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jiggyman:
Lol 😆 🤣 😂 I literally put her response in my comment yet you ask yeye questions.

People like you dont pay attention when dating, anyways long story short I married someone else and she has refused to talk to me. Maybe im not the type of married men she loves talking to over the phone.

I miss her though, she know how to play with my nipples hahahaha.

SpencerForbes:
First of all, no video? Then she even has a child for the fiancé?

But the main issue here is the timeframe. 10 years? Haba. Aunty, are you 'Lord of the Rings'? That is too long na.

I am curious about what actually caused the breakup. Until I hear the man's side of the story, I’m keeping my judgment pending. There are always three sides to a story.

plaetton:
➜ Lol. How do you know that she's going to be fine ? How did you come to the conclusion that this step is a right step?
If she is suffering from clinical depression, then she obviously needs medical and counseling help. I don't see how encouraging her to end her marriage is going to make her life any better going forward. Even well adjusted women suffer mentally after a marriage breakup, talkless of someone who is already on tje edge.
➜ Your kneejerk reaction is a classic. People like you , and there are legions of your type, destroy the lives of fellow women because you tend to project your own life or relationship traumas into the lives of other women by always encouraging them to blame men for every negative circumstance in their lives.
➜ An honest response would have been to advise her to seek counseling and medical help to sort out her own personal demons first.
Until she does that, I don't see anything getting better for her.

Diamond098454:
10 years of what? Why will you even love a man that is not your husband Talk of being in a relationship with only this guy for good ten years? He has found a classy girl for himself. Sorry sis

femi4:
Na them
Women criticising women

Diamond098454:
so, I should encourage my gender to stay in a useless relationship for 10 good years with nothing to show for it? The so called man is not even taking care of her look at her skin? In fact that relationship ended years ago but she refused to see it because of love or should I call it stupid love

Jennyclay:
This is why you should have a plan B, C and D if possible

Don't put all your hope in one basket

Even if I'm in a serious relationship i’m still very much open to any incoming relationship till I'm married.

I have trust issues, I don’t trust Nigerian men

Diamond098454:
hmmmm men will always be men. I'm not surprised .
Is this why you said I asked yeye question? Ndi NIPPLE

jiggyman:
Haha! If u have a bf or husband, play with those nipples wellllllllll. Its a default mumu button. To answer your question, because these are people I see and know where we lived.
Secondly, she went on holiday with one, lied to me until I showed her proof.
Lol, she started crying. Like i said, I miss her bedmatics ability noin else.

Diamond098454:
she must be really good in bed good for both of you.

jiggyman:
Im married to someone else now

Diamond098454:
hmmmm married men and there wahala. I pity the lady you hold for work because you will never let her bee except she's out of town

jiggyman:
You missed the whole context! The lady i was talking about was my ex gf bfr I got married oh.

I was only making a reference of the reason I decided not to continue dating or getting married to her.