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Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

Bro you are very funny
So if I tell u to leave am u go leave am
Or if I tell u to continue u go continue
Bro u are very funny

U go de nack igbe girl or ogbange.....kai

cumoverna:
U go de nack igbe girl or ogbange.....kai

yes. What should I do about it bro?

Racheal45:
Bro you are very funny
So if I tell u to leave am u go leave am
Or if I tell u to continue u go continue
Bro u are very funny

Advise a confused bro please.

PureSperm:
Advise a confused bro please.

Bro I no go lie for u
Sometimes what you have is better than what is outside
If she tick all ur requirements go ahead
No advice is better than experience
Na only you know Watin u Dey pass through

cumoverna:
U go de nack igbe girl or ogbange.....kai

lol
Na u funny pass
Bro ur closest friend might be a witch
Na God Dey save us
Am telling u the truth

Racheal45:
Bro I no go lie for u
Sometimes what you have is better than what is outside
If she tick all ur requirements go ahead
No advice is better than experience
Na only you know Watin u Dey pass through

. Thank you so much.

Bro, if ur mind no accept am....

Does she even have interest in marrying you?


Meanwhile girls need to pee and wash after every bout of lovemaking

I don't know why our animalistic instincts take the best of us when choosing life partners.

Your cerebral cortex is showing you all the red flags but you still say No, you'll listen to your Limbic System.

Remember to be a Man with no regrets sha, Face every challenge head on without wallowing in past regrets.

Why you wan give am belle. When you never marry am

Run for your life brother before is too late I make your document look exactly how you want it or even better check my bio

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First question.. are you okay about marrying a traditionalist, do you their customs and rites in that family and traditions.

Hope you will have no problem in the fiture when you will be obligated to perform some traditional rites
Hope you wont be bothered about the superstitious belief and the traditional lifestyle of your wife to be.

If you are so interested in marrying her, why dont you confront her about her after sex behavior, it might be that she is trying to avoid unwanted pregnancy, just incase you wont be serious in owning up and taking responsiblity.

Think this through thoroughly.. be open about your suspicions.

If at this stage of your relationship, you are having this silly suspicion about her, when you guys finally get married, i hope other activities of hrs wont make you start questioning her if she behind your fall or success, because your mind might have been programmed to see traditional worshippers as evil...

think about it and tell yourself the plkain truth about your future

Nawa o!
Ain't you aware she's into traditional stuff before you started dating her?

Our elders say "Food wey you nor wan eat nor use your teeth bite am"



I was told they like fanta, make sure you give her fanta before/after nàcking.......Enjoy your oloku babe and stop disturbing people for advice....

josielewa:
, at times i just laugh at stories like this, dont know why

how's this funny please? O

Girl be washing the thing after the side guy donnit to prepare for the main guy

Sleeping with Iyemoja's daughter and don't want goddess children.

A clean woman should always do that after making out

She's cleaning up after s**. What's wrong with that. Every clean woman is supposed to clean up after s**. That will not stop her from getting pregnant if she wants to. Una too get wahala

Firstcitizen:
Girl be washing the thing after the side guy donnit to prepare for the main guy

. Is that possible? I've asked her what that means and she keep saying the reason she does that to protect infection. And this is someone who knows I don't sleep around with other ladies.

Juoflife1:
She's cleaning up after sex. What's wrong with that. Every clean woman is supposed to clean up after sex. That will not stop her from getting pregnant if she wants to. Una too get wahala

. I just want to know. No problem. Thanks alot.

Op which religion do you belong to?

U get mind o... U go de knack igbe babe. I've been in ughelli 2 years I never knack. I de fear. Almost every one na igbe. As igbo boy I cannot can biko

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.

which religion do you practice? Have you done fertility test,?

PureSperm:
yes. What should I do about it bro?

You are about to enter a covenant of endless misery without the possibility of return. What business has light with darkness? You know the truth and still want us to preach to you about it. Evil covenant is dangling on your head.

This is the exact mistake some men made and it shattered their destiny forever. The woman you married has a long way of influencing your success and happiness in life. If your mind is in doubt, please STOP any further action and bolt away before it's too late.

Daniel058:
Op which religion do you belong to?

I'm a Christian by religion.

What do you want your online in-laws to do now??
Abeg we dey find money no time advice 😒

A woman washing her p-part after sexx is normal..

Naustine:
U get mind o... U go de knack igbe babe. I've been in ughelli 2 years I never knack. I de fear. Almost every one na igbe. As igbo boy I cannot can biko

. . No be lie bro.... Almost every young banny for ughelli na igbe she dey serve