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so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me help what do i do ?

Isn't that like her asking you if you have been plowed by men before, with you of course on the bottom and the other on top?

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

You shouldn't expect a woman you just met to ditch all her friends because of you.

This is what you should know instead of asking her this disrespectful question.

You have to prove that you are trustworthy and reliable,

There's no girl that has not done hook up, know this and have peace

Revealer3:
➜You shouldn't expect a woman you just met to ditch all her friends because of you. This is what you should know instead of asking her this disrespectful question.
➜ You have to prove that you are trustworthy and reliable, There's no girl that has not done hook up, know this and have peace

1. If your intention is for her to ditch her friends later on, you shouldn't even be dating her.

2. If you're proving that you are trustworthy and reliable so that she can dumb the support she already had for you, then you should not even be considering her as a potential partner or dating her.

Again, you need to find and date only those who meet all you need in a lover— as-is.

She’s upset because you assumed she was retired.

OP don't mind the gaslighting ooooooo, na their way be that. Wetin she dey do you na we dey call "reverse psychology", she wan make you apologize and never ask such question again. You no ask a wrong question, na something na warrant the question. The only way she could have proven her innocence is if she were to be a virgin. But since she's a leftover, you have every right to ask, though she won't ever tell you the truth. Let me ask you a question.... All these numerous runs girls wey you know, do you think their boyfriends know say dem dey into runs? Do you also think that they would tell their new boyfriend that they were once into runs? Even to tell you body count, dem must lie about am, talkless of say dem go accept to be runs babe at a time.
The reason most of una dey get hurt for relationship na because una too put mind there. Treat your babe like she's rented and thank me later. Or better still, use the swimming pool law which says "don't bother who's swimming with you, who swam before you or who will swim after you". If you get this mentality, you go get more peace of mind with your non-virgin girlfriend. OP I will advise you go and apologize, so you can continue drilling because alot of "hungry drillers" dey the queue dey wait for drilling with their tools

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

na normal gaslightin tactics from them.

If she has not done it before she won't be getting angry

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

Why won't she angry when you asked such hostile and embarrassing question directly?

If you want to know about your woman past, start behaving as if you are less concerned "how dirty a woman can be in the past". You too, can also bring out your own dirty past,(you may even fabricate your own dirty past)

Woman often free to share past if they have assurance, you won't use it against them.

Host78:
na normal gaslightin tactics from them.

If she has not done it before she won't be getting angry

If someone ask you, if you have robbed in the past won't you angry? Or you want to tell me, you are type which everyone can throw every insult on and still not angry.

Fiscus105:
If someone ask you, if you have robbed in the past won't you angry? Or you want to tell me, you are type which everyone can throw every insult on and still not angry.

no.

I won't get angry instead I'll want to know why or what prompt them to ask the question in the first place

And then make Changes.

It's not accusations for your loved one to ask you questions. What's important is why they are asking such questions.

Something prompted them. And it's good to know such because others might be thinking the same thing.

Again two people starting a relationship require trust. Trust is earned not given.

The man has done nothing wrong. If my woman is receiving calls from numerous guys I'll ask questions.

If one guy keeps calling her, I'll ask questions. If a lot of guys are hailing her on the street I'll ask questions.

If e reach your turn, no ask.

She is a suspect

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

There are some unwritten questions you can never ask a woman as a man.

- How old are you?
- Are you a virgin?
- Paternity status of her child

In your case: have you ever done hook-up before? To you, it's a yes/no answer right? But to her, it means you don't trust her enough. She's going to gaslight you for having trust issues. Even if she's guilty or not.

Henceforth, just make her feel safe around you and she'd subconsciouslly let out some of her traits.

She's upset because you hit the nail on the head, she's done it before. Don't ever make the mistake of apologizing to her.

Fiscus105:
If someone ask you, if you have robbed in the past won't you angry? Or you want to tell me, you are type which everyone can throw every insult on and still not angry.

