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Wife kidnapped on her way to boyfriend's house: Should the husband save her?

Mother of 3 told her Husband she was going to Ibadan, travelled to Abuja to see her boyfriend.

Was kidnapped at Abuja, demanded for 50m ransom. lover can not raise it, husband refused to pay? Children are beeging him to pay, please advise him.

Pay fire . Shishi make he no pay

The problem with these kind of women is that the husband will be well-to-do but the quest for big gbola has covered her medulla oblongata to the extent say she no dey think straight again . And the worst part is that the boyfriends are usually broke,but only has their big gbola to offer

For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

Sonnobax15:
when she was embarking on that adventurous trip,did she consider the children? . She even had the effrontery to travel by road . Even if she no dey fear her husband,she no still fear bandits wey dey mount that Abuja road

As for Jennyclay, it's very obvious you're out of touch with positive reasoning .

you only attack my first paragraph but turn blindly to the second paragraph

You men are all guilty of my second paragraph. If your wife treats you well or not you men would still cheat on her

The husband should pay biko

His wife is his responsibility! And yes, he has to do everything within his power (even lay down his life), to save her. That's the "for worse" part of the vow!

God works in MYSTERIOUS ways.



Also, husband needs to perform DNA tests on ALL 3 of the children. 'Cause only BARSTHARDS would expect a man to COUGH out #50M for the release of a MARITAL TERRORIST.



Let him put that #50M in Treasury Bills and use the interest to FLEX!

cock and bull stories

Call her family and tell them the situation. I’ll also suggest they split it amongst themselves and their extended families. I’ll provide N2 million for the sake of humanity 😞

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

If to say u dey close to me, the back of my hand ✋ for do something

I hope the Kidnap saga is not a well organized script being played by the Boyfriend and the Girlfriend in order to get 50M bucks from the pocket of the husband?

GOFRONT:
I hope the Kidnap saga is not a well organized script being played by the Boyfriend and the Girlfriend in order to get 50M bucks from the pocket of the husband?

Be like na only you get sense waka come!
Already, one of the wife accomplices above is even gaslighting the innocent husband to pay up!

But if it was the husband, you'd have said the same thing.

correctyourself:
If to say u dey close to me, the back of my hand ✋ for do something

Samantha125:
But if it was the husband, you'd have said the same thing.

If it's the other way, the woman won't pay, rather, she would be planing how to inherit the properties of the man .

Is that what your mothers normally do when your fathers get abducted?

Because it's like you're speaking from experience.

correctyourself:
If it's the other way, the woman won't pay, rather, she would be planing how to inherit the properties of the man .

If I pay dat ransom make I die!

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

You can't say that because you don't know, people tend to take what they have for granted just because they have it and there is no thrill there any longer. Stability and security means so little to people these days. They seek fleeting thrills just for excitement. For me I would leave the man to Guage the value of his marriage and his partner. The children will survive and do well because if the mother had died a natural death or something, they would still go about their lives.

LordIsaac:
His wife is his responsibility! And yes, he has to do everything within his power (even lay down his life), to save her. That's the "for worse" part of the vow!

In as much as I believe in marriage and the forever part, the moment the woman is proven unfaithful or the man unfaithful, I believe the vows are no longer valid and the marriage has ended. What if the man lays down his life like you suggested and the woman now brings in the other man to reap where he has not sown and raise the kids of the fool would died for nothing.

NA LIE

The husband should do everything to help rescue his wife

Twitter story tellers seeking engagements, na Ogun go kee nna

Bahamas95:
If I pay dat ransom make I die!

So you want to abandon the mother of your kids just like that

I laugh in chapters and verses... Pim, I wouldn't say. The boyfriend is capable

correctyourself:
If to say u dey close to me, the back of my hand ✋ for do something

We don't tolerate physical violence here!

If the man can easily afford it, let him pay for her release just for the sake humanity then let her parents pick her up from them

I did use that money to give her a befitting burial instead

I don't comment on a cooked up stories like dis

What if it's the bf that planned it ?

Well, she's still under the husband's law/ custody. Save her sir, nd then divorce her.

Moonlight tales! The children should beg both their mother's boyfriend and their apparent or official father.

Let her boyfriend pay for her. Her matter don cast husband has been finally set free, why pay for ranson for another man's kids, clearly the children are not his own.