on tiktok? What lessons do you have from it?

(What do you think?)

So, all you do is check who’s dating who? How old are you, 12?

VeraAg:
A warning to black women in the diaspora that are interested in dating non-black men. (reddit)

Not all white men are wealthy! And not all of them will take a black woman (regardless of how beautiful you are) seriously because of your black womb (lots of white people despire blackness). Black men have it different because they are males and as men they are choosers, regardless of how blackness is viewed in the diaspora.

This Nigerian woman Onyeka got scammed by a 6 foot plus white man with blonde hair and blue eyes because of many reasons. One of them was that (she wanted to get her white friends jealous).

Honestly, this is a disgrace to us Nigerian women but I hope those that wish to date outside of their race understand how non-black men act. They are not angels, they can lie, they can be abusive and not all are wealthy.

PLEASE be warned.

Has anyone watched the storytime on tiktok? What lessons do you have from it?

(What do you think?)

kpankpangolo:
So, all you do is check who’s dating who? How old are you, 12?

No I’m a young girl and I just but not that young

Wow! So all these black women with white men that I see daily are all ghosts 😱😱😱

kpankpangolo:
So, all you do is check who’s dating who? How old are you, 12?

If you had posted your own educative post, we would have commented.
Please our elder show maturity by your comment

Double0h7:
Wow! So all these black women with white men that I see daily are all ghosts 😱😱😱

Where you Dey see them? better set your priorities right else you have yourself to blame.
A stubborn always end up …. Be warned

toboizilla:
Where you Dey see them? better set your priorities right else you have yourself to blame.
A stubborn always end up …. Be warned

🤫🤫🤫
Let me hear beta people talk.

Double0h7:
Wow! So all these black women with white men that I see daily are all ghosts 😱😱😱

How.many black women have you actually seen with white men?

Obierika:
How.many black women have you actually seen with white men?

Countless women. I didn’t count them but it’s not out of the ordinary to see them abroad.

Obierika:
How.many black women have you actually seen with white men?

Please help me tell them oo. Omo, I am only warning naive Nigerian women. All they will do is knack you and invite your friends to join. It wasn’t my portion but I have seen them try to pass around one girl but she stopped at the first one (her “white boyfriend,” was trying to pass her around to other white men as they have never tried a black girl before).

I have had a Hispanic guy tell me that white men don’t take us seriously oo. I stayed away from them while in school. The white men know that the quality ones of them stay in the community while the lower quality ones go outside. I rather stay in my community than take a white man.

toboizilla:
Where you Dey see them? better set your priorities right else you have yourself to blame.
A stubborn always end up …. Be warned

Exactly. They will mess her up. We should look at statistics and ask ourselves while they marry black woman last. They created racism so that’s not the answer. I don talk am.

VeraAg:
Please help me tell them oo. Omo, I am only warning naive Nigerian women. All they will do is knack you and invite your friends to join. It wasn’t my portion but I have seen them try to pass around one girl but she stopped at the first one (her “white boyfriend,” was trying to pass her around to other white men as they have never tried a black girl before).

I have had a Hispanic guy tell me that white men don’t take us seriously oo. I stayed away from them while in school. The white men know that the quality ones of them stay in the community while the lower quality ones go outside. I rather stay in my community than take a white man.

Well, that very Hispanic man wanted to use you, and in the most pathetic way.

As for white men:
Of course not all of them are wealthy.
Of course not all of them are good.

All people in the world are the same.
Rich and poor, good and bad, smart and stupid, capable and incapable.
More or less, people are like that everywhere.

Finding a high-quality man is difficult, but it is still much easier to find one among white men. That is not a matter of race, but a matter of cultural background — and you obviously have no understanding of that.

Since you are already interested in such topics, look up some statistics online about divorce rates in interracial marriages. You might find some useful information there as well.

Stay within your own race — that is the simplest option.

And by the way, in case you didn’t know, the topic you brought up is racist. Just so you’re aware.Bye.🙂

VeraAg:
Exactly. They will mess her up. We should look at statistics and ask ourselves while they marry black woman last. They created racism so that’s not the answer. I don talk am.

You’re talking about a whole race of people like they’re monolithic. In every race you will find a mixture of people with different personalities, abilities, and disabilities.

If a white person spoke about black women the way you’re doing, you’d be the first one to shout racism but here you are!

Statistics show that relationships between white men and black women have the highest percentage of success, while black men and white have the lowest.

You don’t have to do this to be picked by Nigerian men just continue washing dishes, and clothes for every man you lay down with; one of them will put you out your misery and choose you!

Double0h7:
You’re talking about a whole race of people like they’re monolithic. In every race you will find a mixture of people with different personalities, abilities, and disabilities.

If a white person spoke about black women the way you’re doing, you’d be the first one to shout racism but here you are!

Statistics show that relationships between white men and black women have the highest percentage of success, while black men and white have the lowest.

You don’t have to do this to be picked by Nigerian men just continue washing dishes, and clothes for every man you lay down with; one of them will put you out your misery and choose you!

Right.

VeraAg:
➜No I’m a young girl and I just but not that young

Please, spend this time working on your self-esteem and also on loving yourself— flaws and all — a lot more.

