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| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by ufotunang: 7:53am On Dec 04, 2025 |
ibechris:.but government workers are well paid..with the increase in the minimum wage |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 8:29am On Dec 04, 2025 |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Courz: 8:38am On Dec 04, 2025 |
BrosG007:Wow. You are not alone o. You went and joined the worst So called Christian denomination. Lol. What caught my attention in your comment is when you said You don't feel you belong there. Take that feeling seriously because so many of them there are like you who also feel that they don't belong there but they can't leave. I was once a JW. I left that Cult years ago. You feeling you don't belong there is actually the Holy Spirit signaling to you that You are in the wrong place, with the wrong people. You are not supposed to be there. Jehovah's witness is a Cult masquerading as a Christian religion. Let me guess why you got attracted to that Cult. You saw their outward appearance and felt that they are Christ like or live like true Christians. The false image they crafted to you, You fell for it. After you joined, you started to see their true colors. That is not a new thing. There are many like you who noticed the same and you will find their experiences on EXJW Reddit Forum. You can visit that forum to see people like you who are still trapped in that Cult because of Family. I was born into that Cult and I never felt I belonged there as well. How they do their things, their culture, their doctrines never sat right with me. Jehovah's witnesses are very strange people because the religion is a Cult. It took me years to understand that the Holy Spirit has been warning me since my Teens that I was born in the wrong religion. Take your feelings seriously. Don't ignore it. Listen to the Holy Spirit and act now. It is not too late to leave that Cult. Once you leave, calm down and slowly decide the church to attend. A Bible believing Church. A Christian denomination. Not a Cult. Don't rush it. Are you still attending their meetings? Are you baptized? It would have been easier for you if you weren't baptized. That way, you can leave. Do you have family in this Cult? |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Demetrix: 9:23am On Dec 04, 2025 |
millionboi:don't be ignorant Because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for someone else. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Luckyymann: 9:26am On Dec 04, 2025*. Modified: 10:34pm On May 07 |
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| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by ibechris(m): 9:40am On Dec 04, 2025 |
ufotunang:Is that what u were told? Then they lied to u. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 11:13am On Dec 04, 2025 |
Arda1000:$ I swear 😌 $ |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by BrosG007: 11:14am On Dec 04, 2025 |
Thanks for your response. Truly appreciated. I just recently came across other former Jehovah's witnesses on quora. Terrible experiences. Just imagine, most of their doctrines are from 4 white individuals from New York - The so called Government Body. I wasn't baptized. I was into the step to baptism....I got ill, then my life flashes in front of me....I noticed how I could have missed a lot not living life....not doing way I needed to do.... enough impact. I was in chapter 24 of Enjoy Life, lol. I thank God for the experience. I learned a lot for strange secrets that I can't mention here. That religion is one hell of a mental trap...not to talk of their weird arrangement marriages....most of their couples don't look happy together. I know of one that fights secretly with each other but laugh publicly. The wives seems to be in control of the husbands. Women are not meet to do any work of preaching. Bebtel is like paradise for them.... conventions is like Christmas Courz: |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by millionboi(m): 11:32am On Dec 04, 2025 |
Demetrix:datz your business, introduce it to all your village ppl/family thats totally your business.... tufiakwa 4u |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Mistersolar: 11:40am On Dec 04, 2025 |
shagamite:bros heen...i don lean and food full house,i no dey chop again...b4 i start, how old is d kid and baby fathers status wit her..then how long u guyz been dating together |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by virginboy1(m): 11:52am On Dec 04, 2025 |
Worst Decision... Staking high on Mancity last season and having anything to do with sport bet ![]() Best Decision: registering for a gym... Health is now robust as ever |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 11:53am On Dec 04, 2025 |
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| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 11:54am On Dec 04, 2025 |
virginboy1:Skipping 1000 daily and press up, thank me later the money you use to register for gym put into NGX and thank me later. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by virginboy1(m): 12:02pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
IyaTola:Whats NGX? Registering for gym is one of he best decision i made this year...moreover na hungry man dey complain and regret say him register for gym... |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by shagamite: 12:06pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Mistersolar:We no live together, b bbyddy and her no live together, but call to speak to the kid and does the father duty. Kid na less than 5. Dated 4 months and it’s ended now |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by ufotunang: 12:10pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
ibechris:.. what about the 70k minimum wage increase that starts from level 1 workers and other levels have their own salary increments |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by virginboy1(m): 12:13pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