Na lie! If someone ask you that question and you haven't done it before it would sound funny to you. You don't even have to say anything, your reaction alone would convince the person.

Revealer3:
You shouldn't expect a woman you just met to ditch all her friends because of you.

This is what you should know instead of asking her this disrespectful question.

You have to prove that you are trustworthy and reliable,

There's no girl that has not done hook up, know this and have peace

I can never tolerate this type of false justification from any woman I intend to be serious with, even if I'm meeting her for the first one minute.

What do you mean?
It's insensitive and a clear sign of indiscipline and disrespect to the young man.

Even if you want to trim off your hookup clients, while "studying" the seriousness of the new guy; she should be intelligent enough, not to do that in the guy's presence.


Shaa, na guys wey dey stomach such wey I blame

Lol
Where you suspecting her?

And you expect her not to be offended?

If I where her, I will dump your ass immediately and you will automatically become an EX

As her customer... Why are you asking?

EmptyGarden:
She’s upset because you assumed she was retired.

So what stops her from telling the love of her life that she's retired

As guy man you no suppose ask her like that. Just play along and one day try access her phone. You go see everything you neee to know!

You sha got your answer from her reaction

Now make your Decision now you know what she is

Diamond098454:
If I where her, I will dump your ass immediately and you will automatically become an EX

Like say women no dey do hookup.


Olosho na old profession even bros j get one wey dey tama hug am that yetude.

Why are u girl not proud of your profession

Luckystarsssz:
Like say women no dey do hookup.


Olosho na old profession even bros j get one wey dey tama hug am that yetude.

Why are u girl not proud of your profession

you guys think all women are the same . That you mingle with hook up girls or ladies doesn't mean all women do that nonsense
I don't even have a bf because any guy that comes close to me become very obsessed

Not all girls are doing hook up remember only hook up guys can meet hook up girls.

Kobojunkie:
Isn't that like her asking you if you have been plowed by men before, with you of course on the bottom and the other on top?

He will answer no that's how men are, ask the question they will answer you but your gender will see it as a big deal to answer simple question. Have you involved in paid sex before yes or no is it a big deal?

Men like you are the reason why women will raise another mans baby with you .

Effeminate boy don cook another story.🥱

Diamond098454:
you guys think all women are the same . That you mingle with hook up girls or ladies doesn't mean all women do that nonsense
I don't even have a bf because any guy that comes close to me become very obsessed

Not all girls are doing hook up remember only hook up guys can meet hook up girls.

E clear like clearance Peter.

Men choose the mothers for their children. If you know what that means, you know what to do. Never reduce your standards if you have one. You'll get who you deserve.

Diamond098454:
you guys think all women are the same . That you mingle with hook up girls or ladies doesn't mean all women do that nonsense
I don't even have a bf because any guy that comes close to me become very obsessed

Not all girls are doing hook up remember only hook up guys can meet hook up girls.

Please explain this I'm trying to rap my head just can't.

Break it down like you're talking to a 10 yrs old abeg
any guy that comes close to me become very obsessed

Luckystarsssz:
Please explain this I'm trying to rap my head just can't.

Break it down like you're talking to a 10 yrs old abeg
any guy that comes close to me become very obsessed

over jealous, over protected, I don't know what to call it but definitely it's not love

Diamond098454:
over jealous, over protected, I don't know what to call it but definitely it's not love

That one dey normal for guys wey dey chase woman forgetting say the harder you chase the faster the run away from you (woman be like chicken)

Mine is after we do the do they start doing like say na marry me I marry them


Anty na fcuuk we fcuuk ooo no be marriage.

That's why I don commot hand for anything woman near me.

Interstate and my W must never know it happened

kpankpangolo:
Effeminate boy don cook another story.🥱

Meobizy, you sef rest nau. Nah your footsteps dem dey follow for the "cooking" game.🥱