VeraAg:
➜A warning to black women in the diaspora that are interested in dating non-black men. (reddit) Not all white men are wealthy! And not all of them will take a black woman (regardless of how beautiful you are) seriously because of your black womb (lots of white people despire blackness). Black men have it different because they are males and as men they are choosers, regardless of how blackness is viewed in the diaspora.
This Nigerian woman Onyeka got scammed by a 6 foot plus white man with blonde hair and blue eyes because of many reasons. One of them was that (she wanted to get her white friends jealous). Honestly, this is a disgrace to us Nigerian women but I hope those that wish to date outside of their race understand how non-black men act. They are not angels, they can lie, they can be abusive and not all are wealthy.
PLEASE be warned. Has anyone watched the storytime on tiktok? What lessons do you have from it? (What do you think?)

So, because this one woman got herself scammed by a white man, your conclusion from that one is that white men don't take black women seriously? Are you for real?

This 2026, please, focus a lot of your downtime on acquiring critical reasoning skills. Yes, you do not have to wait to take a college course in logic before you can obtain those skills for yourself. There are many good books out there today to help you develop the necessary soft skills to better help you process the information you get from even Reddit and TikTok. Start working on this immediately. Also, work on your emotional and social intelligence while you are at it. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
So, because this one woman got herself scammed by a white man, your conclusion from that one is that white men don't take black women seriously? Are you for real?

This 2026, please, focus a lot of your downtime on acquiring critical reasoning skills. Yes, you do not have to wait to take a college course in logic before you can obtain those skills for yourself. There are many good books out there today to help you develop the necessary soft skills to better help you process the information you get from even Reddit and TikTok. Start working on this immediately. Also, work on your emotional and social intelligence while you are at it. 🥱🥱

Abeg if you want to date and marry a well to do white man go ahead. 🥱 people that don’t associate with them and realize there is a reason why they don’t date out as much will come and start. They don’t realize that the way they defend white men, these men…. Lemme not even start. It’s because of the Prince Charming you see in the television. These men don’t like black women. White Prince Charming is for white and Asian women.

Kobojunkie:
Please, spend this time working on your self-esteem and also on loving yourself— flaws and all — a lot more.

Please ask questions about the subject or skip thread.

Double0h7:
You’re talking about a whole race of people like they’re monolithic. In every race you will find a mixture of people with different personalities, abilities, and disabilities.

If a white person spoke about black women the way you’re doing, you’d be the first one to shout racism but here you are!

Statistics show that relationships between white men and black women have the highest percentage of success, while black men and white have the lowest.

You don’t have to do this to be picked by Nigerian men just continue washing dishes, and clothes for every man you lay down with; one of them will put you out your misery and choose you!

Damnnn, this girl is bitter because her white king has been dismantled from his pedestal Abi? Are you even Nigerian? Anyway, white men wont fight for you the same way. That combo isn’t the only one that has the lowest percentage of divorce. There is Asian women and white men. Until white men start to advocate for themselves to date black women the way black women do and hate on their own, you people will continue to be keyboard warriors with no ring or worst off… with your white off brand king. The truth has shaken my readers. I have more to tell. They can date black women but they don’t do it in a rate high enough for black women to be disgracing themselves this way. Like what is this? Be picked by black men? Black men are our race of men. This is just sad. White women don’t down their men for black men.

VeraAg:
➜Abeg if you want to date and marry a well to do white man go ahead. 🥱 people that don’t associate with them and realize there is a reason why they don’t date out as much will come and start. They don’t realize that the way they defend white men, these men…. Lemme not even start. It’s because of the Prince Charming you see in the television. These men don’t like black women. White Prince Charming is for white and Asian women.

Your statements reveal how very small-minded you really are. What men? Every week here, biracial couples are tying the knot, yet you are quick to wrap up that white men do not like black women, all because you have refused to work on yourself.

While exact real-time numbers vary, recent data shows a significant rise in U.S. interracial couples, with around 11-15% of all married couples being interracial/interethnic by the early 2020s, and a much higher rate for newlyweds (around 17-20%). The most common pairings involve a Hispanic and White partner, followed by White and Asian, and White and Black couples, with rates increasing across all demographics since the legalization of interracial marriage in 1967.

VeraAg:
➜Please ask questions about the subject or skip thread.

How can I ask questions of a close-minded submission? 🥱🥱🥱

goran3310:
Well, that very Hispanic man wanted to use you, and in the most pathetic way.

As for white men:
Of course not all of them are wealthy.
Of course not all of them are good.

All people in the world are the same.
Rich and poor, good and bad, smart and stupid, capable and incapable.
More or less, people are like that everywhere.

Finding a high-quality man is difficult, but it is still much easier to find one among white men. That is not a matter of race, but a matter of cultural background — and you obviously have no understanding of that.

Since you are already interested in such topics, look up some statistics online about divorce rates in interracial marriages. You might find some useful information there as well.

Stay within your own race — that is the simplest option.

