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They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

Na lie, she no dy torment your brother, na your brother dy torment himself cus of the love of baddie.

If your brother dy responsible, as him see baddie with leg chain, him no supposed take such person serious cus such person belongs to the street.

Lol
Men will never learn. Marrying a Nigerian lady and moving her to the UK to destroy you further.

Bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant.

He's gonna luurnnn the hard way

If you want to live a peaceful life, marry many women or marry none.

As a matter of Public Safety, kindly identify your brother.

NOBODY should be treated by a REEET-HERDED Doctor like him.

First, he made the HORRIBLE mistake of wifing up a leg-chain-wearing demon in human form.

Having anything to do with a woman who wears leg chains is like dining with a man who has HORNS—you'd deserve everything you get.

Leg chains on a woman is like being WRAPPED in a RED FLAG that doubles as a SCREECHING ALARM.

Your brother IGNORED such an obvious red flag.

Then the MUGU borrowed money to SPONSOR a visa with a LEG-CHAIN-WEARING woman as the main applicant while attaching himself as a MERE dependent.

Your brother is a THREAT to Public Safety!

MADNESS!

Cooked up stories

I am a man but I smell lies all over this OP post

OP go find something better to do

Namaster:
As matter of Public Safety, kindly identify your brother.

NOBODY should be treated by a REEET-HERDED Doctor like him.

First, he made the HORRIBLE mistake of wifing up a leg-chain-wearing demon in human form.

Having anything to do with a woman who wears leg chains is like dining with a man who has HORNS—you'd deserve everything you get.

Leg chains on a woman is like being WRAPPED in a RED FLAG that doubles as a SCREECHING ALARM.

Your brother IGNORED such an obvious red flag.

Then the MUGU borrowed money to SPONSOR a visa with a LEG-CHAIN-WEARING woman as the main applicant while attaching himself as a MERE dependent.

Your brother is a THREAT to Public Safety!

MADNESS!

I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

MikeofKd:
Nobody knows your character, this is a faceless forum ,you can lie all you want here but defending leg chain is absurd , it is bad and those who wear it are very much dangerous people , hype yourself and call yourself good all you want , e no concern me.

Ok.
Keep attracting your like and keep blaming it on leg chains lol

Toxic relationship, toxic marriage is not good

Your brother can file for divorce

SisterAnn:
I wear a leg chain when I feel up to it and I'm not close to the nonsense you are yapping here. I have a man that adore me so much and I can go to the moon and back for.

You need to see how myopic you sound stigmatizing leg chain.

If you are in the habit of attracting toxic women who also love to wear leg chains, you should check on yourself properly. It's not about a leg chain or any jewelry!

If you a responsible man, you won't always attract razz women.

If you smoke and drink excessively, always broke, no business acumen, yahoo boy with 15m today, broke in the next six months, always ganging and banging, no future ambition, can't keep his eyes off anything in skirt, then you would be attracting your likes.

What do you expect when almost prostitutes wear leg change, almost al female social deviants wear leg change, when you are in the minority you will otherwise unknowingly bear the tag of these ladies. When they say Nigerians are drug dealers or Internet fraudsters by people abroad, they say this because of people who have decided to bring the name of Nigeria in disrepute just like you finding yourself in the league of people who do stuffs that are antihetical to societal development. Until majority of leg chain wearers behave decently this prejudice won't change.

Ladies leg chain is actually sexy to me. With jump trouser and bad flat shoe.. oh lala

It's actually a wrong perception that all ladies that put on leg chains are bad girls

When we tell you guys not to take your nigeria wife abroad, you think we are fools, now that man's life will soon be ruined.
That your good wife here will turn toxic over night without any provocation, abuse you, call the cops on you, humiliate you, and if you have kids, you'll loose them, and you'll loose the house too, you'll be homeless, devastated, dejected, humiliated. Etc
What's your crime? You brought your wife over with you, so you too will enjoy a better life.

Would it be less painful if she tortured him without a leg chain on? 🥴

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.
My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years. The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".
I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.
We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

Your brother should just move out of the house and move to another state or city, let her sort her bills herself

I didn’t read. Another leg chain topic to make front page. Add waist beads and it will make front page twice before the year ends.

It’s a natural law that the weak will always suffer. It doesn’t matter if the weak person does the right thing, is kind, generous and faithful.

