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AgentNnamdi:
➜I will agree that less than 20% are breadwinners. Forget this story. They can cater for their children and relatives [I agree too]. This is not the question the OP asked.

I didn't say less than 20% but rather 50%. I already answered the OP's question. Read my other comment.

pansophist:
Contrary to belief, women can actually do that. Infact lots of women do it.

But usually before a woman does that, the man should have been a provider and treated her well, before loosing his financial buoyancy.

You can’t reap where you did not sow. Only a man that has been good to a woman will deserve her kindness.

But men do it to women that have never been and will never be nice to them. Why some women must wait until the man has been nice to them before?

Diamond098454:
Multiple ladies are doing it, and many have done it. Hence a woman love you and you respect her hmmm she will do more.

I haven't done it before .... Maybe , because i have not come across such men.

Women don't love men, dear.

Helpout12345:
Why some women must wait until the man has been nice to them before?

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Because it is the natural order of things.

Forget relationship, even in friendship. Will you help a friend that didn't helped you when you were in need?

The human mind always run a mental diagnostics when it is task with the responsibility of going far for someone. If your sibling or a friend ask you for a help, you will first access if it is genuine in nature and if the person will do same for you.

And as man who is a provided by default, you must have shown that you provided for her, then she can be sure she is not helping the wrong person.

pansophist:
Contrary to belief, women can actually do that. Infact lots of women do it.

But usually before a woman does that, the man should have been a provider and treated her well, before loosing his financial buoyancy.

You can’t reap where you did not sow. Only a man that has been good to a woman will deserve her kindness.

Thank you.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Thank you.

Hey you!

Most times, she’ll become disgusted with him, irritated by him, and hypergamy will set in, and it’s like above 80% of the time.

Hypnotise:
Most times, she’ll become disgusted with him, irritated by him, and hypergamy will set in, and it’s like above 80% of the time.

Men, who are equally hypergamous in nature since they too target nas date women they cannot measure up to,b should also learn to date down so they do not end up with women disgusted by them for not measuring up.

APOPTOSIS:
That means you want your name and pictures to be on all the social media platforms.
Better respect yourself

Lolz ...av seen a woman that did more than that sef!

Kobojunkie:
Despite a lack of training, many (almost 50% of married women)
women in Nigeria are breadwinners in their non-polygamous marriages. Given that they there training has them believing their life isn't worth much without a man in their lives, many hold fast that Mrs. badge like their lives depend on it, resorting to carrying on the additional burden of being the breadwinner in the marriage for this reason. (If we check polygamous marriages, we may find that many of the wives in such cases also find they have to carry significant weight on their own, too.)

Isn’t this an exaggeration?

pansophist:
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Because it is the natural order of things.

Forget relationship, even in friendship. Will you help a friend that didn't helped you when you were in need?

The human mind always run a mental diagnostics when it is task with the responsibility of going far for someone. If your sibling or a friend ask you for a help, you will first access if it is genuine in nature and if the person will do same for you.

And as man who is a provided by default, you must have shown that you provided for her, then she can be sure she is not helping the wrong person.

But same woman will also help her siblings even before they helped her.

Women are in business when in sexual relationship with men. It's in their DNA.

Sirchiboy:
Can a woman feed a man clothe him and give him pocket money for a year and still respect him as the head of the family?

Yes but she shouldn't even though she can.

I know say wen Naija women see man wit gbola wey dem dey enjoy well well, na wen dem go di do dis kain rubbish.

Nothing good will come out of it except "after all I have done for you".