IyaTola:Please share the link to the thread.. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Mistersolar: 2:31pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
shagamite:why did it end...disrespect |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by oskisammy: 3:27pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
1phone:Congratulations |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 3:30pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
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| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 3:31pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
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| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Love800(m): 3:31pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
So dat amazon book publishing na scam! Demetrix: |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Demetrix: 3:47pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Love800:not a scam, policies too much |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by GmoreG: 3:51pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Not having another stream of income till my company with a strong job security got a sudden closure wch left me without any job presently..... 😭 I used all d money I had to erect my building n roofed it ...... After 3 months, d company stopped operations and I was left without enough kudi to start something lucrative Nevertheless, life goes on ...... Using my long abandoned skill to provide service to people now.... that's what is feeding me 😎 |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Kingdavid579(m): 4:33pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Dalohad:marriage na project? I never reach to marry o. If I wan marry na my spare money I go use, not my savings |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Courz: 5:40pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
BrosG007:Very good. Your eyes are really open. At least, at the stage you are in right now, yet to be baptized, your eyes are still open and their brainwashing has not gone deep into your Mind, body and Soul. Now that you are yet to be baptized, this is the right time to make an informed decision to leave that Cult and even do thorough research on it because once you get baptized, it is over for you. You won't be allowed to do any research. It is a Sin to disagree with the Cult and Leave. Once you say you want to leave, all the so called friends you made there will now see you as their enemy worse than Satan. Many people have no idea what they are getting into once they agree for JWs to come preach to them. Once you accept them into your Home, you have accepted to be brainwashed because their Bible Study is a Brainwashing session. I am glad you have seen things for yourself before getting too deep into that Cult. You have the freedom to do research on this religion now. Once you are baptized, that is forbidden. You can now testify to see the hypocrisy in that Cult. Your observations about their marriages is a fact. Their marriages are an eye sore. They don't like themselves. You will rarely see a couple that truly love each other there because they don't date. They believe as long as one is attending their Kingdom hall, the person is baptized, therefore that person will make a good husband or wife. They just meet and marry sharp sharp. Yet, their marriages are filled with serious problems. Their Men are promiscuous and domestically violent. Their Men are also lazy which is why it is common now for them to target JW ladies from Rich homes. Typical Gold diggers. That's why you felt as if their wives are controlling. But the truth is their Men are also the same. During my time there, I saw more of controlling JW Men than women. As for their Leaders in New York, I think they are now up to 10 Governing body members, all of which are White Men with only one black man. Those Men are confused people with their changing Doctrines that show they never get things right. Did your JW teachers give you their Bible? Don't collect it. Their Bible is tainted and twisted with changes of words to suit their doctrines. You must have heard about this. You can go through the thread below that I created to mention all the Bible verses they manipulated. https://www.nairaland.com/8088472/manipulation-bible-verses-jehovahs-witness Their doctrines, are you comfortable with them? Especially their No Blood transfusion, their doctrine of Jesus being Angel Michael, Jesus not being the Mediator, and numerous other disturbing doctrines. It is important that you pay attention to their doctrines and investigate them with your Bible. Not with their Bible. Investigate how they formed their Doctrines. If you know how they form their doctrines, you will stay far away from that religion. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Love800(m): 6:15pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Why quitting your government job. Am curious. Don't you want to receive pension! ibechris: |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Love800(m): 6:22pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
What do you mean by you have up on this stuff pls? blingxx: |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by ibechris(m): 7:10pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Love800:My brother,I can create the said pension for myself. My reason is that,i cant be rich while working for govt except through cutting corners. That is my position. |
| Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Love800(m): 5:42am On Dec 05, 2025 |
Okay. My last question. Sorry for disturbing. I understand your take on not being rich with government job except cutting corners. Okay. But i thought government pension is the best and its steady? ibechris: |
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