Morality is the second layer after survival, and survival requires strength first, then morality. Your strength status should be non-negotiable, then you will be alright when the other party betrays.

Your brother failed on this foundational, natural law, hence he is suffering in the hand of a baddie. He places himself in the weak position, which renders all his good deeds insignificant.

He should not have made himself the dependent. Either she is the dependent or they stay in Nigeria. You can’t be the sponsor and be a dependent, it’s foolishness.

Secondly, his discernment is in the level of a toad. I don’t care how a woman can pretend, I know a bad woman if I see her. Infact no matter how good a woman is, a man should always put himself in the dominant position, since he is expected to lead and provide.

That marriage won’t get better. He should seek an exit route. It is easier to marry a good woman than repair a broken one.

Makaveli217:
When we tell you guys not to take your nigeria wife abroad, you think we are fools, now that man's life will soon be ruined.
That your good wife here will turn toxic over night without any provocation, abuse you, call the cops on you, humiliate you, and if you have kids, you'll loose them, and you'll loose the house too, you'll be homeless, devastated, dejected, humiliated. Etc
What's your crime? You brought your wife over with you, so you too will enjoy a better life.

It’s not about taking your wife abroad o. I live abroad myself, and can tell you that there are more stable marriages than broken one.

Just go to your average Nigerian church and see couples with kids than have existed for decades, and more.

The news of broken marriages goes louder, same way faeces smells from far, but it’s not the majority.

The issue I see is that lots of men didn’t follow the due process of marrying right. Many just wifed up any girl even if they didn’t know her and her family history.

Or are playing against nature like the op’s brother who put himself in a dependency position to a baddie. You can’t play wrongly and expect right result.

Women are less moral than men. Men should always retain and occupy the dominant position, because only the strong can show kindness, fairness and equality.

Harsh statement but I stopped interacting with Nigerian women months ago
There’s no point
Only 1 in 100 from my analysis is good and worth it. Especially after talking to hundreds over the years & watching other people in relationship from a distance, my parents included.
Most are on survival mode & using you, they tend to be more socially intelligent than the average male.
You will be signing up for parasitic relationship
I’m not saying all foreign women are good o, but if you find a help mate that’s worthy things will just flow seamlessly

Your brother is really d.u mb for a Doctor..you no see normal homely girl to marry na baddie with LEGCHAIN Olosho vibes you use your two eyes go marry?you never see anything yet you go cryyyy…carry your cross and enjoy it.

pansophist:
It’s not about taking your wife abroad o. I live abroad myself, and can tell you that there are more stable marriages than broken one.

Just go to your average Nigerian church and see couples with kids than have existed for decades, and more.

The news of broken marriages goes louder, same way faeces smells from far, but it’s not the majority.

The issue I see is that lots of men didn’t follow the due process of marrying right. Many just wifed up any girl even if they didn’t know her and her family history.

Or are playing against nature like the op’s brother who put himself in a dependency position to a baddie. You can’t play wrongly and expect right result.

Women are less moral than men. Men should always retain and occupy the dominant position, because only the strong can show kindness, fairness and equality.

Why I said don't take your wife aboard is that some nigeria women are very shallow and easy to deceive, even if you marry right, after knowing the girl and her family for years, the toxic women over there will corrupt her.

Even in our local churches where couple have lived peacefully for decades, once they relocate aboard, the woman will turn overnight, turn the kids against the man, even if that man have never raised his voice on her, matured man will be reduced to dust.

Sometimes I wonder why our women here in nigeria are very easy to deceive, if you check, nigerian men are not the only one relocating with their wives, men from other countries and even africa relocate on daily basis, but hardly will you hear their women turn toxic and abusive over night, it's always nigeria women. Why?

Mystery2020:
My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant.

The world needs more humans like your brother so that they can relocate 6ft below very fast and leave the earth for the rest of us.

He should keep up the good work and as for you, mind your business and leave that woman to enjoy her CLIENT in peace.

Gotocourt:
Bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant.

He's gonna luurnnn the hard way

The reason why the tale is false. It does not make sense. Did they not date? Did he not notice she insults or can easily insults his family at will?

Makaveli217:
Why I said don't take your wife aboard is that some nigeria women are very shallow and easy to deceive, even if you marry right, after knowing the girl and her family for years, the toxic women over there will corrupt her.

