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My wedding is January but I haven't had erection for seven months now: man seeks help

1.
How old are you?

2.
Is she aware of the challenge?

Whichever, see a doctor. God knows why He created sex. Sex is essential in marriage. Even if you can't impregnate a woman, be able to penetrate and thrust...

Finding a happy marriage without a shaky bed is possible but very rare.

Happy Birthday to him.

xx

Chilipepper:
My wedding is February but I haven't had erection for seven months now: man seeks help

February and January, which one do we take?
Anyway you should seek medical solutions not a social media solution. Things like this should be personal and could only be disclosed to a close confident Who would genuinely help.
Go to a clinic or go herbal if you so trust

Sex is among the healthiest functions of marriage, It’s better for the man not to go into the marriage

It would be very wicked of him to starve his wife sex

If a man can’t satisfy me with money, sex and true love my eyes will definitely be outside, I’m not a church girl Biko.

Even a church girl is also human

"...I haven't touched her before and she's a believer..."



There are going to be two very DISAPPOINTED people in that marriage come January.

One is IMPOTENT and the other is a "believer", aka taking it back to back from her friendly neighbour while maintaining an ILLUSION of sexual purity for the responsible Church Bro looking to wife a believer.

Oga this case strong ooooooo. But there are some questions I would like to ask you.
1. How frequently do you masturbate?
2. Have you tried having sex with a female and you didn't get an erection?
3. Have you gone to meet a specialist?
4. Do you have any underlining health issue? For me eeh, whenever I dey get malaria or fever, my holy preeq no dey stand. Na make I as if you get health issue.
5. Any case of untreated infection?
But whatever the case may be, go and meet a specialist. Forget whatever social media go tell you, na doctor sure pass. Don't tell your partner yet oOoOO because most women no dey fit hold secret.
Now let's come back to the part wey you say you never touch her before. Why most of una dey make this mistake sef? Dear men, if she's not a virgin, no fall for their trap of "no sex before marriage", else na borehole you go inherit. Why must it be your turn na she go start to get discipline of closing her loosed legs? Why not the turn of Ibrahim or Yemi or Emeka? Anyways, this na a topic for another day, for now make we face your problem. Bros, visit a hospital and know what's wrong


What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Mr Blogger is here, observing The Thread

So many problems in this shiithole

Dead among the living or walking dead.

Cooked up stories as usual

Take Viagra first,let us check something

Either u call off the wedding or she will employ my service...

Either way

A marriage found on Deceit can never stand.

Oh chim Oh chim Oh chim Oh chim if John Thomas is not working wahala dey oo

immortalcrown:
1.
How old are you?

2.
Is she aware of the challenge?

Whichever, see a doctor.

He meant when he tries to touch her

Pray well o,
It has happened to me before, though after wedding.
A distant relative gave me tea and bread to take on the night of my wedding and it became soft immediately
I bought medication but it didn't work

I pray seriously for 3 weeks before Jesus Christ restored it

The solution is simple

Exercise every day , eat a lot of fruits and veggies and healthy foods, get a hobby like drawing, writing, etc, spend time talking to people and to your new future wife and stop worrying too much about how you will have sex.

And stop indulging in onanism

Lol.

Anxiety or performance level dropped

If you have such serious problem, you shouldn't have gotten involved in a serious relationship or marriage-bound relationship without letting your partner know.

As it stands, you must 1st cancel the wedding. Then anytime from February, you let her know why you cancelled it.
If she is still interested, you can reschedule the wedding.

It’s money issue. Don’t over think about the wedding expenses, it will come and go. Focus on your new life and wife

I first saw this on Facebook few hours ago and I'm like "omo !". Because some men, even when they're alright medically still have an axe to grind with low self esteem when around women, how much more this..

Mr man (even though you're not here or seeing this), just abort mission first and take serious care of the issue in between your thighs. Or else ehn, she will make you start feeling she did you a favour for accepting to marry or continuing the marriage with you, cheating, disrespect, paternity fraud, etc, are almost inevitable in a situation like this...

Mabuggi88:
February and January, which one do we take?
Anyway you should seek medical solutions not a social media solution. Things like this should be personal and could only be disclosed to a close confident Who would genuinely help.
Go to a clinic or go herbal if you so trust

Why are you guys always underating online and especially nairaland. They're millions people on nairaland and you think no one here can profer solution to his problem?
If I am not mistaking, they're thousands of doctors here and non doctors who might know, or have experience his kind of case before and might be able to tell him how they cure theirs.

That is why it’s good for would-be couples to have sampled themselves severally before wedding.

Imagine this one now! Why didn’t you treat yourself before proposing for marriage? 7 month is long a period now!

Anyway, if possible, talk to a trusted family member may be the wedding can be delayed. Seek both orthodox or traditional care and be sure you are fully fit before the wedding.

You've got to see a doctor my guy. You can't be planning a wedding while your manhood is planning an obituary.

Remember, marriage occurs only after consummation. I'm not asking you to go into fornication to confirm, but you need intervention sir.

Erection only after wedding. Erection before wedding is sin.

Do not get married to her without telling her first. That would be deception.

Jennyclay:
Sex is among is healthiest functions of marriage, It’s better for the man not to go into the marriage

It would be very wicked of him to starve his wife sex

If a man can’t satisfy me with money, sex and true love my eyes will definitely be outside, I’m not a church girl Biko.

Even a church girl is also human

. So the Almighty Jennyclay loves preeek like this . Wow

That's the universe telling you to abort mission.