And by the way, in case you didn’t know, the topic you brought up is racist. Just so you’re aware.Bye.🙂

Bye. Looking at the same interracial statistics, awwm pairings (check Oxford study) divorce ratings are also incredibly low and white men love themselves Asian women. These same white men im apparently being racist to for calling out patterns are the same ones that ensured black women in their media are depicted in racist stereotypes that still occur today while elevating their women AND Asian women yet you are here thinking this world is equal?
If they truly love black women, racism would have been dismantled by now and not make beauty standards the opposite of black women. Yet they love black women.

Of course rich and poor exist but because of how much they hate blackness, it’s usually rich black men that marry white women not the other way around. The hard wig soft life is only of a tiny few and is an echo chamber.
Until white menstart to promote black women along with white and Asian women positively, I don’t think my opinions will change

goran3310:
Well, that very Hispanic man wanted to use you, and in the most pathetic way.

As for white men:
Of course not all of them are wealthy.
Of course not all of them are good.

All people in the world are the same.
Rich and poor, good and bad, smart and stupid, capable and incapable.
More or less, people are like that everywhere.

Finding a high-quality man is difficult, but it is still much easier to find one among white men. That is not a matter of race, but a matter of cultural background — and you obviously have no understanding of that.

Since you are already interested in such topics, look up some statistics online about divorce rates in interracial marriages. You might find some useful information there as well.

Stay within your own race — that is the simplest option.

And by the way, in case you didn’t know, the topic you brought up is racist. Just so you’re aware.Bye.🙂

Oh the Hispanic guy is a sweetheart. If only you knew how the world works. If only. Dating outside of your race doesn’t mean white people! I have heard an older black man tell me they don’t take black women seriously. I didn’t believe. I didn’t. I’ve seen too much for different kinds of black women. Of course there are individuals that may vary, but this is how the majority thinks they just keep it offline and play the Prince Charming role for all minority women who need deliverance from their minority men that are savages.

Kobojunkie:
Your statements reveal how very small-minded you really are. What men? Every week here, biracial couples are tying the knot, yet you are quick to wrap up that white men do not like black women, all because you have refused to work on yourself.

Where do you live? Before you come to a random post to fight for those that are fighting for their own women and Asian women. Where I live, in the country, they don’t do black women. They only use them. Maybe there is that one exception. But you really want to fight to be that? This is the remnant of colonialism. They still believe in racial stereotypes and it hurts me to see black women cape for them so much. Why don’t you go to Reddit then and ask if they like black women. Why don’t white men date black women more. They will tell you their answer: I don’t like (insert something associated with the black phenotype). The biracial couples you are talking about are obviously common! But if white they are with black men or Asian women!

VeraAg:
Bye. Looking at the same interracial statistics, awwm pairings (check Oxford study) divorce ratings are also incredibly low and white men love themselves Asian women. These same white men im apparently being racist to for calling out patterns are the same ones that ensured black women in their media are depicted in racist stereotypes that still occur today while elevating their women AND Asian women yet you are here thinking this world is equal?
If they truly love black women, racism would have been dismantled by now and not make beauty standards the opposite of black women. Yet they love black women.

Of course rich and poor exist but because of how much they hate blackness, it’s usually rich black men that marry white women not the other way around. The hard wig soft life is only of a tiny few and is an echo chamber.
Until white menstart to promote black women along with white and Asian women positively, I don’t think my opinions will change

Exelent.

VeraAg:
Bye. Looking at the same interracial statistics, awwm pairings (check Oxford study) divorce ratings are also incredibly low and white men love themselves Asian women. These same white men im apparently being racist to for calling out patterns are the same ones that ensured black women in their media are depicted in racist stereotypes that still occur today while elevating their women AND Asian women yet you are here thinking this world is equal?
If they truly love black women, racism would have been dismantled by now and not make beauty standards the opposite of black women. Yet they love black women.

Of course rich and poor exist but because of how much they hate blackness, it’s usually rich black men that marry white women not the other way around. The hard wig soft life is only of a tiny few and is an echo chamber.
Until white menstart to promote black women along with white and Asian women positively, I don’t think my opinions will change

Your opinion is irrelevant to me, and the last thing I want is to make any effort to change it.
No. You can’t compare yourself to white women. No. You’re not the same.
No. You can’t compare yourself to Asian women. No. You’re not the same.

But you can be beautiful.
You can be acceptable.
You can be desirable.

That, you can be — if you meet international, general standards of beauty.
Whether you meet them or not, judge for yourself.


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There are con men everywhere, regardless of color or race abeg

That Nigerian lady that was scammed by the Danish dude is really an exception.

But you see East African ladies, it’s like a jackpot if they bag a white man. Black women generally do not fancy white men, but you see Kenyan, Burundian and Ugandan women, their love for white men no get part two.

And they are usually the victim of white men dealing with them steady lol.

pansophist:
That Nigerian lady that was scammed by the Danish dude is really an exception.

But you see East African ladies, it’s like a jackpot if they bag a white man. Black women generally do not fancy white men, but you see Kenyan, Burundian and Ugandan women, their love for white men no get part two.

And they are usually the victim of white men dealing with them steady lol.

Yes I have heard of it. and there are sex tourists that go there to mess the girls up. no ring, but baby and maybe diseases. its sad