Even in our local churches where couple have lived peacefully for decades, once they relocate aboard, the woman will turn overnight, turn the kids against the man, even if that man have never raised his voice on her, matured man will be reduced to dust.

Sometimes I wonder why our women here in nigeria are very easy to deceive, if you check, nigerian men are not the only one relocating with their wives, men from other countries and even africa relocate on daily basis, but hardly will you hear their women turn toxic and abusive over night, it's always nigeria women. Why?

You don't consume their media content as much as you consume Nigerian content. When was the last time you vigorously consumed Kenyan or Zimbabwean daily media content as you do with Nigerian? Do you understand their slang and languages? So, why do you expect to hear or read tales from other African countries?

When was the last time you even kept up with basic Ghanaian news articles?

Why would he make himself the dependent of actually he was the one who bore all the relocation expenses...I'm not sure your brother told you the whole truth

Makaveli217:
Why I said don't take your wife aboard is that some nigeria women are very shallow and easy to deceive, even if you marry right, after knowing the girl and her family for years, the toxic women over there will corrupt her.

Even in our local churches where couple have lived peacefully for decades, once they relocate aboard, the woman will turn overnight, turn the kids against the man, even if that man have never raised his voice on her, matured man will be reduced to dust.

Sometimes I wonder why our women here in nigeria are very easy to deceive, if you check, nigerian men are not the only one relocating with their wives, men from other countries and even africa relocate on daily basis, but hardly will you hear their women turn toxic and abusive over night, it's always nigeria women. Why?

It's because most Nigerian men are simps by default.
Most of them grew up with the false notion that women are to be treated like princesses, spent well on, given all the comfort that can be afforded, etc.

If you check well & make comparism with men of other nationalities, you will realize that Nigerian men are among the biggest spenders on women & their whims & are also the biggest enablers of slavish attitude towards women; most are ready to bend over backwards for women who don't even love them at all.

Only very few Nigerian men are really emancipated from simping for women.

The end result of this simping behavior by Nigerian men is that Nigerian women generally have become some of the most selfish, feminist, disrespectful, unfaithful (courtesy of statistics revealing the high level of paternity fraud among Nigerian women), toxic, entitled & spoilt brats in the world so far

Makaveli217:
Why I said don't take your wife aboard is that some nigeria women are very shallow and easy to deceive, even if you marry right, after knowing the girl and her family for years, the toxic women over there will corrupt her.

Even in our local churches where couple have lived peacefully for decades, once they relocate aboard, the woman will turn overnight, turn the kids against the man, even if that man have never raised his voice on her, matured man will be reduced to dust.

Sometimes I wonder why our women here in nigeria are very easy to deceive, if you check, nigerian men are not the only one relocating with their wives, men from other countries and even africa relocate on daily basis, but hardly will you hear their women turn toxic and abusive over night, it's always nigeria women. Why?

Even in Nigeria, those toxic women that will influence her exist. Make sure you marry a woman that has a mind of her own, not a sheep.

If Nigerian men are the biggest simps, is it women fault? If a woman is a olosho, is it men’s fault? I understand say bad women exist, but men’s fault should not be blamed on women.

Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.
My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years. The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".
I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.
We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

So, are you here trying to take over your brother's marriage on his behalf or something?

Your brother chose this woman for a wife. paid for all he did, without a gun to his head. So, why are you trying to insert yourself into a situation that your brother clearly does not wish to remove himself from? Are you completely done dealing with the problems in your own life that you now feel you need to carry your brother's marriage for head as if you get power to do anything about it than your brother wey dey inside am?

As for money matters, did your brother explain to his wife that they need to redo their marriage contract, so she can begin spending some of her earnings on the marriage, too? Or is your brother like the many other Nigerians out there who feel that once the wife begins earning money, they are entitled to her contributing some of her money to the household, despite her being solely responsible for housewife-related duties?

Diamond098454:
➜Toxic relationship, toxic marriage is not good. Your brother can file for divorce

. We don't know for a fact that the situation is toxic, except that OP is attempting to paint it such without revealing enough detail at that. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
. We don't know for a fact that the situation is toxic, except that OP is attempting to paint it such without revealing enough detail at that. 🥱🥱🥱

you are right.

Op maybe hiding something