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Kingogbotor:
I begin to wonder what relationships are turning into. She started dating him right from her school days till NYSC.He is financially bouyant, takes care of the bill..Now she is saying he is not emotionally available....

So all the 3years she has been dating him..all the sex, outings etc ..what happened to the emotions

Women eh.....

Goodlady:
What's women eh?
When we aren't connected emotionally nko?

Kingogbotor:
➜I begin to wonder what relationships are turning into. She started dating him right from her school days till NYSC.
➜ He is financially bouyant, takes care of the bill..Now she is saying he is not emotionally available.... So all the 3 years she has been dating him..all the sex, outings etc ..what happened to the emotions Women eh.....

Kingogbotor:
➜How do you have sex with someone you are not emotionally attached to? That's a prostitute behaviour .......

Goodlady:
What's women eh?
When we aren't connected emotionally nko?

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is she not allowed to leave the man if she realizes he is not emotionally invested in the relationship with her? She probably got tired of meaning just sex to him and decided to leave him. Why are you having a problem understanding that?

2. Well, he could use that money to buy himself a pr0stitute if he is not interested in being emotionally invested in a relationship with any woman. A woman has a right to require that the man she is with see her as more than just a sex mining tool.

nnamdi640:
... I still continue to say it, Nigeria ladies are one of the most s£lfish set of b£ings on this £arth.

Kingogbotor:
How do you have sex with someone you are not emotionally attached to?


That's a prostitute behaviour .......

reddingtonblack:
➜You and goodlady are very wrong, Men are women are not meant to share the same "emotional" radiation ... it is women that are emotional not men in most cases
➜However the connection we must share is "sexual Attraction'" i think thats what goodlady is confuse about ... not emotional sync
➜emotional is just how you react to things, in and outside love,
➜its not a must we react to things the same way, as a lady you luv to scream n cry while as a man i luv to sigh n proffer solution ... lets respect that

Kobojunkie:
1. This is a lie! 🥱🥱

2. Wrong! When your relationship is comprised only of sexual attraction and none of emotional connection, you might as well go hook up with Pr0stitutes only. You will save yourself and the other person you are in a relationship with a whole lot of time that way. If you cannot connect with other human beings — your friends, your girl friend or even wife—on an emotional level, you are bound to cause them heartache, and literally waste their time and your time.

3. Channeling all ranges of emotions into anger, frustration and agression does not make you less emotional as a human being. It instead indicates that you are emotionally weak when it comes to identifying, understanding and regulating your emotions, a clear sign of low emotional and hence social intelligence.

4. You mean punching walls, kicking and beating people up, throwing an anger tantrum when things don't go your way, raging in anger, beating or even killing women for even mere things as cheating or dissing you, etc., are ways in which men proffer solutions? You must be seriously high on bullsheet to think those are ways of offering solutions! 🥱🥱🥱

Brighton1:
hello
I jst wanted to tell u I’m single

Kingogbotor:
How do you have sex with someone you are not emotionally attached to?


That's a prostitute behaviour .......

reddingtonblack:
➜That you feel its a lie does change the core nature of both male n female ... the way we react to things defines "Emotion" ..
➜ why must our Emotion be the same because we are boyfriend n gurlfriend, when you are cryin i am cryin when you are blowin hot i am also blowin hot .. is that kind of r/ship even healthy, blind can't lead the blind
➜ Emotional connection is just a " fantasy" ... what is sacrosanct is "sexual attraction" mind you "sexual " is not only limited to sex, infact it covers sapiosexual and likeness
➜ when it comes to Male and females, " emotions" can never match .. we react differently if you like speak oxford n harvard grammar . men and women are not the same .. stop creatin unnecessary arguement
➜ Go nd watch " Herd" on netflix then you will see what you wrote no. 4 is just you being unreasonable i wont even expect that low from .... a girl

Goodlady:
How much do you make per year?

Kobojunkie:
Wrong again! Emotions are not actions. Rather, they are the signals in your head that tell you the state of your emotional/bodily/hormonal state at any given time. Your reactions to those signals are instead an indicator of your particular emotional and social intelligence and is based on a lot of things, including how much you are in touch with who you really are and your self-worth.

2. Wrong again! No two humans are emotionally synced at any given point for them to express the same emotions. Also, dating someone does not mean that you will be happy whenever the other person is happy, too. No one can sufficiently read another's emotions unless that person displays(action is required) their emotions for others to see.

Also, when two people are crying— crying is not an emotion, by the way, but a response to an emotion — one of them can still reach out to try to console the other. If you watch children closely, you will have observed this phenomenon at some point. Crying does not make one weak; it just means one is more expressive of one's emotions.

3. What you regard as a fantasy is the connection that exists between friends, mothers and their children, and even fathers and their children. brothers, sisters, etc. (No sexual connections exist in any of the relationships defined.) For you to say that kind of connection is an illusion to you is kind of you, an admission that all those sorts of connections are missing in your life, which is sort of traumatic if you consider that it is essential for helping us build our foundation as far as connecting to others as social creatures that we are.

4. The more I read your submissions, the more I am convinced that you would be better off hanging with Pr0stitutes than dating anyone's precious child—male or female. If all you desire is sex, then engaging only Pr0stitutes will serve you best.

5. If you, as a human being, think that Herd explains away the emotional connection that sits at the foundation of people in every society, then I am absolutely right in recommending that you stick to pr0Stitutes for all of the sexual connection you desire. Leave dating to those who undertand the importance of emotional connections to other human being.

Brighton1:
I no really dey make much but I get big prick. My gbola is my weapon That is how I win my battle

tommy589:
"You are not caring" coming from the ones you marry put for house o. Wahala If you don't remember to ask of their wellbeing after the slight headache they complained in the morning.

Goodlady:
So you're calling me a prostitute but you that's a man that's having premarital sex is what?

Kingogbotor:
➜Am not married ..so am allowed to use my ding dong the way that pleases me..and of course use protection .....

Kingogbotor:
Am not married ..so am allowed to use my ding dong the way that pleases me..and of course use protection .....

Brighton1:
I no really dey make much but I get big prick.
My gbola is my weapon
That is how I win my battle

Brighton1:
hello
I jst wanted to tell u I’m single

Kingogbotor:
How do you have sex with someone you are not emotionally attached to?


That's a prostitute behaviour .......

Hypnotise:
She didn’t invest emotionally in him throughout the instead reverse is the case. He’s no longer emotionally available, so now she needs space to be with the other man.

Diamond098454:
hmmmmmmmmm